r/bisexual • u/Material-purple-9114 • 15h ago

ADVICE Help me please

Hey , I'm 23 m , and I think I'm bisexual, i come from a country that is soooo homophobic, and I didn't get the chance to searche or discover my true sexual Identity, and I feel kinda lost . lately I've been noticing my self that I might be bisexual , having fantasies about len and women , getting some dreams even , I thing il bisexual yet I don't know how to truly know , I don't know how to describe it really , but can anyone might help me , my dm is open to anypne that can help me.

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u/Material-purple-9114 15h ago edited 13h ago

Thank u , truly , it is scary , so scary for me , and I can't even think telling anyone

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u/Illustrious_Data7388 10h ago

Same here girl same

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u/Material-purple-9114 10h ago

I hope we find peace at last

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u/ldavis76 15h ago

I am right there with you. However, my journey lasted about 2 years and I realized without a shadow of a doubt that I am bisexual. I am sorry that you live in such a homophobic country. Even in my country the states, I have only come out to one person because I am afraid what other people will think of me. I mean people I am close to. Especially since I realized this so much later in life. I know it can get challenging and feel quite lonely but if you ever wanted to talk I am here

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u/HubbyCuddlebares 11h ago

I have known for a very long time that I am bisexual, It just took a long time for me to admit it and tell anyone else. For the longest time I even tried to shame myself into making myself straight(internalized homophobia at work) my mom was terribly religious. Best of luck to you buddy. Reddit is such a great resource and so much learning can be had here.

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u/Fluid-Highway5161 10h ago

I am an experienced gay man. I have counseled with bi curious & newly out bi men . If you want to talk to me or unload what’s going on with you, I will do my best to help you find ways to be comfortable within your SELF. It is critical, especially when you are newly transitioning. It’s best one on one & in person. But chances are you are not located proximal to where I live. (Dallas Tx.)
If you want we can discuss over the phone or internet. Whatever you are comfortable doing. Anything between us stays absolute PRIVATE. No one will ever know a syllable of any word you share with me. I am totally 100 % confidential with everything you tell me or we discuss! It is no one else’s business what we discuss in private between ourselves. I can’t help you if you don’t have trust or faith in my ability to keep private things totally private. But it is exactly who I am.
Thanks for reaching out Sir.
RESPECT !
SMD