r/bicycleculture • u/sinnerinwhite • 1h ago
Struggling to learn cycling
Hey guys! I’ve been trying to learn how to ride a bicycle for about 7–8 days now, but I’m still struggling with balance.
I can pedal and ride a little, but only when my mom holds the bike from behind. I feel more confident knowing she’s there, but the moment I realize she isn’t holding me anymore, I panic and lose my balance. I usually practice for about an hour a day.
Another problem is that I feel really shy and embarrassed riding in front of people. There’s no open space around my area, just a road with traffic almost all day, so I’m scared to practice alone and usually take one of my parents with me.
I know I’ve improved a little, but sometimes the bike suddenly swerves to one side even when my mom is holding it, and I don’t understand why. It’s frustrating because people around me seem to have learned in just 2–5 days, while I’m still struggling after a week.
Has anyone else gone through this? How did you learn to balance, and what helped you get over the fear of riding alone? I’d really appreciate any advice. Thank you!