spent majority of time working through a fun little project.

I've run a few accountability groups in the past, and they always fizzle out over time. Motivation and discipline are hard to keep up long term, especially when life gets in the way. So, after everything I've learned, I want to try something different. I genuinely want to find a solution that works.

What's helped me most isn't motivation. It's someone noticing when I disappear.

So I'm starting a small group:

- Pick 3 habits (small ones count)

- Join a pod of 4–5 people on Discord

- Check in daily: a message, photo or voice note

- Earn points for showing up consistently

To make it a bit more fun, I'm putting up $60 for the top score and $30 for the most improved at the end of the month. It's just a little extra motivation, though. Most of all, I want people who actually want to build their habits.

It's free and there's nothing to sell. It starts Mon 9 Nov and runs for 4 weeks. I'm keeping the first round to 10–15 people so everyone actually knows each other, so please only join if you'll genuinely show up.

If you're interested, comment the habit you're working on and I'll send you the details 🙂

I’m Charlie and a university student. I want some English chat. I’d like to introduce my English level. My English level is about B1. I can express myself most of time but my words and expressions are not natural and accurate. And my fluency rhymes and pronunciation and grammar is bad. I hope to have more chance to speak. I can speak with you in mandarin and maybe some help. Or just let’s talk with English to improve both of our English

I’m trying to finish a report, but I’m can’t really motivate myself and start doing other things.
I’d prefer someone with GMT +1 or +2 timezone.
It’d be via discord and a few times a weeks, depending on both our schedule.

I'm starting a small accountability group and I'm looking for 4 more people.

Who it's for: people who feel undisciplined and distracted, who want something big but keep getting in their own way. If that's you, read on.

How it works:

1. A group of 5 on a private Discord voice channel. Voice only, no typing.
2. One call a day at 14:30 UTC (8pm Delhi, 2:30pm London, 3:30pm Berlin, 10:30am New York until US clocks change on 1 Nov, then 9:30am). 25 minutes at most.
3. First, 1 minute each: did you do what you said yesterday, yes or no, and what you'll do today. Five minutes and the check-in is done.
4. Then it's open. If a discussion gets going, stay for the rest of the 25 minutes or drop off. Your call.
5. Honest tracking. Wins and misses both get said out loud and noted. A miss is noted, never mocked.
6. Nothing else. No selling, no links, no advice unless you ask for it. What's said in the group stays in the group.
7. You can stay anonymous if you like. Nobody asks anything about you.

The commitment: show up every day. Miss 3 days in a row and your seat goes to the next person. Leave whenever you want, no questions asked.

No cost, no catch, nothing to buy. English only, 13+ (Discord's rules). Any country, as long as 14:30 UTC works for you every day.

Want in? DM me and I'll send you a single-use invite. The group starts as soon as the first person is in.

EDIT: Solved! Thanks 😄

31F timezone UTC +13.

Recently lost my job and am struggling to maintain a healthy wake up schedule. Looking for someone for text or non-selfie-photo (e.g. clock/pet/view from the window etc) check-ins around 9:30am my time.

Happy to help with whatever you're needing accountability for in return.

DM if interested!

hoi, m35, EU-based. doing nofap hard mode or SR and getting consistent with the gym. also trying to stay a bit more present overall.

not looking to focus on urges, more interested in connecting with other guys around my age who are in a similar spot and committed to pushing themselves further. training talk or just chill open chats.

shoot me a dm if you’re up to see if we vibe ✌️

I'm looking for a study buddy who wants to study regularly, preferably every day. I feel like having someone to study with can help us stay consistent, motivated, and accountable. My Study Plan:

Study together on Google Meet or Discord for 1 hour.

1. Take a 10-minute break to discuss what we studied or talk about anything we like.
2. Repeat this for 3 study sessions, with a total of 3 hours of focused studying.
3. We can increase the number of sessions once we're both comfortable.
4. I'm looking for someone who is disciplined, motivated, and serious about achieving their goals. We'll share daily targets, track our progress, and keep each other accountable.

We can motivate each other, share our daily goals, check in on our progress, and push each other to keep going, especially on days when motivation is low. I'll do my best to motivate and support you too! 😊

A small clarification: I'm a male, and gender doesn't matter to me when choosing a study partner. However, if you're specifically looking for a female study partner, please don't DM me, as I want to respect both our time.

If you're genuinely interested, feel free to DM me. Let's stay consistent and achieve our goals together! 💪📖

continuing on my project. i was stuck on a problem today but was able to complete it.

Iam a 20F indian student in college. I Have been procrastinating and lagging behind a lot I would like to have a accountability partner with some sort of same intrest like mine atleast they should be in college and ready to commit most importantly do not ghost me 😭 iam learning programming skills and it's really tough for me to maintain consistency even for 2 days straight . If you are interested we can talk further. Thank you 🎀

Fap 1 time done

2 hours phone done

30 minutes study jp undone

Pry 3 times undone

Seems like a bad day but yesterday was terrible

Tomorrow I will discipline more

For day 6

2 hours phone

30 minutes study jp

Pry 3 times

1 fap per day

I'm gonna be doing some water fasts and am looking for an accountability partner so I can have accountability, preferably someone who is also fasting so we can keep each other accountable.

If you have any ideas on punishments for not committing, please comment. Ideas that worked for you personally would be the most helpful.

I am not studying anymore, but i have studied good enough. I just feel like i am stuck, even with capabilities.

Trying to find someone who can remind me to workout or ask my progress in work, as I everything planned but just keep delaying unnecessary. I can do the same for others if they want.

We can come up with plan, if someone sidetrack.

GMT +5:30

Hey people

I wanna find a partner/group for body doubling during workdays, timezone close to GMT-5 pls. My schedule is flexible.

Perfect scenario would be having 2x4 hrs work/study/etc. concentrated sessions per day + weekly goals review.

Currently looking for jobs, building ai projects, learning applied topics.

I love the personal growth vibe and wanna connect with similar people. Im blunt, ambitious and would like to see you succeed aswell. If you feel like a match, drop me a dm.

Thanks

Money on the line (optional)/ public goals / accountability. These are the main ideas behind my discord server that I named "Only for the weak". Money is completely optional btw, actually so far I am the only one that is putting that one as punishment 😅

I did get the idea from a book: participants were so pissed about giving money to someone they despised that they were much more likely to stick to their goals.

For myself I set up a 4 fasting day every week till December. For every day I fail 35€ will be sent to trump's political party.

So far I failed once and it really worked, I haven't skipped a day since. The pain of losing money is my stick 😂

If you do not wish to join the public server it is fine nonetheless, you can add me on discord and we will just keep each other accountable in DMs. Daily checking is more than enough.

My main goals before 31 december 2026 are to fast 4 days a week, advance my mechanical bike repair skills and throw / sell some of my possessions since I unfortunately have to move in 5 months. Your goals don't have to be in the same range ofc

Personality wise I am pretty chill and easygoing, and will be blunt if you are slacking off :P owning the server makes me feel like I am responsible for it, so you can be sure that I am active daily there, trying to keep people accountable and growing the community.

Username: Maxion94

Disc server: https://discord.gg/WF6GExdBWz (corrected) if you are interested ( I dislike chatting on reddit ).

The server is actually going quite well all considered, so if you want to help out and be accountable at the same time don't be afraid to join :D ).

working through a book while building a project.

Been stuck on a bug for nearly a day and finally asked AI. The fix was simple, but the lesson stuck: debugging is part of learning. I also worked on admin routes. Learning by building.

Hi,

I am looking for a dedicated and consistent study partner so we can study together.

Little bit about me - 30 M here with 7 years of corporate experience and an engineering degree from India's one of the best engineering college. I can keep you motivated and share my own life lessons with loads of patience.

Looking forward to connecting with someone who is serious to show up and grind.

Thank you for your time :)