r/Tulpas • u/Certain-Tadpole-8950 • 19h ago
I need help
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So, I’m just your average nerd from Russia. I don’t have any friends, let alone a girlfriend. It’s incredibly difficult for me to live without any kind of emotional connection to others. I’ve spent far more time with computers than I have with people.
About a year ago, I tried to create a tulpa, but I lacked the mental strength—I simply didn’t know what to talk about with her. At first, it seemed like things were going well; I even felt a response from her. But eventually, I just ran out of things to discuss, and that was the end of it. Could you give me some advice on how to come up with topics for conversation and how to motivate myself to spend time with a tulpa?
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u/UnicornScientist803 19h ago
Talk about anything you want. Or ask what she wants to talk about. Read together or play games or watch movies together. Anything you would want to do with a friend.
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u/Certain-Tadpole-8950 19h ago
And how are we supposed to watch movies together? Like, am I just supposed to watch and then mentally retell it to her? Sorry, but we can’t really have a meaningful conversation yet.
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u/UnicornScientist803 18h ago
Just imagine her sitting next to you and watching with you. Tulpas live in your mind, so anything that you experience she can experience with you.
My tulpa and I like to read together a lot. Obviously I’m the only one actually reading, but he can hear my thoughts so it’s like he’s reading along with me. We can talk about what we read and he’ll sometimes interrupt to make a comment on something, or I’ll pause to say something to him.
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u/Plastic-Register7823 19h ago
Talk about leaves around you or about recent world news. If you know Russian, I can give you a telegram channel where you could receive help on this topic.
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