Hi I am a 35 m looking for a woman around the same age to dm with until we get comfortable enough to follow socials. Or see where it goes

**Looking for a wife, not a situationship.*\*

Hello,

Dating is hard - please be kind to yourself and others as you go through this process.

I’m based in the Washington, DC / DMV area: 6’0”, broad-shouldered, active, educated, affectionate, and genuinely marriage-minded. I do not have children yet, but I would love to build a family with the right woman.

**What I want is simple, but rare:*\* a loving marriage, a warm home, children, loyalty, laughter, shared purpose, and a woman who feels deeply cherished in her role as wife and mother.

I’m drawn to a traditional relationship by choice. I’m happy to provide, protect, lead with intention, and create stability. I’m looking for a woman who finds meaning in femininity, motherhood, homemaking, family traditions, and being the heart of the home. I would be very open to a SAHM dynamic if that is what you truly want for yourself and our future family.

**A little about me:*\* I’m athletic and outdoorsy - rugby, soccer, hiking, swimming, basketball, running, and pretty much anything active. I’ve traveled to 60+ countries across 4 continents, speak 3+ languages, love theater, opera, symphony, live music, photography, gardening, cooking, dancing tango/ballroom/salsa, reading, and self-improvement. I also volunteer as a Big Brother and tutor because I care about children, family, and community.

**I’m romantic in a very real-life way**. I want the little moments: kids running to the door, dinner together, weekend adventures, bedtime stories, school plays, birthdays, slow kisses in the kitchen, and growing old with someone who still feels like home.

I should mention that while I’m seeking a traditional marriage, I believe a woman’s role should be chosen, not forced. I want a wife who wants this life because it brings her joy, peace, and purpose. I’m fairly liberal personally, though open to different views. What matters most to me is kindness, loyalty, emotional maturity, common sense, affection, family values, and a shared desire to build something lasting.

**You are:*\* single, feminine, approximately in the 18-31 years of age range, able to naturally have kids, emotionally available, communicative, affectionate, playful, family-oriented, and genuinely excited about marriage and motherhood. Ideally, you want children and are open to a larger family if we are blessed with one. You value homemaking, nurturing, loyalty, romance, and being with a man who will adore you, support you, and still flirt with you like he’s trying to win you every day.

Chemistry matters to me, including physical chemistry, but I believe that belongs in a respectful private conversation after trust is built. I’m looking for mutual desire, affection, loyalty, and a strong intimate connection with my future wife — not pressure, games, or anything casual.

I’m based in Washington, DC / DMV. I’m open to someone willing to relocate here, and I may consider relocating for the right woman.

**When you message me, tell me a little about yourself:*\* your age, location, what kind of family life you dream of, whether you want children, what draws you to a traditional relationship, and what makes you smile on an ordinary Tuesday.

Please include **“SpokaneWA”*\* so I know you read the post.

If you’re warm, family-minded, affectionate, and ready for the kind of love that turns a house into a home, I’d love to hear from you.

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SPOKANE

Love to travel, hike, outdoor sports

Handsome

Genuine

Single

Need a beautiful friend inside and out

Gr8 quality conversation and friend

No Drama

I am happy

Looking for hot guys to chat with 20 to 35 range. Super lonely

I have 2 tickets to the Candlelight show 10/30 @ falls penthouse. It seems I have been ghosted. (No communication in 8 days after 7 dates). I don't want to waste the seats or my money.

No commitment to anything. I'm single, 43m mixed race 6'1 180#, hetero (ally for all) Divorced 11 months ago, would prefer female company to enjoy the show but I'll go with anyone who has an open mind. I have a reservation for dinner that evening that anyone interested can discuss with me in dms.

Again, I'm not asking for anything. Whoever sits next to me gets to see a cool show. (I've been to a few, really cool).

Hello all, 27M. Not sure where to turn. I have an extra ticket to the chiefs game tonight if anyone wants to accompany me. Just message me or comment with any questions.

42m4f

Any wemon want to just get out and have fun hit me up

I’m 40, recently moved to the Newport area, and have been single for a few years now. I’ve gotten pretty good at doing life on my own, but I’ve realized something lately… doing everything alone gets old.

So here’s my slightly unconventional proposal: Anyone want to practice playing house?

I’m talking dinner dates, casino, movies, gaming, spontaneous adventures, lazy evenings watching Netflix, or just having someone to hang out with on a random Tuesday. The kind of companionship where we can enjoy each other’s company without feeling like there’s a checklist of expectations to meet.

I’m not looking for a hookup, a roommate, or someone to take care of me. I’ve got my own life and enjoy my independence. I just think life would be a little more enjoyable with someone to share parts of it with.
Ideally, you’re somewhere between 30 and 50, reasonably local to Newport, Spokane, or CDA, and in a similar place in life. Someone who enjoys their independence but occasionally misses having a person to do things with.

I’m not in a rush to jump into a serious relationship, but I’m not opposed to one either. If there’s chemistry and something naturally develops, great. If we simply enjoy each other’s company and become good friends, that’s great too.
No pressure, no expectations, and definitely no need to plan a wedding after the second dinner. Just two adults enjoying each other’s company and seeing where things go.

And honestly? It would be nice to have someone to look forward to seeing again.

So, what do you think our first pretend date should be? My DMs are open. Don’t be shy, come say hi.

28 M visiting from LA. Been looking to play some board games and have a few drinks, this rain really sucks.

Late night play lets have fun

If you are around spokane and want to meet.

I need cuddle buddy dm me

I’m a single mother looking for someone to connect with and eventually meet for coffee and/or drinks. Message me:) (please no anatomy pics)

Any one on Oahu

Whhhhy hello there, I’m looking for someone in Washington to go on a night drive with. Maybe go to the beach and look at the reflection of the night sky off the water. Look at the stars, on a cold beautiful winter night. I am literally craving this. If cars are a thing for you, even better 😬🚘
Send me your favorite place to go on a drive! I love the backroads

Please be yourself. I enjoy a little goofiness.
(25 or older)

I am a t0nyear old male that has been through it and just looking for a real relationship. One that is full of respect love and where we could stay through anything. I am not the best I have been through drug addiction prison jail divorce. All that is behind me though and I am really looking forward to the good stuff life has to offer. I don't have much to bring to the table except a broken heart and a lot of baggage. I personally think the right woman could mend my broken heart by showing me love and being NICE to me HAS BEEN 19 YRS since I have been single I am not sure how this is supposed to go. Thank you for reading this far