r/SpokaneSFWDating • u/lil_bow_peeps • Sep 27 '26
42f 4M
Going to be honest, I have been independent/single for so long dating seems exhausting now.
It would be nice having someone to text throughout the day that responds more than just when he wants to get laid. Occasionally grab a drink and’s just chat with. Maybe go do some activities together. Happy hour? (I’m more of a social drinker but love half priced apps) Even sometime to go walk at parks with?
Doubtful much we’ll come from this but I’m also a homebody so don’t really have other ways of meeting people and being the 3rd, 5th and 7th wheel at times is a bit old now
2: sending a message of “hi” and having nothing show on your profile I’m not even opening the messages
No younger than 33 no older than 53 🙂
Please provide description in message and age do not just send “Hi” or “Hey” no I’m not going outside my age boundaries
*Reddit being Reddit my other account was banned so yes it’s me.
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u/ConsistentSnow7459 Sep 28 '26
How you gonna tell the inquiring men to have description and blank profiles is deal breaker. When that’s all you giving us? lol sorry not to be a dick but I’m mad curious bout this haha
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u/lil_bow_peeps 29d ago
🙂 I’m “gonna” say that bc it’s my posting. Keep scrolling if you don’t like it. I’m not too concerned
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u/Putrid_Mud_1576 Sep 27 '26
Hello. I'm John, 48. I like to think of myself as good company I don't have a lot going on in my life right now but I I do all the things you listed I am available on the phone and I'm even a little charismatic some might say.
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u/FlanRevolutionary536 Sep 27 '26
I wish I live in Spokane. If you ever in the Seattle-Tacoma area hit me up.
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u/Few_Flight_8084 Sep 27 '26
Hey. How's your Sunday? Check me out and let me know if you might wanna talk.
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u/Lanky_Employment_511 Sep 27 '26
Hi I know how you feel ..on the drink side I would love to grab a drink and just talk if your down for it
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u/Feeling-Market-4698 Sep 28 '26
Sad, I love older women but you wouldn't take me since I'm 22, but I guess it was worth shooting my chance
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u/hjustImperfect Sep 27 '26
Well that sucks I already lost cuz I'm 60 yeah well can't all be perfect you sound nice now I'd love to meet you get with you oh yeah I wake up but that way I can't help it I love a good woman 5'9 brown hair blue eyes little bit overweight well I fell from my tree a few months back and been trying to get my leg working better it's been kind of slow you tell me not to do nothing in that sucks anyways I don't know what to say to you except you sound like we would get along but what do I know LOL I hope you have a good rest of the weekend and I'll probably be back cuz I do live alone and really don't have anyone get back if you're bored nope here comes my cat I didn't look for this one he came to me open my car door he jumped in on my lap I'm like what the hell and he won't leave and so I got him LOL I'd rather have you just saying you know why see you later
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u/Dense_Spot47 27d ago
Did you find the one yet? I’m a home body as well. I would also be down to message through out the day and get to k ow each other it’s been a while for me and I definitely missed intimacy. Hit me up if you would like to chat.
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u/lil_bow_peeps 29d ago
You’re a F and my posting states I’m looking for male. I don’t understand why you would message me
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u/jdubb98366 Sep 27 '26
I am not sure how many responses you will recive because of the blatant double standard. Your profile is private but you want to to read my whole book before you respond. Good luck 👍.