Reddit’s not the best for organizing anything offline. I wish I’d met some like-minded season ticket holders, but one of its charms is its anonymity. Feel free to DM me, we'll putter around in Willie Mays Plaza before the games this week.
I’ve written a few posts here. One about emailing your local representatives, one about “picnic protesting,” and very recently one about how Gabe Kapler is a mensch, comparatively speaking.
We went to the game the night after the inaugural ride of “Rainbow Roupp.” We bought tickets right behind the dugout, wore Pride gear, and brought some pretty mild signs. “Love Thy Neighbor” and “No Homophobia on Our SF Giants.” We know that Hentges, Walker, and Haase the catcher saw them. We made them for the players to see, no one else. Meaning we didn’t flash them intentionally in our section. Though staff in the Platinum Club gave us smiles, thumbs ups, and one said thank you and was excited we brought signs.
I talked to a fellow fan prior to the game who was sitting a few rows back of Larry Baer. She saw my Love Thy Neighbor sign, claimed Walker was a good kid, and that she’d recently prayed with him. I told her I was glad. I grew up Methodist, and asked her what denomination she was. She demurred and went back to her seat.
Sitting that close for the first time ever, I realized many of these players are young adults, kids really, and certainly not theologians. And in pro sports, the days of coaches teaching life lessons are largely over. After all, you can play in an empty high school gym or field because the game itself is the point. The moment you go pro, the fans in the seats are the point. You’re an entertainer now. You’re being paid to play for others, not just yourself. Maybe they’re just not mature enough yet to realize you don’t insult the people you’re paid to play for.
I’m not the center of the story. I’m writing simply as a concerned fan, someone who goes to 50 plus games a year because they love baseball. More when the A’s were in Oakland. As entertainment goes, baseball is a pretty good one. It’s not that anymore, at least not right now.
What I do know is the following:
- The Giants will try to outrun this over media cycles.
- There will be consistent attempts to belittle and minimize fans who’ve felt betrayed by the team. We've already seen plenty of this. It will continue.
- The revenue generated by fans who go to games is the cherry on top compared to revenue generated by TV, online, etc. We’re symbolic. A perception issue. We don’t pay player salaries.
All this feels kind of, well, shitty.
If anything, what this has done is given me even more respect for the boycotts and protests A’s fans put together. It was singularly the best fan-led movement US professional sports has ever seen. I don’t know how to do that here, however, and I’m certainly not the one to lead it. I’m not even sure the same tactics would work.
But here’s what we plan to do:
- We’ll continue to not spend money at the stadium. (We're already on the hook for our full season package.)
- We’ll continue to bring signs, wear Pride gear, and boo, sadly, our own players where appropriate.
- We hope someone here knows of a planned protest, a season ticket holder, or an organizing meeting.
- Not give up.
- As of now, withhold our season ticket renewal.
We realize now that our fandom of this team is irrevocably changed. And regardless of what the PR geniuses within the Giants organization think, something fractured over the past couple of weeks. While the impact won’t show up in the aggregate the organization is undoubtedly weaker today for what’s occurred.
In that regard, our collective protest efforts so far have been successful. And at the same time, the cost paid by the fans, LBGTQ+ fans, for it has been far greater.
That’s the greatest shame of all.
Regardless, I’ll never stop listening to Jon Miller & Dave Flemming. You don’t get a living Picasso & Van Gogh together in the same room very often.
Unfortunately, all they have to work with right now are various shades of brown.