r/PhilosophyofReligion • u/West_Fee_4568 • 1h ago
Free will If God already knows everything about our lives, how much free will do we actually have?
I grew up Catholic, went to Catholic school, and still consider myself Catholic today, although I'll admit I'm not the most devoted one. This isnt just for catholics its a pretty universal question I think can be aplied directly or indirectly to any religion. I always had questions and intrusive thoughts about life, God, and religion that have made it difficult for me to fully accept everything I've been taught. It's not that I don't believe in God, maybe deep down I dont but I think I do. but there's always something in the back of my mind that makes me question All religion and meaning of life in general which Ithink about almost every second.
Anyways I was thinking about something that I haven't really been able to wrap my head around.
From what I was taught , God has a plan for each of us before we're even born(I belive in all Abrahamic religions). He knows everything about us, including the circumstances we'll be born into, the people we'll meet, the environments we'll grow up in, and ultimately how our lives will unfold.
But here's where I start to question things.
From the moment we're born, we're constantly absorbing everything around us. The things we see, hear, experience, and are taught all contribute to shaping our personalities, beliefs, values, and the way we think. Nobody chooses the family they're born into, the environment they're raised in, or the experiences that shape them during their most influential years. Yet all of these things thathappen every second determine who we become and the decisions we make throughout our lives.
According to Catholicism and other religions, when we die, God judges us based on how we lived, the sins we committed, our beliefs, and whether we accepted Him. Ultimately, this determines whether we go to Heaven, Hell, or Purgatory.
So my question is, if God already knows everything about us before we're born, including every thought we'll have, every sin we'll commit, and whether or not we'll eventually accept Him, then how much free will do we actually have?
If God knows exactly what circumstances we'll be born into, how those circumstances will shape our minds, and ultimately what decisions we'll make, then wouldn't He already know our fate before we even enter the world?
For example, someone born into a deeply religious Catholic family will likely develop a completely different understanding of God than someone born into an atheist family or a society where Christianity or any religion is hardly practiced. Lets say like North Korea where they wont even get the chance to know any religion. Neither person chose those circumstances, yet those circumstances could heavily influence whether they believe in God and how they live their lives.
And if God created us knowing all of this beforehand, why would He place someone into a life He already knows will lead them to reject Him or commit certain sins, only to judge them for those decisions afterward?
I understand that Catholicism teaches we have free will, but I struggle to understand how that fits with the idea of an all-knowing God who has a plan for everyone. If our minds are shaped by circumstances we never chose, and God already knows exactly how we'll respond to those circumstances, in what sense are our decisions truly free?
I'm not trying to disprove God or attack Catholicism. I'm genuinely trying to understand this because it's something that's bothered me for a long time. I still consider myself Catholic, but questions like this have always made it difficult for me to fully embrace my faith.
I'm curious how other people interpret this....