r/Montessori • • Aug 18 '26

Montessori philosophy Montessori with Integrity – DEI and ABAR Practices as Essential to Quality Program Implementation

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In Part 1 of “Montessori with Integrity,” we asked what makes a Montessori program authentic, what it means to claim fidelity to Montessori pedagogy. Specifically, we looked at a number of factors to consider when determining the quality of program implementation, including the core elements as outlined by The Montessori Public Policy Initiative (MPPI):

  • prepared environment
  • materials
  • uninterrupted daily work periods
  • high degree of freedom
  • 3-year mixed age groups
  • higher adult-child ratios and group sizes
  • Montessori trained teachers

While the list is fairly straightforward, we found that evaluating fidelity of implementation to each element is less so. Adding materials or using a less-than-full complement of Montessori materials, for example, may render a classroom or program inauthentic in the strictest definition of the word (Lillard and McHugh 2019), but it remains an open question whether programs containing variations of Montessori’s original view are necessarily inferior. Furthermore, if a program is deemed to be inauthentic because of supplementary or absent materials, can it still be implemented with integrity? (We’ll come back to materials later in this piece.) The nuanced distinctions—not to mention different perspectives—between authentic, high fidelity, and integrity make these questions difficult to answer.

One difficulty lies in evaluating the implementation of those elements of Montessori’s writings and philosophy that don’t have a row on the rubric or in the list above. Implementing the principles of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) and anti-bias, antiracism (ABAR), for example, is fundamental to Education for Peace and, as such, would seem to be essential to a high-fidelity Montessori program where teacher preparation, curriculum, and materials are concerned. We focus on this area in this installment of “Montessori with Integrity.”

Teacher Preparation for the Implementation of DEI and ABAR Principles

We noted in Part 1 of this series that diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) work, together with anti-bias, antiracist (ABAR) practices, are inherent in Montessori philosophy, but are not necessarily implemented in every classroom. While DEI and ABAR were not part of Montessori’s lexicon, the principles they represent were and are foundational to her philosophy of Peace Education, as many readers may be aware. The premise of Montessori’s Peace Education is that “the young child is fundamental to the peace and progress of humanity” (2019). From this and other ideas in her writing, it is reasonable to surmise that Montessori would have recognized that DEI and ABAR principles were essential “to the peace and progress of humanity” and would have, therefore, advocated for their place in Peace Education. Then why is this only now coming to the attention of many in the Montessori community? Let’s explore this question.

Most Montessori classrooms include the following elements as part of Education for Peace:

  • respectful interactions
  • cooperation and collaboration
  • peaceful conflict resolution

And most include lessons and materials that promote awareness of and appreciation for a range of cultures and the people who comprise those cultures:

  • Fundamental needs of humans
  • Timeline of civilizations
  • Study of a continent
  • Multicultural events and celebrations
  • Global citizenship projects

Some Montessori teachers legitimately believe that this is enough. Indeed, why is it not? This work takes place external to the teacher; and as Jeannot Rene Jonte remarked (in Oesting and Speed 2019):

These thoughts get to the root of Montessori’s directive for the teacher to:

Montessori did not expressly write about recognizing one’s implicit bias, nor about practicing culturally responsive pedagogy, but we can infer from her directive that she meant for teachers to look inward and, among other things, do the hard work of “lean[ing] into our own transformation by hearing the personal truths of diverse voices from our community and beyond” (Oesting and Speed 2019). And while it is true that many Montessori schools, both private and public, are engaging their staffs in DEI and/or ABAR training to some degree, teachers must still do the individual work of Montessori’s mandate—a systematic study of self that involves “reflecting on our understanding around our notions of difference and how we perceive people who are different from us” (Gay in Peters 2019).

Some individuals embark on this work alone; others require the support of a mentor or group. Such work may take one or more directions, for example:

Other Montessori organizations also offer a range of support measures—peer connections, tools, training, and professional learning:

Through whatever form an individual chooses to pursue this work, the thoughtful cultivation and internalization of cultural competence “expands the capacity of educators to serve students from diverse cultural and ethnic backgrounds,” helping to reduce disparities that occur between different groups of students when it comes to:

  • school discipline policies
  • teacher expectations
  • students identified as “at risk”
  • attendance rates
  • the returns of education

By ignoring the important work of Montessori’s mandate, we run the risk of perpetuating these inequities.

Finally, it is important to remember that while some tend to think of culture in terms of ethnic or national groups, culture also includes race, gender, sexuality, abilities, or class, and often the intersection of two or more of these categories, as well as others.

Culturally Relevant Curriculum and Materials

In addition to the personal work described above, the teacher is also responsible for ensuring that the materials and lessons are culturally relevant to and representative of the students in their classroom. As we saw in the previous section, some Montessori materials and lessons promote a multicultural awareness of and appreciation for differences. This is not a guarantee, however, that these are culturally inclusive; it may be that some of our students don’t see themselves represented in books and other classroom materials.

In an earlier piece on the power of literature, for example, we pointed out that, at times, relevant voices are missing from a story, or certain perspectives have been silenced. In these cases, it is often appropriate for the teacher to carefully guide a discussion, giving voice to students who feel unheard, unseen, or erased. This is especially important for older students, who are developmentally ready to read and think critically about why and how these omissions occur in some pieces of literature.

We might also have non-fiction books and Montessori-certified materials that give a culturally inaccurate, incomplete, or inappropriate account of history. What are the implications of this if we are, in fact, using authentic Montessori materials? Do we teach with integrity if our lessons, books, and materials do not engage diverse and/or underrepresented populations? These are questions that need to be considered when evaluating a program’s fidelity to Montessori core values.

Maati Wafford, AMS director of equity & engagement, makes the following important point:

While some teachers may be informed enough to navigate these waters—to sift through their materials and books and evaluate the impact of their lessons—many others need guidance and support in the form of mentorship, training, or other professional development. Readers are encouraged to avail themselves of the range of resources and support measures provided by the major Montessori organizations listed in the previous section.

Are New Criteria Needed for Assessing Fidelity to a Culturally Responsive Pedagogy?

Given the importance of DEI and ABAR work, and of a culturally inclusive curriculum, do we need criteria for assessing the degree of fidelity to this aspect of Montessori pedagogy? Moreover, should such an important area be considered an essential element of Montessori education? What tools do educators have for assessing their personal, classroom-related, and school-wide progress of their practice in this area?

We have established that the implementation of DEI and ABAR are essential to Peace Education, and Peace Education is an important element of the Montessori curriculum. Yet neither curriculum in general, nor the more specific components of curriculum like Peace Education are included in the:

This may be because Montessori education has always been thought of as culturally relevant; its global presence in a multiplicity of cultures for over one hundred years would seem to make it so. But that umbrella might not cover as much area as we thought, and here we find ourselves circling back to our big question. Is it enough to offer a curriculum that fosters appreciation for a multicultural world if, in the end, we neither represent nor engage marginalized students in our classrooms?

One could interpret “embrac[ing] core Montessori principles” to include the important work of implementing DEI and ABAR principles and, indeed, the American Montessori Society has incorporated requirements for the inclusion of ABAR topics in its teacher education programs and school accreditation standards. Individual schools are also taking important first steps by including this work in staff training and professional development. But the question remains—in these times more than ever—whether this work should be elevated and spelled out more clearly when assessing program fidelity, when evaluating whether we are, truly, practicing Montessori with integrity.


r/Montessori • • Jun 29 '20

Montessori: A Getting-Started Guide!

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We get so many similar questions on r/Montessori, and at last we have a getting-started guide!

What is Montessori? Montessori is more than buying wooden toys, getting a floor bed, having Montessori lessons at home, even sending your child to a Montessori school. To fully embody the Montessori philosophy requires a knowledge of the method as well as fundamental perspective shift on the nature of childhood. It's an understanding of the young child's powerful absorbent mind and their capacity to teach themselves, rather than the old view that a child is an empty vessel to be filled. It's having a deep respect of the child and the work they do to develop themselves, which we as adults can guide but do not teach. Montessorians know the essential Montessori principles of the absorbent mind, sensitive periods, and the four planes of development, and use this to in our work to best support child development. Montessorians appreciate the importance of stepping back and observing the child, they recognize what true concentration looks like, but they also understand the delicate balance between (internal) freedom and discipline, and providing liberty within limits.

Montessori is education for life. Montessori is education for the individual child, society, and the world.

So, if you're just discovering Montessori, welcome. Your journey begins here!

Read:

Online reading:

What is Montessori Education? by the Montessori Northwest AMI Training Center

WHAT IS MONTESSORI EDUCATION? | ABOUT MARIA AND AMI | WHY TEACH MONTESSORI? | INSIDE A CLASSROOM | FOR PARENTS | RESEARCH & PUBLICATIONS

Research post on r/Montessori: https://www.reddit.com/r/Montessori/comments/1dgyhhk/montessori_scientific_research_articles_and/

Montessori Daoshi: beautifully written articles on Montessori theory and practice

Baan Dek Montessori: another great resource for both teachers and parents - blog and podcast

Mariamontessori.com: a project by the Montessori Administrators Association, with articles written by a variety of Montessorians

The American Montessori Society Records

The Montessori Notebook: wonderful resource for parents of younger children

The Kavanaugh Report: Montessori Parenting

Aid to Life: practical tips for parents at home

The Montessori Guide: in-depth explanation about the Montessori philosophy and practical application of the method, from infancy through elementary

Mainly Montessori: a blog written by an AMI Primary- and Elementary-trained teacher navigating homeschooling

Considering Montessori? Here's what to look for

What makes a Montessori school authentic? A step-by-step checklist

What You’ll See in a Great Montessori School

Is Montessori right for my child?

Montessori vs. Daycare: What is the Difference for Your Child?

The Benefits of Montessori Education: A Comprehensive Guide

The Importance of the Three-Year Cycle: source 1, source 2, source 3 by Catherine McTamaney

Positive Phrasing- how to talk to your children

How do children learn?

At Home With Montessori - A Visual Guide

Montessori Collective: Montessori and the Science of Reading - for teachers and homeschooling parents

The Ultimate Guide to Montessori at Home

Maren Schmidt parenting talks

McClure's and Other Early Magazine Montessori Articles

r/Montessori 's Montessori at home post during the covid closures

Don't forget about the larger goal of Montessori education

Books:

Montessori: The Science Behind the Genius – Angeline Lillard (an entire book of Montessori theory backed up by tons of contemporary research studies)

Understanding the Human Being - Silvana Montanaro

Montessori for Every Family - Lorna McGrath & Tim Seldin

Montessori and Early Childhood Education – Susan Feez

Montessori Madness – Trevor Eisler

Montessori Learning in the 21st Century: A Guide for Parents & Teachers – Shannon Helfrich

Montessori and Your Child: A Primer for Parents – Terry Malloy

Montessori Today – Paula Polk Lillard

Montessori: A Modern Approach – Paula Polk Lillard

Montessori from the Start – Paula Polk Lillard (great book, but a caveat about this one: very rigid on certain topics in ways that do not entirely align with Maria Montessori's writings, e.g. weaning and baby wearing)

Understanding Montessori – Maren Schmidt

The Montessori Toddler – Simone Davies (now also has published The Montessori Baby and The Montessori Child)

The Joyful Child: Montessori, Global Wisdom for Birth to Three – Susan Mayclin Stephenson

Babies Build Toddlers – Mariana Bisonette

Children Who Are Not Yet Peaceful – Donna Goertz

Hunt Gather Parent – Michaeleen Doucleff (not Montessori but very Montessori-aligned)

Books by Dr. Maria Montessori herself:

If you're a Montessori guide: all of them ;)

The Montessori Method - Chapter Summaries & Key Insights

If you're a parent getting started:

The Child in the Family

What You Should Know About Your Child

The Secret of Childhood

The Absorbent Mind

1946 London Lectures

Listen:

Baan Dek Montessori

The Montessori Notebook

AMI (Association Montessori Internationale)

All Things Montessori

Episode: What is Montessori, Anyway?

Watch:

Montessori Guide

Being a Montessori Teacher

Montessori Age Levels, Explained

Rising Tide Montessori videos

Montessori Institute of North Texas

Montessori Parenting

Blooming Hearts Montessori - not as a replacement to teacher training, but to learn about some of the Montessori didactic materials and how they are presented

Edison's Day

My Day: experience the Montessori approach through three primary children as they journey through their morning work periods

A Montessori Morning

Montessori vs. Conventional School

Montessori on the Double

General courses and workshops (not teacher certification courses):

Trillium Montessori

Center for Guided Montessori Studies

Seton Montessori Institute

Montessori Institute of North Texas

Montessori Northwest

Please feel free to add any more resources you find useful in the comments! Are there any aspects of getting started with Montessori that you feel are missing here? Let us know! :)


r/Montessori • • 1h ago

Montessori teacher training/jobs Montessori Teachers, I need your help

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I am in school to become a teacher (alt route) and my main goal is high school. But, every place i’ve interviewed at said I need more experience. A good friend of my families works at a tuition free Montessori and recommended I apply there as I love working with kids and I have a bit of experience in that age through substituting.

The position is for a 1-3rd teacher.

Montessori teachers (especially ones that were raised public), do you like your job? Would you recommend it? What does your day to day life look like?

The lowest age range i’ve worked with was 4th graders, but this was in a traditional public school with desks and writing and tests. Montessori is a whole new ballgame for me, and there’s not a ton of information out there from a teaching perspective.

Is it weird switching to a Montessori style of teaching from a traditional public school? Anything you despise and/or like?

I’m open to the idea of it, I just have no experience working with a more free lifestyle. I’ve long-term substituted for over 4 years so I am not new to being a teacher and leading a classroom, but it was mainly teenagers I worked with.

Does everyone get a co-teacher? I am used to leading by myself, but I do revel in the idea that there is someone to support.

I love the idea of teaching elementary school, but the differences from Montessori to Public is throwing me off. I really like the idea of it because it’s tuition-free for my kiddos in low-income areas, unlike most charters around me. But, not many places will hire someone working on their certificate. Being an assistant or substituting isn’t really on the table as I need to be able to afford my house (not in it for the money, but i do need a roof over my head).

I would appreciate any and all insight on this. My main goal is still high school, but I’m not opposed to switching gears if I come to love this. I just don’t want to jump headfirst without gathering all information.


r/Montessori • • 1h ago

0-3 years First Montessori Parent - Teacher Conference. What to Expect?

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My 20 month old son is in a Montessori toddler classroom, and we have our first parent-teacher conference in a couple of days. It’s only 20 minutes, so I’m wondering how these meetings usually go. Should I mainly let the lead guide share her observations, or come prepared with questions?
What are some good questions to ask at this age? Any advice from Montessori parents or guides would be appreciated!


r/Montessori • • 13h ago

Transition in/out of a Montessori school Assistant vs lead issues, need advice

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Hi. I'm new to Montessori and am the current colead in my classroom. I'm not trained in Montessori but working on it while my colead is trained in Montessori but out on maternity leave (haven't even met her yet). My questions are around lead vs assistant teacher.

My assistants are not following my lesson planning, every time I rearrange the class to fit licensing protocols and make it a more cohesive environment they change it back. I put out works to follow the lesson plan, they change it to something they chose or take back what I did. One of my assistants doesn't set boundries well and allows a child to hang on her crying every day, confusing the other kids cause they can't for example leave the classroom without asking but the other child can, or they can't use a chair because the assistant teacher protects this little girl who demands and tantrums over the one chair. This assistant mostly ignores me when I tell her that if she was more firm the child would adjust and it would be more fair to the whole class (I've also seen it work, when this teacher is out and it's just me, the child listens to boundaries well but it starts over the moment the assistant comes back). The other assistant (evening only) constantly reorginizes the room, I can't have anything how I want it, she changes it back. Which is weird because she's never here for activity time and the day assistant told me "you're here now, it's your classroom, change it how you want". I tried talking to them both, I'm making some way with my day assistant but the other flat out told me she finds it not workable for the room that I change without real context or just says mhm- mind you she's a part time closer and the book shelf I moved is to cover open loose cords everyone seems to ignore is a liscencing violation and unsafe for the kids. That was our argument today and she said "I feel like it's not safe because I can't see the kids" - but it's a 2 foot high book shelf and the kids don't even use it during her shift, it also worked fine for me during the day cause I can pretty clearly see the kids myself.

I don't know what I'm doing. I honestly feel like I'm not a lead, I have no control over what happens in my classroom and all my work for lesson planning and prepping seems to be disrespected- which I do off the clock cause there's never time on the clock to do so. I know I'm following the lead job assignment, it says in the handbook I cover circle time, boundary setting, classroom environment and lesson planning. That my assistants are there to help me and I direct them to what I need. But my assistants both constantly take over leading and redo every effort I put in. And talking to the one evening assistant literally does nothing, I'm shut down, it goes right over her head. I'm just confused. In Montessori is it different how a lead vs assistant work together? I don't mind team work But that's not happening, no one's letting me know or asking me about what they're doing. And truthfully, I've never followed an assistant as a lead before, I'm used to them following my lead or coworking a plan together. I'm used to being the one to take on a lot of the parent conversation, the lesson planning, and rearranging the environment. It's kinda making me hate working this job at this point. Every time they're out sick or on leave, it's all goes fine but when they come back we clash a lot or they ignore me.

I will say for context I hear the colead of mine didn't do all her duties and when she got pregnant was sick often so I'm aware my assistants are used to leading, but even when I say - ok I'm gonna take over- it doesn't get recieved well and I'm at a loss. Being so new I feel a little bad going to the bosses but I'm thinking it may be my only option now.

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Lead for toddlers- 2/3yrs old


r/Montessori • • 1d ago

0-3 years Open cup help

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I’m sorry if this is a dumb question!

I’m teaching my baby to drink from an open cup right now. It’s going well, but the only thing I can’t wrap my head around is how to keep him dry in his highchair. I’ve used a dish towel on his lap but it’s not really helping. He wears the silicone pocket bib and while most of the time it gets the majority of the fallen water, he still has a damp diaper by the end of it. He is obviously uncomfortable which leads me to end his feeding session early.
Are there any tips on how to keep their laps dry? Bigger towel or is there something else I could try?
TYIA


r/Montessori • • 20h ago

What does the Montessori Nido infant program have that other daycares don't?

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r/Montessori • • 21h ago

AIO over teachers and parents' comment?

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r/Montessori • • 1d ago

0-3 years Not sure if this is the right place for this question, but i bought some montessori kitchen utensils for my toddler, and this came with it, but idk what the heck it is!! Can someone tell me how to use it please?

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r/Montessori • • 1d ago

Will My Easily Distracted 3-Year-Old Eventually Develop Better Focus in Montessori?

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Parents of Montessori kids: Did your easily distracted 3-year-olds eventually grow out of it?

My son is 3 and has been attending a Montessori school for a while now. He is a very social, outgoing, happy child with excellent language skills and a great memory. He loves interacting with people, remembers names easily, and is generally gentle and easygoing.

However, his teachers have mentioned that he gets distracted during the work cycle and sometimes needs reminders to get started with an activity. He also seems to struggle with sustaining attention and participating consistently in individual work.
For example, his teacher mentioned that he was doing a pin-punching activity but got distracted and had difficulty staying with the work.

At home, he doesn’t seem particularly interested in sitting down for activities like puzzles, coloring, blocks, or other typical tabletop toys. He prefers being in kitchen with us and helping with his toddler tower, being active, exploring things, and interacting with people.

I know he is only 3, and I understand that attention spans and independence develop gradually. However, hearing feedback about distraction and focus has made me wonder whether this is simply a developmental phase or something that might continue as he grows.

I’d love to hear from parents whose children were similar at age 3:
- Did your children eventually develop better focus and the ability to complete individual work independently?
- Did they become more interested in traditional Montessori materials, such as pin punching, puzzles, and practical life activities, as they got older?
-Did the Montessori environment help them develop these skills over time, or did you find that your child simply had a different learning style?

I’m not looking to label him or compare him with other children. I genuinely want to understand what is developmentally typical at this age and whether I should simply give him time or be more proactive in helping him develop these skills.
I’d especially appreciate hearing from parents whose children were very active and easily distracted at 3 but eventually settled into their work cycles. What did that progression look like?


r/Montessori • • 2d ago

Pincer grip

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Hi!

I have a student in the 3-6 age group who uses a pencil between his index and middle fingers. For those of you who have been teaching far longer than I have, would you correct this grip? I’m seeing some places on the internet calling it a “monk’s grip” and saying it’s legitimate and adaptive for the pincer grip, but I wanted to make sure. Thank you so much for your insight!


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

Two months into kindergarten and child struggling

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My daughter has a short stay in Montessori pre school, then was in a low ratio play based daycare for two years before starting K. We put her into a charter Montessori school, and we see her making friends and excited to tell us about what he has learned.

But she also tells us daily she doesn’t like school, and the head guides tells us of tears frequently throughout the day. She cries at drop off. She talks about no knowing what to do, and not liking that there are only two teachers (at daycare there were four or five for the same number of kids).

I’m torn. I think the independence Montessori fosters is good for her, but I find myself wondering if the pedagogy is a good fit for her temperament. I wonder how long to wait to see if she adjusts - this week we had the first time of pretending to be sick to avoid going to school, and when I talk to her she tells me she likes it less than at the beginning. I think she feels lost when she is to choose a new activity, and that she wants more direct feedback, or at least is used to that.

I’d appreciate insight from people who have experienced similar.


r/Montessori • • 3d ago

0-3 years floor bed

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my girl is 10 months old and is not liking her crib at all. i’m very interested in montessori methods and teaching, and i’ve been researching floor beds. however, her room is so small and it would take up about half the space, so she’s have one half a bed and one half toys and books. is a floor bed truly worth it in your opinions?


r/Montessori • • 4d ago

Montessori philosophy Montessori Principles and Practice - Weekly Discussion

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Welcome to our weekly Montessori Principles and Practice thread!

Montessori: lofty principles, real practice :)

Of course you can ask these at any time in the sub, but this recurring post might be a helpful reminder to ask those questions about Montessori that may have been on your mind!


r/Montessori • • 5d ago

How important is low turnover in guide/assistant pairings?

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If you have a school that is able to retain guides pretty well but assistants are more come and go, how big of a problem is this? The guides are all credentialed and are paid accordingly. The assistants are offered opportunities for training but are paid hourly and they tend to come and go.

I know the working dynamic of a guide and his/her assistant is so important and it can also be tricky to work with someone who has no Montessori background. I'm thinking of a guide in particular who had a different assistant every year in the past three years and I'm wondering what, in your experience, does that do to the classroom dynamic? Did it inject some fresh energy, was it distracting, did you wish for more consistency or did you have systems in place so that even if you had a new assistant who may or may not know that much about Montessori they could easily slot right in? Interested in different perspectives.


r/Montessori • • 5d ago

Montessori Salary in Hong Kong

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How much is a usual Montessori school salary range in Hong Kong? I am AMI-trained in Elementary and have 12 years of experience. I also have a masters degree from the US.

What’s your experience like? How is the management and work culture? I was thinking of applying in these three schools: Discovery Montessori, International Montessori School and Academy of Innovation by Guidepost.

Thank you!


r/Montessori • • 5d ago

Pocket money/ chores- thoughts?

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Fellow Montessori folks: what are our thoughts about pocket money, money for chores etc? I’m a Montessori teacher and still undecided about how I feel about giving my own kids pocket money for chores. My biggest kid is 4 so too early as yet, but wanting to think out the pros and cons.

I don’t want to tie money to chores that are an expectation, eg. Tidying her own room/things, some small contributions to the household running eg. Collecting the eggs, clearing the dinner table. I don’t want to take the intrinsic motivation out of helping the family and being a part of our ‘community’. However I can see the benefit in teaching the idea of working and earning money, saving and wise spending etc.

Anyone else want to share how they have handled this/ what they think?


r/Montessori • • 5d ago

3-6 years What architectural feature in your classroom drives you crazy, and what works beautifully?

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If you could design and build your ideal early childhood classroom from scratch, what would you include?

I'm thinking specifically about the physical building and its design, rather than Montessori materials or furniture.

What architectural details or built-in features have made your work easier? What do you wish your environment had? What would you do differently if you were starting from scratch?

I'm also weighing flooring options (wood vs. linoleum) and would love to hear about your experiences with either, especially when it comes to maintenance, durability, and everyday classroom use

I'd especially love specific examples! What has worked beautifully in your environment, and what has driven you crazy?


r/Montessori • • 6d ago

High energy 3 yr old — too young?

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My child will be turning 3 in January. He’s a very smart, energetic, talkative kiddo. He loves being outside and playing with toys but also loves reading books and completing puzzles. He’s been attending a small in-home daycare that is “Montessori inspired” and “play-based” since he was 7 months old and has always loved it and thrived.

Since he’s now the oldest at his daycare and they do a rotation cycle of kiddos, we’re looking to transition him to a new daycare in January once he’s 3.

We’ve toured two daycares that I’m struggling to decide between. One is a complete outdoorsy “play based” pre school that is run by the city zoo and has a great reputation. Basically the kiddos are outside as much as possible, exploring and learning, and visit the zoo once a week. It’s not so much “forest school” bc it lacks the curriculum of outdoor skill learning (ie they aren’t learning how to build fires or use tools, etc.) as it’s more child led “play based” (think kids playing in dirt, playing with rocks, etc) but we have lots of friends who graduated from our daycare to enroll in this program and love it. My main concern is the lack of a structured curriculum. It seems the teachers choose what to do on the day-of depending on the weather. I asked if they have a dedicated circle time for reading or something similar and they said no. There were plenty of art supplies and art work around the rooms so I know they do partake in craft time. My second concern is that we live in Texas where it is unbearably hot for most of the year. On the tour, I brought this up and they explained they use some specific guide (I forgot the name) to determine whether it’s safe to play outside and on days when it’s not, they’ll be indoors. My concern here is that a lot of the time, they’ll have to be indoors, which defeats the biggest benefit I see for this daycare.

We also toured an AMS accredited official Montessori daycare. He would be entering the primary class of mixed 3-6 year olds. We toured during their “work” time and observed the kiddos. It seemed like he would be the youngest and there seemed to be a bit more older kids but it was pretty intense, in my own opinion. I don’t mind mixed aged classes and believe it’s generally a benefit, but I won’t lie and say it doesn’t make me nervous. Like I said, my kiddo is high energy and very talkative, and it was a bit jarring to see all the little ones working silently without issue. My kiddo would be asking a million questions, would not be using the tools correctly (imagine putting a spoon in between a crack in the floor and playing like that for a minute or two). The curriculum is basically drop off and work for 2 hours, then 1 hour of outdoor time, lunch, nap, then work for the remainder of the day (about 1-2 hours). The 1 hour of outdoor time is open ended play and they have a playground, water table, sandbox, balance bikes, scooters, etc. I know he’ll love that one hour the most.

I had read two books on Montessori when I was pregnant and it seems like I’ve forgotten everything I’ve read bc I fear that he will not thrive and will have trouble adjusting to the independent quiet work time. I am struggling to understand whether these are just my own fears as a first time mom and i should just trust my kiddo and his capabilities or if I should follow my gut and choose the other daycare which feels “safer” and “less risky” bc I KNOW he’ll love the typical “playing” it focuses on despite my fear that it doesn’t have a curriculum to prepare him for learning academics.

Any insight or advice or suggestions is appreciated. My husband is leaning towards the play-based one and holding off on Montessori until 4-5 years old but I worry I’m doing my child a disservice (also my husband has not read much on Montessori principles)


r/Montessori • • 7d ago

0-3 years January or September Start for 2 year old

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My daughter has a February birthday. The montessori in our neighborhood offers a January start. My understanding is my daughter would join a class of 2+ year olds that would have started in September together, so she would be the youngest 2 year old at this time. If starting in January she would have a half year of experience in Montessori before continuing the 2s program in September. I’m debating if I should wait to have her start in September (at 30 months old) or start in January at 23 months. I just want to make sure she is set up for success.

She would be starting 5 half days a week. We live in a highly competitive area so this would be for 2028 admission. My daughter is only 8 months so we don’t have much of an idea of her personality yet. She will be home with me until she starts this program so no experience with nanny or daycare. Just looking for some guidance here :)


r/Montessori • • 7d ago

Montessori teacher training/jobs How to be a more attractive candidate as a prospective Montessori teacher

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I spent two years as a substitute at a Montessori school, working usually 4 days a week, and I fell in love with the school and the method. When I went looking for a full time job with benefits, though, the school didn't have any positions.

The job that I endes up taking was at a non-Montessori school, and I'm missing it so much. The curriculum and (lack of) philosophy at my current school is sucking the life out of me.

I'm planning to eventually get my certification through the Center for Guided Montessori Studies, but I would need to already be working at a Montessori center to do the practicum element, and right now I can't afford to start over somewhere else at lower pay. So, right now I just have to muscle through.

In the meantime, is there anything I can do to eventually make myself more hireable as a Montessori candidate? CGMS offers a professional development course I'm thinking of taking. Is there anything else I should try? What can I do to gild my resume while I wait to make my escape?


r/Montessori • • 8d ago

0-3 years 13m old - how to start potty training?

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Apologies if a post like this already exists, please direct me to any helpful resources.

My baby is almost 13 months old.

We unfortunately, very inconsistently did Elimination communication on and off at age 4 months, then 7 months then 10-12 months. We didn't catch much and baby was more interested in playing with things around the toilet and playing with the toilet. He didn't like being held over it and would laugh when we did the cue sounds. We did have some success with poo as his cues there were very clear. With pee it was 10% success.

So now I am eager to start officially potty training. I dont know if the Montessori way is similar to EC, and how I should start. Do I try to continue EC and just become more consistent at it?

Baby does point to his diaper after pooping, so he does have some self awareness there.

Any tips would be helpful!

I dont want to rush it but also I dont want to end up like my brother's daughter who was in diapers til age 4.


r/Montessori • • 9d ago

Starting a Montessori parent–child group in Spain — looking for other guides’ experiences

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Hi everyone! I’m a trained Montessori 0–3 guide, currently planning a small parent–child programme in L’Eliana, near Valencia, Spain.

The idea is to offer sessions in a prepared Montessori environment for children aged 0–3, with up to five families per group.

Has anyone here started a similar programme, especially independently of an existing school? I’d particularly love to hear from guides in Spain, but experiences from other countries would also be very welcome. I previously ran a similar group in Estonia, where it was successful. In my experience, the 18-month parental leave available there made it easier for parents to attend regularly with their children. I’m wondering how this format might work in Spain, where families may return to work earlier.

My two main questions are:

  1. How did you find your first families, and was there enough interest to build a regular group?
  2. Which days and times worked best? Were weekday mornings viable, and how did participating parents fit the sessions around work?

I’d love to connect with other guides and hear what you learned when getting started. Thank you!


r/Montessori • • 10d ago

Imaginative play in Montessori - what am I missing?

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I’ve been doing research into different kinds of preschools, and I keep being struck by how popular Montesssori is…and I find I’m not really getting why. The big thing that struck me was that pretend/imaginative play isn’t encouraged in the curriculum. I keep reading things like, “oh kids get to do pretend play at recess and at home”, but that’s not really the same thing. Imaginative play helps kids think outside the box, problem solve, and work together as a group. It also helps with language skills, if kids are narrating stories, thinking up dialogues, and making up lyrics to songs. Not to mention the importance for art instruction. Do I just not understand how Montessori works? It all sounds so dull and sad - promoting independence at the expense of free exploration. But it’s so popular, I have to be missing something. Particularly interested in how the Montessori method manifests at the preschool level.


r/Montessori • • 11d ago

Adults raised in the Montessori way, how was / is life for you?

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Hello there,

Geniuenly curios on how life was for you growing up, how it influenced your current life, and what is your view on your education looking back now.

There are probably some things worth knowing:

  1. Were you parents following the same Montessori methods at home?

  2. Where are you located on Earth? To have a bit of context of the environment around you.

  3. If you had the power, what would you have changed? If anything.

Many thanks