r/MBTIDating • • 11h ago

all types welcome 26 [F4M] INFP looking for forever best friend and movie buddy

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Hi, I’m a 26 year old graduate student in #Colorado studying criminal justice with dreams of getting my PhD to be a forensic neuropsychologist. I love psychology and understanding why people are the way they are which means I also really value meaningful conversations and being asked questions so I know someone also wants to understand me.

I enjoy anime, horror movies, sewing, swimming, and trying new coffee shops to report back on the latest chai I’ve tried. I also love animals and have a bunch of pets. I am child free and would prefer someone who is also child free. All types are welcome.

I am plus size, size 24-26, and on a health journey. I recently lost 75 pounds. However, I am confident in who I am and would want a partner to be too regardless of the potential for weight loss.

Thanks a bunch!

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r/MBTIDating • • 1h ago

all types welcome 20F ENTJ #USA #online looking for someone who matches my energy

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Heyy I’m an ENTJ 20F med student who loves deep conversations, learning new things, and people who challenge me intellectually. Outside medicine, I enjoy working out, baking, painting, playing piano, traveling, and discovering new places. I’m also a fall/winter girl who loves cozy evenings and good music

I’m drawn to people who are ambitious, curious, emotionally mature, and passionate about what they do. I’d especially love to meet someone in medicine, healthcare, or another demanding field who understands the dedication behind big goals. I find it attractive when someone is driven but also kind, emotionally available, and knows how to have fun

I’m looking for someone over 20, preferably in a US time zone, who values honesty, respect, communication, and building something meaningful. No games or rushing things; I’d rather let a connection develop naturally and see where it goes

And I'm happy to share pics once we've gotten to know each other a little

If you DM me, tell me a little about yourself! What are you passionate about, and what could you talk about for hours or what your ideal holiday look like ?


r/MBTIDating • • 8h ago

all types welcome 20 [M4F] #India/Anywhere - INTJ looking for a serious connection with someone kind

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A: 20M

L: India. Open to LDR.

E: Just someone who is a kind human being, and a fun and relaxing person to be around.

A little about me:

I Love Knowledge and Learning new things. And currently I am pursuing my bachelor's in Computer Science and Artificial Intelligence.

Some fields I am engaged and interested in: Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry, Biological Sciences, Computer Science, Neuroscience, Psychology, Criminology, Mechanical Eng., Electrical Eng., Aeronautical Eng., Mechatronics, Robotics, Art, Music, Languages... The list is pretty long.

I can speak seven languages: Hindi, English, Korean, Japanese, Spanish, French, Telugu (just a little bit).

I am heavily into physical activities and sports. I play Cricket, Football, Basketball, Volleyball, Badminton, Kabaddi, Kho-Kho, Chess, Shogi, and Go.

I workout 6x a week. I do calisthenics, and yoga (occasionally).

I also love martial arts and I do: Boxing, Muay Thai, Kyokushin Karate, basic Taekwondo and Jeet Kune-Do, and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

I also enjoy hiking, and rock and mountain climbing. I am hoping to get my BMC (Basic Mountaineering Course) and AMC (Advanced Mountaineering Course) certifications soon.

I LOVE books and have been reading since as long as I can remember. I read all genres, and literally everything. I am currently reading Demons by Fyodor Dostoyevsky, and The Memory Police by Yoko Ogawa.

I also read Manga and Manhwa. And I enjoy watching Dramas (Korean, Japanese, and Chinese), and Anime.

I also love and enjoy Cooking, and I am always trying to learn new dishes to cook.

I draw, paint, and sketch as well. And I play, sing, and compose music. Currently, I play the Flute. I am hoping to buy either a violin or a guitar next. I used to dance, and am trying to get back into dancing as well.

I recently bought my first bike a few months ago and since then I always go for bike rides and enjoy riding. My longest driven ride has been of 200-250 KMs for now. Hoping to expand that. I love travel and adventure and would love to explore more places, and better places on my bike.

I enjoy spending my time in nature and with animals, doing silly things, and learning random stuff.

I don't preferably have a type, but anyone who's a good and king human being and would love to give some efforts and see where it goes by working on it together would be good.

If anyone's interested, please feel free to DM me.

Have a great day!

P.S. - Completely unrelated to dating or relationships, but if anyone has any similar interests and just wants to have a friendly chat regarding those interests, I am always up for that. So feel free to DM.


r/MBTIDating • • 14h ago

all types welcome 38M INTP - Missouri USA - Tall nerd looking for a long term relationship or my soulmate M4M M4F MFA

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I'm a tall 38 year old male nerd and intellectual. I'm 6'3" tall with a large frame and a dad bod.

6'3" tall. 235 lbs.

Intelligent, shy, and Neurodivergent. I'm a big Clark Kent-esque teddy bear. I can definitely pick you up (physically). Also working on getting in better shape. I live in St. Louis, Missouri.

Looking for a genuine long term relationship, and dating. Also someone I can have intellectual conversations with. I'm Top or top vers, or side. I'm bi/pansexual. I'm looking for a long-term boyfriend for a serious relationship. I'd love to find a husband. Something that leads to marriage would be great.

Looking for 18-37 years old.

Femboy, Twinks, nerds, and femboy nerds preferred. No facial hair. Also into nerdy or goth women, trans women, NB.

I enjoy sci-fi, video games, fantasy, board games, museums, restaurants, travel, science, parks, gardens, DND, nature, camping, writing.

Would love to play stardew valley online CO-OP. Or Baldurs gate 3 co-op. ESO online. Potentially other games. DnD

Prefer in person dating, but potentially willing to start with online. I know this is a long shot, but I thought I'd try. You can dm me or post.

Tell me your favorite color, mine is green.


r/MBTIDating • • 5h ago

all types welcome 24 INTJ [M4F] London/UK - Looking for a partner in crime for gigs, games and more

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Hi! I'm 24 and based in London.

I'm hoping to meet someone who wants a genuine, long-term relationship and is certain they don't want children. I'd love to find someone who becomes both my partner and best friend - someone to share new experiences with and talk about anything and everything.

A little about me:
• Black, 5'10, with a slim athletic build
• Neurodivergent
• Music is one of my biggest passions. I listen to rock and metal, alongside DnB and electronic music, and I enjoy going to gigs when there's a band or artist I'm excited to see.
• Video games are another big hobby of mine, particularly series like Persona, Doom and Final Fantasy, although I enjoy plenty of others too.
• I play football, enjoy cycling, love theme parks and regularly go to the cinema.
• I'm always up for discovering something new, whether that's a band, a game, a place to visit or an activity I've never tried before.

I'm generally introverted and reserved, but I enjoy meaningful conversations and getting to know people properly. I'd describe myself as thoughtful, dependable and easy-going. I'm happy doing my own thing, but I'd love to have someone special to share my interests and experiences with.

Whether we're going to a concert, exploring somewhere new, trying an activity together, or talking about something we're passionate about , I'd like a relationship where we can be ourselves, feel comfortable opening up and genuinely enjoy each other's company.

I'm hoping to meet someone who is:
• Around 19-26
• Based in the UK, ideally London or nearby
• Certain they don't want children
• Kind, honest and emotionally mature
• Communicative and consistent, with a genuine interest in building a relationship

We don't need to have all the same hobbies. Shared interests are a bonus, but what matters most to me is that we get along, treat each other well and both make an effort to build something lasting.

I tend to get on best with people who are clear about what they want and follow through, even when life gets busy. I don't expect perfection; I just value mutual effort, openness and a willingness to work through things together.

I'm happy to exchange photos early on. I understand that physical attraction matters, and I think it's best to be open about that whilst taking the time to get to know each other beyond appearances.

If this resonates with you, feel free to message me! Tell me your age, roughly where you're based, a little about yourself and maybe something you've been listening to, watching or playing lately.


r/MBTIDating • • 6h ago

22[TM4TM/M] #Mississippi - Is my Superman to My Batman Out There?

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Let's first get to what I'm looking for. Intelligent and emotionally there, able to withstand me and my attitude. I come with a lot of baggage, I'm not cute, I'm not quirky for it. I'm healing, but I wanna actually try to live my life with someone. Someone who sees me for me and doesn't run away or downplay it. I'm a listener but I can dominate a conversation if it's something I'm passionate about.

A taller henchman sorta type, who of course has a will of their own and can banter. Consistency is key, I'm a bit shy at first so if you're worried when I'm not texting first I'm INTJ I either overthink until it feels too late to text or I think you're busy. Sorry 😔. I'm very clingy, and get easily jealous. Overtly so it's kinda silly really. And even when you think I'm not possessive? I am.

I'm into nerdy stuff, at the moment it's primarily Batman and other DC heroes. I'm writing a novel as well, a thriller. A beta reader would be good as well! I believe in friends to lovers, and a slow burn! But don't let anyone distract you! Let me !

SOME FACTS

I found a dead body at 18

I'm 5'1 and 120 lbs

I'm getting on HRT (no I will not look like an anime boy pretty bottom prince or whatever femboy BS you have in your brain)

I love cats, I can't stand dogs so sorry dog people 😅

I often joke I turn into Joe Goldberg when I'm in love so excuse that

I love dark humor and sarcasm

I blame my Scorpio moon and Taurus Venus on my love life, tell me your natal chart info! (Command) (And your Myers Berg Personality for fun too)

Daily check ins, spams of photos or memes or writings is a bonus point to my heart

If you're superman coded be my Clark to my Bruce (I'm appearance biased by the by)

I hate being a second option, I will complain or sense that (don't ask that's between me and my intuition) don't get me to that point once I'm attached please

I'm low empathy and don't often sound emotional or caring. I was called a psychopath at 12 😅 but I try my best with solutions needed and whatever advice sounds good at the time. Anyways if it's too fiery for you get outta hell. I like it here tho. Its toasty.


r/MBTIDating • • 11h ago

all types welcome 26 [F4M] - #Washington/Seattle - Wholesome INFJ lady looking for local life partner!

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Disclaimer: I am only looking for people local to areas around Seattle/Everett/Bellevue!

I am a curvy INFJ lady on a pilgrimage to finding a new social group and a relationship! I figured I'd give it a shot here.

A little bit about me:

I recently moved from San Diego and am now a resident enrichment coordinator/manager at a memory care community where I am working to better the lives of people who will never truly remember me! It's all fine an dandy, we have a great time regardless. In my free time, mostly Fridays and Saturdays, I'd love to find someone to game, voice, and commit shenanigans in the city with. I have two degrees in Psychology and Communication, and am debt-free, moisturized, and in my lane, existing! I own a senior cat and he continues to defy death at the ripe age of eighteen. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or party much! I am like a little decrepit old hag trapped in the body of a young woman, slaving over a hot stove (cast iron only.) I am on the expensive zepbound, so I can't eat as much as I used to!

Values:

Time, Kindness, stability, structure, mindfulness, empathy, ambition, communication and of course, humor~

What I am looking for:

I love to voice! It's so important to have great verbal chemistry. I'm hoping to meet someone who loves to talk as much as they enjoy sitting in silence doing their own thing, sharing each other's company when we're just flat out exhausted. Ideally, we can roleplay, game, go out on the town, and maybe do a little bit of movie watching too! I love to watch period dramas, animes, horror movies and comedies alike. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into anything, as I'd rather meet someone and see where things lead. My ideal life is living right outside my small town in the woodlands, in a two bed two bath house with wifi and enough ice water / freeze dried mangoes to satiate me. Boring is sometimes good in the realm of predictability and structure.

Age wise, someone between the ages of 28-38 is ideal, past their college years, and looking to build a life of comedically predictable bliss!

Superficially, I'm really into someone who could tower over me and defend my pizza takeout from the downtown midnight scallywags. I have a huge weakness for a good sense of business functional fashion!

Deal Breakers:

Not enough time to invest, anger issues/yelling of any sort, smoking, drinking to cope (social okay), drugs, lack of communication, financial irresponsibility, polygamy, dishonesty, racism, overly religious, I do not wish to have kids.

Games:

No Rest for the Wicked, Elden Ring Seamless Coop, Second Life, Stardew Valley, Witcher 3, Guild Wars 2, Warframe, Assassin's Creed, Peak, Divinity OS2, Baldur's Gate, Valheim, and much more!

Hobbies:

Roleplaying (one person only), Going to carnivals, rock hounding, (I want to hike but don't yet.), tons of games, writing my own lore/world, exploration, travel (if I can afford it), design, cooking (lots of different cultures!), volunteering, creating a cozy existence, and more to uncover!

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r/MBTIDating • • 15h ago

all types welcome 19 [M4F] #Ireland INFP - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• Top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto, (I have a top 10).

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.


r/MBTIDating • • 18h ago

all types welcome 29 [M4F] #Anywhere INFJ-A German nerd looking for a Nerdy gaming partner for life to build a genuine connection with consistency :3 🖤

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Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🖤

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🖤
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🖤

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
Competitive wise I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, Dead by daylight
I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series since my childhood 🥹
Also not to forget my love for horror games, and some indie games casual people might not be aware of :D
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
My preference goes towards white woman :3
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please
I would also appreciate a more attracting and creative start for a conversation like things about you and your interest and thoughts rather then carrying the conversation replying to a simple „hi“

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🖤
I Hope you have a wonderful day~


r/MBTIDating • • 19h ago

32 INTP/ENTP[F4M] Europe/Russia/Canada/USA

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