My friend (51m) lost his wife (55f) last year after a brief illness. I remember speaking to him around the time of the one year anniversary of her death, and I could tell all through that period he was really struggling. I know this week would have been her 57th birthday so he's also been really quiet. Keep in mind that person's feelings each year surrounding the anniversary of their spouse's death, their wedding anniversary, etc, especially around holidays, can be very hard for someone who has lost their spouse.

I cant believe its 2026 and people are still signing their texts and emails with names they dont actually use.

If your name is Nicholas but you want to be called Nick, use Nick in your signature.

I work in sales and am constantly having to email or call people that have only sent me their signature, then they act surprised when I call them the name they use in their signature.

If you want Greg use GREG, not Gregory.

The older I get, the more I realize that speaking your mind bluntly and directly is the fastest way to build relationships with the right people.