Our big baby girl Sadie's MRI results came back with a low probability diagnosis of Stage 5 IVDD.
20% -40% chance to ever regain mobility.
I'm asking for some advice bc we don't have the support we need to improve her quality of life post-op. If you had an unsupportive family who all suggest putting her down is the kinder thing to do, but your mom is insistent of doing the surgery, but we all work during the day- what would you do?
I'm personally at peace with the decision of putting her down after long conversations and Pros and Cons. Because I know Sadie is such a vibrant and happy go-lucky pupper, it will break my heart to see her in her own filth, depressed, and in pain, while we all are working.
"What can we do to offer her the best quality of life without breaking the bank?" Is the mentality we have bc while we all work, my dad and sister are the only ones that have reasonable paying jobs. My sis has a child and a husband, and my dad is just a cruel old man, oh and I have a brother but he's not as interested in a dogs life then his band.
While that, I'm also dealing with the hardship of searching, researching, hopeless calls, unfavorable pricing estimates, and gas. In which I'm listing to not complain but to shed more light on the family dynamic I'm coming from.
I don't live with my parents, and would take her in if it wasn't for the second floor studio I live in. Foster care and adoption in my eyes are not options, bc it's unfair.
How can I give her the best outcome, when the environment she lives in doesn't care or are emotionally available for her reserved or PT care post Op? The decision thru and thru is a hard one, because all these variables come to play due to the lack of action my parents have. But I don't blame anyone as this IVDD became major overnight.
I would appreciate any advice on this matter and in making the best decision for my Sadiewaddie.