r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • Dec 06 '23

Keep It Platonic. All posts should be non-sexual and non-romantic in nature.

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Friendly reminder that this subreddit is for PURELY PLATONIC personals. Do not post here if you're looking for sex or romantic relationships. If you see a post or comment which breaks these rules, we would appreciate if you hit the report button to bring it to the mods' attention. Thank you!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 1h ago

31 [M4F] A cool hang Garden Oaks/Oak Forest

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I’m recently divorced and have gotten too comfortable in my ‘alone’ groove. Not looking for anything at all, but I miss having a feminine presence in my life.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 13h ago

27 [M4F] there is a The Weeknd music night on Thursday at Reset rooftop and I’d love to go with someone who loves his music just as much as I do!

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Hiya! There is a The Weeknd night at Reset rooftop on Thursday and I would absolutely love to go with someone who loves his music just as I do! Do not fear, I am a sane, normal guy who is just looking to go with someone who appreciates and loves his music just as much as I do

If it matters at all, I’m 6’ tall, Latino and have deep dimples when I smile lol. I am happy to share my socials, hop on calls, whatever you may need to feel comfortable! Yes I am real and serious :)


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 10h ago

32 [M4A] Xbox Live Friends and Workouts Partner

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Hello everyone in Houston and surrounding areas, who here wants to play co-op games online? I have the Xbox, Xbox 360, Xbox One, and the Xbox Series X. I also have PC. Who wants to collect achievements with me or just do challenges on co-op games? I mainly want to do the achievements for the classic Modern Warfare trilogy. I’m trying to get the Spec Ops (co-op) achievements and trying to beat all of them on Veteran mode. Also need people to compare gamer score with lol. I also want to play Zombies, I have World at War and the the Black Ops trilogy. I also have most of the newer Call of Duty games. I have other games as well and we can play whatever game you got as well. We can schedule days to co-op, but I’m online almost every afternoon after work.

Other than video games we can learn Python together if that’s something you are into as well. You can reply to me here or DM me. I’m in the Houston area, born and raised so once we get to know each other online we can hang out around Houston… of course I mean Galveston, Katy, Mont Belvieu, Conroe… that’s all Houston to me lol let’s play some video games and eventually play some board games or workout at the park!

If you must know, I’m Mexican, I speak both English and Spanish… ask me about what I had to delete from this section to get this post approved. This is like the 3rd time trying to post this!

Anyways, that’s it. I’ll leave you with my personal quote…

“Stay curious and enjoy the ride, because today is tomorrow’s nostalgia” - CuriousCat94x

Have a nice day.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 14h ago

38 [M4A] Married hispanic guy looking for friendly conversations, bored at work, let's make the day go by faster

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Good morning, I'm 38 Hispanic guy looking for friendly conversations to make work go by faster. Yes I'm married but lately havent gotten the conversation or attention I've been needed. Love music and food and looking for new friends to chat with.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 1d ago

30 [M4A] Looking to meet good people and make friends

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30M, south houston and currently working as a postdoc. Ambitious by nature, but I know how to enjoy life outside of work, too. I appreciate good conversation, a well made drink, jazz, and the atmosphere of a good cigar lounge.
Looking to expand my circle, meet interesting people, explore new spots around town, and make some genuine friendships. Whether it’s drinks at a bar, a jazz club, a cigar lounge, or just hanging out, I’m always down for good company.

If we get along, we’ll get along. Feel free to reach out.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 1d ago

28 [M4F] East Houston – Looking for someone who wants a Gym Buddy to Make Gains With 💪

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28M in East Houston looking for a female gym buddy who’s serious about fitness, staying consistent, and making some gains together! 💪
I’ve been on a fitness journey, already down 20 lbs, and now I’m focused on building muscle, getting stronger, and reaching new goals.
I usually hit the gym daily around 7–7:30 PM and have a free buddy pass, so you wouldn’t need to worry about a membership.
Just looking for someone who’s motivated, enjoys working out, and wants a gym partner to push each other, stay accountable, and celebrate progress along the way.
All fitness levels welcome! Whether you’re just starting or already into lifting, I’m down to motivate each other and make some progress.
If you’re in the East Houston area or a short drive isn’t a problem and you’re interested, feel free to DM me!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 1d ago

36 [M4A] Best bars to meet people 30-40s

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I’m 36M. I’ll be in Houston most of the week for work. Staying in downtown but I’m mobile. Just looking to meet people, casual conversation, not be bored in my hotel room. Suggestions?

I’m also open to other suggestions for a single, solo guy on weeknights. I cannot stress how much I hate being in a new town with nothing to do.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

28 [F4A] stay at home married mom. Need friends through the day

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I’m a simple shy homebody married momma to two kids. My days consist of cooking and cleaning which I do enjoy. Just would love to find some friends to chat through the day with or end up going shopping around the mall! I live right behind bay brook! If you have a pool that would be awesome 💀😂 I’m Like an alt/semi goth girl but also girly girl lol I can do it all! Some other mom friends would be awesome tbh!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

24[M4A] looking for people to hangout at the renfest with. I work there each weekend, and need to make friends 😭

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outside of the renfest I also play DND and Magic the gathering. As for video games: helldivers, marvel rivals, joeys castle, and very little Roblox.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

29 [F4A] Friend-to-Roommate Wanted in NW Houston

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Is there anyone else who likes having a friend they get to see everyday? I miss having a friend that I room with. So I’m hoping someone else feels the same way. Especially with the holidays coming up it would be so much fun to spend it together. I have some ideas in mind for things we can do together and you can let me know if any of these ideas sound enjoyable to you:

- morning walks
- movie (or show) nights
- weekend sleepovers
- evening drives
- karaoke nights (at home lol)
- cooking/baking
- going to the gym together
- game nights
- book club together
- vent/problem solve together
- clean together (less of pain when done together)

I could honestly come up with more but I wanna see if any of this already resonated with you or if you have some other ideas too.

My thought process is that we hang out and see if we click and spend time together over the holidays as well and if all goes well we can consider rooming together. It is important that we click though. I usually know pretty early on if we click.

And if you’re still in Houston but somewhere outside of the northwestern area that’s okay too.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

44 [M4F] Guy looking for good company

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I’ll be in Houston tomorrow night for work and have an extra ticket to the Rockets game. I thought it would be fun to share the experience with someone who enjoys basketball and good conversation!
I’m a friendly, respectful guy just looking for some good company and a fun night at the game. I’ll be in town for a few days before flying out Thursday morning.
If you’re interested, feel free to message me. No pressure at all! 😊


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

28 [f4a] extra ticket to see dax tomorrow

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hi! i have an extra ticket to see Dax tomorrow night in Houston and figured i’d see if anyone would be interested in joining me!
im pretty outgoing, easy to talk to, and always enjoy meeting new people. just looking for some good company and someone who enjoys live music!
strictly platonic, not looking for a date. if you’re interested, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

37 [M4F] You Can Walk the Walk, But Can You Talk the Talk?

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I’ve met a couple of people on here, but the communication has fizzled out. Hoping lightning strikes thrice?

I’m looking for something platonic, preferably with someone that identifies as female, but I’m open to other. As a male, I value the insight and intuition a woman tends to have and I find that friendships with men often reinforce my viewpoints rather than challenge them.

I’m off Fridays and Saturdays, but if we meet most likely it’ll be on a Friday because Saturdays are usually reserved for the misses. I can text throughout the day. Phone conversations are tricky but I’ll try to find the time. No FaceTiming. I live relatively close to Memorial Mall.

Typically what happens with these kind of things is that the interest is there but the convo starts off one sided, so I have nothing to work with and the convo dies, hence why I’m looking for someone who can talk the talk. Ask questions, challenge, be curious!

My interests include music, movies, books, and writing. I recently saw The Invite (and loved it), I want to see You Can See Everything, Dune 3, and Avengers Doomsday, I just finished Dark Matter, Ghost in the Shell (2026), and Pluribus, I’m playing Castlevania Belmont’s Curse, reading a fantasy book by Tanith Lee, and workout 3-4x a week - just to give you an idea of my interests.

As far as politics go, not into it much but lean toward liberal/progressive/moderate. Generally I don’t care about ethnicity or sexual orientation as long as you’re a decent person.

If you want an ice breaker, how about starting off by asking: what’s one weird thing I don’t have any proof for but firmly believe? Or start off by answering the question.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

27 m4a looking for friends Galveston county area

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I’m 27 married and have a kid me and my wife find it difficult at times to make friends we both play magic and like to ride bikes on trails she like to sew and do photography I play video games on pc and like to fish on the occasional just looking to build a friend good


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

23 [m4f] any lady pool sharks here?👀

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Looking to grab a couple drinks and hand out a few asswhoopins on the pool table 🧏🏾‍♂️


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 2d ago

18 [M4A] Looking for Friends

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Just moved to Houston recently, specifically around the Sugar Land / Missouri City area. Looking for friends since I don't know anyone here. I'm into film, comics, writing, other stuff too but I can't think of anything else rn (always feels weird making posts like these). Anyways! Gender doesn't matter to me, only looking to get to know ppl rn, but age does matter, 18-20 would be ideal.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 3d ago

32[F4F] looking for long lasting genuine friends in Houston

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Hello,

I am 32F, looking for female friends around my age.

I've posted here before looking for friends but I wasn't lucky to find any friends. I had a few great conversations but it died down after some days.

I know it's difficult making friends as an adult, but please if you are reaching out, you should genuinely be interested in building a friendship. I'm really not interested in putting my energy into conversations that will end within a few days.

I love watching movies, cooking, baking, sports, piano, skating, singing and working out, you don't have to like the same things I like though.

I live around the Pearland area, I'm open to conversations even if you don't live around my area.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 3d ago

38 [F4A] Seeking intellectual, creative and adventurous platonic friends. Mid 30s-early 40s

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Hey everyone,

I’m looking to connect with some local friends (mid-30s to early 40s) for genuine platonic friendship.

A little about me: I'm a 38 year old female, single, no kids. I lean very analytical, intellectual, and enjoy deep dives into philosophy, psychology, science, and theology/religion. I'm also really into almost anything creative, and creativity is a big part of who I am.

I'm looking for friends who are intelligent, intellectual, sharp minded, down to earth and very into deep philosophical subjects and discussion.

I’m definitely on the sporty/active and outdoorsy side rather than the "nerdy/geeky" type. I'm not into the whole gaming, anime, comic book scene, and to be direct and up front, I'm ideally seeking people who are the same. 

I love trying new and adventurous things, but currently have no one to do that with. And once you get to know me better, I'm very fun loving and I love witty banter and clever sarcasm. (Although not into dad jokes)

On a personal level, my faith and worldview are really important to me. I'm a Christian and politically conservative, and I'd love to connect with people who share that general foundation.

If this sounds like you, drop a comment or shoot me a DM and tell me a bit about yourself!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 3d ago

30 [F4F] looking for genuine long -term female friendships in Houston!

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Hi everyone! I’m 30 F married, and live near the Galleria area in Houston. I’m looking to make serious genuine, long-term friendships with other women around my age who are in a similar boat.
I’m an introvert, shy, a little immature for my age, and have a sarcastic sense of humor and a love for dark humor. I’m also pretty weird and tend to say the most random things.
I enjoy playing video games like World of Warcraft, Mass Effect, and Baldur’s Gate. I also love anime, scary movies, true crime, watching shows, cooking, and baking. I love cookbooks and I collect recipes which I’m sure I am not going to try all lol. I like to watch sports, mostly premier league (Arsenal fan) and college football (Texas A&M) I listen to all kinds of music - but huge fan of kpop (love second gen).
I work during the week, so I don’t have much free time Monday through Friday, but I’m usually more available on weekends. I’m also trying to get out of the house more and become more active because I’m definitely unhealthy and out of shape. I’m also a great listener and someone who genuinely cares about the people in my life. I understand that life gets busy, and I don’t expect us to talk every single day.
Most of the people I hang out with are my husband’s friends, and I’ve realized I don’t really have friends of my own.
I’d like to talk and get to know each other a little more first, and if we click, hopefully meet up.
So if you are interested and serious send me a message with a little bit about yourself !


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 4d ago

32 [M4M] anyone been to gay bars ? Looking to go there first time. Not sure what to expect. I don’t drink though. Just want to check out the scene.

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32 [M4M] anyone been to gay bars ? Looking to go there first time. Not sure what to expect. I don’t drink though. Just want to check out the scene.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 4d ago

39 [M4F] looking for friends

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I'm 39 and in a committed relationship. I'm located on the SW side of Houston. I get along best with females. Looking for someone cool (any age welcome) to hang out, exercise, try new restaurants, grab a drink, etc. I'm 420 friendly.

Not looking to change my situation, so you must be cool with strictly platonic.

PM me if you're interested!


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 5d ago

29 (F4A) looking for friends

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Hi everyone! :)

My husband and I recently moved to Texas City, and we’re looking for friends around here to hang out with, whether it’s a barbecue, shopping, the beach, restaurants, or coffee. I’d also love to meet some girls to grab coffee and chat with. I miss having a friend to just go out and do something with, even if it’s just a walk! I don’t mind driving to other cities nearby.


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 5d ago

23 m4f cypress Houston area let’s go to car meets and go out to eat often? :)

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As the title suggests I’m 23 from Houston cypress and looking for good friends or more that I can hangout with spend good time out together and take u out for car meets or foods, lmk let’s plan sometime :)


r/HoustonPlatonicR4R • • 6d ago

24 [F4A] looking for friends!

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im close to woodlands tx, looking for anyone to hang out, i enjoy walks at the mall, occasional coffee hangouts, im into video games, fashion, art, board games, im mostly quiet at the beginning but i warm up pretty easily