grandpa have 98 next month. It's so huge milestone and want to get him something meaningful.

The tricky part is that he grew up extremely poor. so he has always been incredibly frugal and hates waste, doesn't want fancy things, and always says he "has everything needs. doesn't want spending money on him.

so want to get him something thoughtful that honors the past, also don't want to buy something that will just sit in a closet unused. He’s still sharp mentally, but physically he’s slowing down.

a bit of a loss. had to buy a gift for an older relative who grew up with very little? What are some good ideas? I'm open to practical things, experiences, or something handmade

I am 34F, a single gamer mom who shares many special interests with my son. I feel like the 10-11 yo age range is especially hard to buy for, and that most guides for boys this age skew towards sports and clothing, both of which he could care less about. This post is both a list of things I’ve already purchased and a request for more ideas.

My son is 10, turning 11, gifted, on the autism spectrum, and an absolutely delightful little nerd. I’m putting together his birthday and Christmas gifts, and I’d love recommendations from people who share his interests or have similarly nerdy kids.

He’s particularly obsessed with The Legend of Zelda, Stardew Valley, Pokémon, Steven Universe, Studio Ghibli, Spy × Family, Delicious in Dungeon, Minecraft, Kirby, Astrobot, cats in general, and Slime Rancher.

He’s intellectually curious, loves immersive fictional worlds, and gets incredibly excited about the little details of his favorite franchises.

I am very lucky to be able to go big at his birthday (end of Nov) and Christmas.

Here’s what I’ve already purchased:
-custom Hestu plush commission
-Mineru Construct amiibo
-LoZ Ocarina of Time amiibo
-Minecraft cat light
-Breath of the Wild treasure chest light
-Steven Universe jacket
-Slime Rancher collectibles from Youtooz
-Zelda-themed Pro Controller
-Electronic ocarina
-Korok plush
-Hestu and Korok embroidered sweatshirt
-LEGO final battle set between Link and Ganondorf
-Video game soundtrack vinyl records from Astrobot, Slime Rancher, Hollow Knight, Little Kitty Big City

I’m looking for recommendations that go beyond the obvious merchandise.

Think obscure collectibles, Japanese imports, beautiful art books, artisan-made fandom items, elaborate building sets, interesting electronics, unusual musical instruments, intricate puzzles, or anything that would absolutely blow the mind of a nerdy 11-year-old.

I’m especially interested in items that feel special, beautifully crafted, or difficult to find. I love supporting independent artists and small creators, too.

Budget is extremely flexible. I’m not particularly concerned about the price of individual gifts, provided they’re genuinely worthwhile. I’m also not into luxury for luxury’s sales I’m much more interested in finding extraordinary things than accumulating a mountain of generic merchandise.

I’m also very open to introducing him to entirely new hobbies, franchises, and interests that might appeal to a bright, imaginative kid who loves fantasy, gaming, and worldbuilding.
If you were this kid, what would be on your ultimate birthday or Christmas wishlist?

I’d especially love suggestions from adult Zelda fans, collectors, fellow autistic nerds, and parents of gifted kids who might know about some hidden gems I’ve overlooked!

She’s 23 and has said every now and again that she would want a mini fridge it would be for just drinks maybe some snacks occasionally but are mini fridges any good?

Besides that I truly don’t know what to get her, she has zero interests and is so hard to shop for, with my other sister I have a few ideas but like what do you get someone who doesn’t have any interests ??

My (22M) girlfriend (turning 20F) has her birthday in under two weeks. We've been official for about two months now.

She's a pretty good knitter and she had so much fun teaching me the basics recently. I'm still very much a beginner. She's said she likes thoughtful gifts over expensive ones.

My plan:

A knitted drawstring jewellery pouch I'm making myself, in yarn that almost exactly matches a scarf she knitted for herself. I've noticed she leaves her jewellery lying around and doesn't anywhere to keep it.

Flower hair pins inside, which are almost identical to ones on her Pinterest board.

A handwritten note inside.

I also plan to take her out for the day, possibly a theatre show, and for dinner.

I'm worried that it's not "big" enough for a birthday, especially her 20th. I tend to overthink these things so wanted to ask if this a good gift, or should I add something? If so, what would you add?

Thanks!

Hello! I’m planning to get my boyfriend a birthday gift. Relo sana gift ko sa kaniya. Any suggestions po sana? Around 8k - 10k po ang budget ko. 'Yung pamorma na watch sana.

Thank you!! <3

Thinking of gifting these garage display cases to a guy, but confused about which one to choose. Please help!! I have no idea what men like or if this is even a good gift.

I do not understand why so many posts include “they say they want nothing” or “they can afford anything they’d want” yet people still ask the sub what gifts to give. Trust your friends and loved ones when they say they want/need nothing. Give nothing more than a handwritten note or a short outing with you. Please no more gifts that will go directly, and I mean directly, into the trash or donate pile.

I have a cousin in the States whose birthday is approaching. In my country i can't send money to any other country easily but i can make international transactions easily so i looked up e gift cards and Amazon is one of the options. Should i gift him an amazon gift card or are there any better options? and are there any other issues i am not aware of with e gift cards.

We usually try to do gifts for each set of parents and grandparents for Christmas (last year we did customized doormats with each family name). I'm having a hard time coming up with an idea this year. Any suggestions?

I just got engaged and this is the ring my partner chose for me. I honestly think it’s one of the prettiest rings I’ve seen. It has a dutch marquise shaped diamond and I absolutely love the shape.

What do you guys think of it?

My gf asked for a necklace for her birthday and as I always see her, and my sisters too, wearing a bunch of them together, I decided to go to a store and actually buy a few together and it worked!!

She said she loved them at first but I only believed it when she started to wear them constantly so shout out to the 2 girls working at the Gorjana store, they helped a lot!! I facetimed my sisters so they could see and the girls at the store ended up talking to them and showing like hundreds of options so they all pitched in to make me bf of the year lol

Cute gift idea for wedding shower, there's even little naughty playgirl books!

What gifts should I buy for my cousins for bhaidoojh

Ok guys so I really have no idea what to gift my cousins, I'm 17F & my cousins are:

25M

17M

16M

15M

7M

PLS SUGGEST WHAT TO GIFT THEM!!

I'M GETTING NO IDEAS + I am not really in contact with them.

Pls help me out

nothing for a shelf, no jewelry, no decor. i’m looking for something she’d use up in a few weeks

Hi everyone,

My close peer's birthday is coming up next week, and she’s currently going through a really tough, demotivating patch while looking for a job. Because of the stress, she has explicitly said she doesn’t want any gifts.

I completely respect her boundary, but I still want to make her birthday feel memorable, comforting, and special so she knows she's valued, without making her feel awkward or adding any financial pressure.

Since traditional gifts are out, I’m looking for creative, meaningful, or comforting ideas to celebrate her. What are some of the most thoughtful, low-cost ways you’ve celebrated someone who was going through a rough professional season?

Would love any suggestions for experiences, small gestures, or thoughtful surprises that lift the spirit without feeling heavy. Thanks in advance!

Every time I need to buy someone a gift, I somehow end up with so many open tabs, a bunch of saved Instagram reels, and still no idea what to get 😭

I'm curious how everyone here discovers gifts.

Do you scroll through Instagram? Search on Google or Etsy? Browse Reddit? Or do you already know what you want before you start looking?

Asking because I've recently started building something called Serial Gifter (serialgifter.com), a website to help people discover thoughtful gifts without going down hours of internet rabbit hole.

The idea is to start with who you're gifting rather than just their age, gender, or budget.

But I'm curious if this is a problem other people face.

Would something like this be useful to you? Or do you already have a gifting discovery system that works?

Would love to hear how you all do it.

Hello!

I am taking part in the Dunelm delivering joy campaign this year (similar to angel tree if you're American). My tag is for a 10 year old girl and she has asked for: "girly Lego".

I'm hoping anyone who knows a 10 year old girl may be able to help me out here. I'm torn between the flower/cactus girly decoration type Lego, and the ones which are more like characters that can be played with (think Lego friends or the little animal figure ones). Bearing in mind she has specifically asked for girly lego.

What do you think would be more suitable, or do I go for a small one of each? And any suggestions for other small gifts that I can include? Particularly looking at this from a UK pov as I'm guessing interests may be different in other countries.

Thanks!💕

Bit of a different post, but it's that time of year.

When I was living overseas my sister Mia made me a deck of playing cards with photos on it. Just a one-off for her brother. That deck turned into Mimies, her business. She runs it now with our sisters.

So yeah, I'm biased. But I've been on the receiving end while living away, so here's what I reckon if you're sorting a gift for someone overseas:

Send something from home they can't just go buy where they are. Gift cards are fine but they don't land the same.

Make it something they'll use with other people. When you're new somewhere you're meeting people constantly, and a deck of cards is an easy "come round" thing.

Keep it small. Posting stuff overseas is brutal and anything big or fragile is a pain.

Put an inside joke on it. Mia reckons about a quarter of the decks she makes have one on the back. The ones you'd never explain to anyone else.

Not dropping a link, it's not that kind of post. Happy to answer questions about the cards or about gifting for someone overseas.

Pic is the family deck, the one she made me first.

I designed this little disco ball to sit on a record player’s spindle and turn with the record.

I make and sell it as part of my SpinStyle range. Thought it might be a fun little gift for someone who enjoys vinyl and already has plenty of records.

My shop

I designed this little martini to sit on the spindle of a record player and turn with the record. The olives come along for the ride.

I make and sell these as part of my SpinStyle range. Sharing it here as a small gift idea for someone who enjoys vinyl and cocktails.

The martini on Etsy

I was thinking like a robot car or Legos, but 8 was afraid that he would be hard for him to play with the Legos or smth? Also he loves badminton so I was thinking of getting him a set but idk

hello, i am trying to come up with gift ideas for my brother (19) but ive spent hours researching and with little luck
his only hobbies are muay thai, anime, and overwatch, all three which i have already considered (he doesnt need gear, he doesnt like micro transactions, etc)
to make matters worse, this guy is a minimalist with nothing in his room, like he doesnt like decorating?!?!?? he already has a lot of cologne/self care stuff, so im staying away from skincare and all that. he got clothes and shoes for his birthday so im trying not to do that either.
i did think utility stuff, but like i dont think he would mind but it wouldnt make him happy, yk? like he wouldnt mind new cooking utensils but like… yeah.
i did try to think of things he has said i could maybe capitalize on, but like this guy genuinely wants to do nothing. no new hobbies, or like events he wants to go to, like bro
anyways, what are some good gift ideas? if any 😭😭
ty guys :)

My partner prefers gifts that are practical, so I got the idea of making him a nice five course dinner for one of his Christmas gifts!
He is allergic to shrimp, so nothing with crustaceans 🦞
I have a general idea of what to do, but just wanted some second opinions!