r/GayYoungOldDating • • Jun 25 '23

Age limits for posting here: minimum 18yo for “younger” men; minimum 27yo for “older” men.

156 Upvotes

Whether you’re “looking for younger” or “looking for older”, there are minimum ages that apply.

Check out our rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayYoungOldDating/about/rules/

Younger men, looking for older

This subreddit is for consenting adults to find partners. Out of caution, and because Reddit is based in a jurisdiction where the age of consent is 18, that means everyone must be 18 years old to post here or to reply to posts.

If you are under 18, you will be banned on sight.

Sorry. We need to protect this subreddit from potential accusations of paedophilia and sexual content involving minors.

Older men, looking for younger

This subreddit is about men looking for men where there is a significant age gap. This, combined with the fact that the youngest men we’ll allow here are 18, means that you must be a certain number of years older than 18 in order to be considered an older man looking for a younger man.

We have fixed that minimum age at 27. You must be 27 years old to post here looking for younger men.

If you’re younger than that, then you’re not looking for an age-gap partner. Try these general “looking for” subreddits instead.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Online chatting 18 years old sub twink looking for older daddy

11 Upvotes

I am Virgin, looking for a daddy to live together with him, i d be so grateful to be his boy. I really love sex, but i genuinely think emotional connection is much better, the rest comes naturally. So if you are only looking for sex and smth online dont ever dare to text to me. I am openminded, and im looking for a great daddy.

I am not from the US

IF YOU RE NOT SERIOUS PLS DONT TEXT ME.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 26m ago

Online chatting 18m looking for older

• Upvotes

18m virgin here. Looking to chat, have some fun and maybe smn long term


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Online chatting Femboy (19) looking for older. The older the better 🤗

4 Upvotes

I have a feminine voice and I’m open to anything. Love to can call and have fun mhm …..


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

USA.TX 18 looking for older!

4 Upvotes

Im 18, about 5’9 and very thin, maybe 120lbs. I want someone to date but also use and toss me around whenever 😉


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.TX 31 masculine looking for younger verse

2 Upvotes

hey! hairy fit guy looking for younger verse twink or fem.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Online chatting 34 - Looking for younger, give yourself up

2 Upvotes

I’m here to make sure you get the satisfaction that you’ve been craving - and I have the track record for giving guys a really fucking good time, regardless of orientation.

Straight, Gay, Bi - doesn’t matter cause they’re serving me as a toy, and objects don’t have orientation.

Or they’re slabs of meat showing off for attention.

Either way it doesn’t really matter

I give guys a safe place to explore themselves where they don’t have to feel like they are going to be outed or forced to do things they wouldn’t ever do, I am not looking to steal you from your gf, bf, or significant other - and you know that I won’t show off what you share with me unless you explicitly ask me to.

It’s also way better to have me than to be catfished and left wondering what may happen to your chat after.

Whether you’re already a full blown slut, or just dipping your toes in the water to try - just hmu and let me know what made you decide to message.

If you made it this far, what’re you waiting for? Hit me up and see what’s made guys create countless throwaway accounts after not being able to resist coming back to me to cum.

As long as this is up, you are welcome in my DMs!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 8h ago

Online chatting M20 looking for older daddy + I’m clingy

6 Upvotes

M20 skinny 5’7 119lbs boy looking for dominant top daddy who will make me do unimaginable things. Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about fantasies thwt involve me being taken advantage of! I’d love to chat about it (or maybe try it). Some examples of this are like being talked into trying “just the tip” and it becomes more, maybe you don’t listen when I ask you to wear a condom, anything like that. If twe get along super well maybe I’d come visit and we can try it out haha. I’m generally open to a lot though! Free use, cnc, bondage, and rougher sex all sound really hot to me. I will say, I am a virgin though so I am pretty inexperienced but I’d love to change that

Please drop an intro with your stats and I like older, tall and muscular men. If you’re here to just cum and go please don’t reply to this post. I want a serious horny man. Please be patient with me since I’m new to this.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

USA.IL Daddy Bear (46) looking for younger for ltr

4 Upvotes

46 yr old Daddy Bear seeking younger for ltr. I'm a business owner and a bit of a nerd. Tend to be more of a homebody; not much for bars or clubs. I'm 5'10", 250 lbs (and shrinking), brown hair and eyes. Hobbies include drawing, gaming, reading, baking and several other activities. Tend to prefer a bit of a size difference but open to all :) DMs are open if you'd like to chat and see if we're a match. Take care!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 14m left

Brazil 26 brazilian looking for older

• Upvotes

26 fit brazilian guy looking for older

1,85 m | 80 kg | atletic body


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 7h ago

Online chatting 19 us looking for older for long term relationship

5 Upvotes

19 6’3 hairy in the plains region of the us looking for something long term with a older man who’s between 28 to 50s
I’ll be moving to Seattle next year so if you’re from that area dm me


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1m left

Online chatting 18m looking for older pervy men

• Upvotes

Hi I’m Zach and I’m looking for way older guys to tell me how they’d use me as a hole to stuff I’m 18 chubby with a smaller cock and would love a real man to show how to be good


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6m ago

Online chatting 39 m dadbod looking for younger to chat and have some limitless fun

• Upvotes

Come on over and let’s chat, only have Tg no snap


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 12h ago

Online chatting 19M Inexperienced sub looking for older gentle, soft Dom Dad

7 Upvotes

I'm looking for a sweet father-son dynamic, but honestly, I'm totally new to being a sub. Because of that, I'm hoping to find a soft Dom who is patient and would actually have fun showing a beginner the ropes. I really want to learn how to be a good boy for the right Dad, but I definitely need someone gentle to help guide me.

I’d like to take things slow and start out SFW. I just want to vibe, build some trust, and get to know each other first without any pressure. Once we're comfortable and clicking, I'm definitely open to exploring NSFW stuff down the line.

If you're a caring Dad who likes the idea of taking a newbie under your wing, shoot me a message! Let me know your age and a little bit about yourself.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 38m ago

Online chatting 30 m looking for younger

• Upvotes

DM’s open I’m also looking for something more long term as well.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 53m ago

Netherlands 27 looking for older

• Upvotes

Hello! I am a submissive bottom from the Netherlands. I am looking for someone older, preferably for long term.. Want to get to know me? Hit me up :)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.MI 38 outdoorsy guy looking for younger fwb

• Upvotes

Been looking for an MI fwb. Northern MI guys to the front but anywhere in the state is cool. HMU boys!


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Online chatting 18m I am still looking for older perv men to roleplay!

1 Upvotes

Age range: 40-60+ I need WAY older men

I am still looking to see if there's any pervy older man who knows how to roleplay and keep me in my place. Better come and message me ☺️ I know you'll love it more than me haha I'll see you in my DMs soon, handsome men! ❤️ Plus, I wouldn't mind a long-term relationship 😋

Chat with me and get to know me first please, instead of requesting for pics right off the bat. Haven't found a man yet to keep me and give me my needs.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

Online chatting 28 top looking for younger bottom who is inexperienced and willing to try new things

2 Upvotes

Looking for guys that are bicurious or new to the gay community and wanting to explore, or if you are new to bottoming hmu with age and what you are looking for


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

Online chatting 45. Southern US Guy Next Door Looking for Younger (25+) for a Riveting, Page Turning Conversation.

2 Upvotes

I’m 45 and living in the beaches in the Southern US. 6'2", blonde, blue eyes, athletic build, and full golden retriever energy—warm, playful, a little mischievous, and very easy to talk to. I am the living, walking definition of the guy next door. Between working out, skateboarding, spending afternoons on the beach, and digging through crates at the local record shop, I keep an active pace, but I love a quiet Sunday with zero plans just as much.

I’m here for a genuine online connection with a younger gent (ideally 25+) that feels like a natural part of the day. The unprompted laugh at a random thought, the midday check-in when work is dragging, the late-night flirting, and that familiar hit of excitement when your text pops up.

Heads up: I am not a bear. I am lean and fit. I don’t care what your relationship status is. However, your dialogue and ability to hold a riveting conversation truly matter. I don’t respond to short DMs, I’m searching for dialogue, a page turner. Effort is key in my book.

A few specifics:

The vibe: Authenticity, wit, and real mutual effort. Gay, bi, questioning—all good.

My weaknesses: Confidence and comfort in your own skin go a long way. Hairy? Great! Open to all types.

The logistics: I’m a top, 420 friendly. Attraction matters, so let’s trade face photos early. Flirting and spicy conversations are welcome, but chemistry sets the pace.

Drop me a line and let’s see if we hit it off, look forward to hearing from you. I want to hear your story. Likely not responding to chat requests until tomorrow! Cheers 🍻.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

Online chatting 19m looking for older fwb

2 Upvotes

I'm a 19 vers switch looking for an older fwb (preferably kinky and longterm)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

USA.MN 30 ftm looking for older man

1 Upvotes

Hii my name is J. I'm 30. Transmale. Locationed in Minnesota but open to online. Please be in USA.

**My appearance**

Passing. 5'5. 250lbs. Hispanic. Cute. Had top surgery. Not bottom. Short black hair. Brown eyes. Will trade pics in chat.

**My life**

I work a lot and tend to have a busy schedule. I have 2 Jobs and take classes. My dog is my best friend. I am kind of anti social but working on changing that! Also on a weight loss journey and have lost a significant amount.

**My personality**

I'm a pretty laid back person. I value my peace and overall just like to be positive and have fun. I have a good sense humor and can laugh at most things. I believe in treating others how you want to be treated and overall being respectful.

**My hobbies**

In my free time I love to watch movies, listen to music/go to concerts, drive around, spend time with my dog, lake days, shopping, cook/bake, legos, go out and do random things. I'm also a big fan of staying home and doing nothing 😌

**What I'm seeking**

I'm looking for a much older man. Ideally 50-70. I'd like to form a close connection with. I'm open to what this relationship would look like but I want us to be good friends, communicate, hangout, go on dates and have a romantic aspect. I like taller, masculine, gentleman. Someone who's caring, romantic, and dominant.

**Bedroom stuff**

Must love makingout. I like a 50/50 sensual/aggressive. I am on the kinky side. A bottom sub type. Aftercare is important. Lots more to talk about in this category.

Feel free to DM me a introduction if interested. Please include ASL.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

Online chatting Looking for older, I am 23 from PH looking for serious relations

1 Upvotes

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Hi everyone! 😊

I’m 23 years old from the Philippines and I’m here with genuine intentions—I’m looking for a serious and meaningful relationship. I’m hoping to connect with someone older than me who is also ready for something real and long-term.

A little about me: I enjoy hiking, reading books, and watching movies(especially when I can really get into the story). I’m a bubbly, patient, and caring person, and I truly value good conversations and emotional connection. If we’re far from each other, I’m open to video calls, because I believe communication and effort really matter.

Please note: if you’re only looking for something casual, kindly don’t message me. That’s not what I’m here for. I prefer to get to know each other naturally through chat, so I won’t share too much here.

My DMs are open—feel free to message me if you’re sincere and looking for the same thing. I’ll be waiting for my plus one in life. I am using Watsapp and I don't use Snap sorry.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

USA.IL Freshly 18 looking for older- im into really hairy men lol

1 Upvotes

hi hi. im from the US and i love childish things lol. i like coloring, cuddling and cartoons. i just turned and now i want a long-term hairy daddy. DM me