r/ForeverAlone • u/CN12Clitstimulation • Feb 14 '22
Success Story Goodbye
At the age of 25, I now have my first official girlfriend. Met a girl just over a month ago off hinge. We just had the talk today and we now boyfriend girlfriend.
I have been here for longer than I can remember, lurking since about 8 years ago and a regular poster since 4 years ago, feel free to search my post history. I have been through such lows throughout all my time it scares me to think back to those times, all due to the complete loneliness and isolation and feelings of being undesirable by literally everyone I came across or all chances somehow going wrong.
There is nothing I can say that would help you guys. The reality is that it was all luck, I just happened to get lucky that we were both single at the time and that she somehow liked me. I had been doing self improvement for years and it never worked for me.
I can understand how alone many of U feel and the feelings of hopelessness. I'm not gonna say it will get better or to not lose hope because honestly the majority of us have bad luck in here. All I can say is that I hope you guys also leave this place one day
Goodbye and I hope I never come back here
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u/Vaders_Fist_501 Feb 14 '22
Congrats, enjoy what 99% of us will never have. Please don't come back
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u/Civil-Development313 Feb 14 '22
I'm not gonna say it will get better or to not lose hope because honestly the majority of us have bad luck in here. All I can say is that I hope you guys also leave this place one day
Finally some empathetic goodbye discourse!! Usually people who got lucky enough to leave this sub just tell us to keep grinding and things will somehow work out, someday. One lucky shot and suddenly they're lecturing us on how not to be FA anymore.
Usually I feel envious, but you understand our struggle and I hope to never see you again around here. Really rooting for you, dude!
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u/JayLiberty Feb 14 '22
Fr, his honest, not sugar coated speech makes me feel genuinely happy for him, and understood at the same time.
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u/T4Labom Feb 14 '22
FUCK YEAH MY DUDE, you deserve it, wish you two the best and for the love of god leave this community, it will be much healthier for you.
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Feb 14 '22
Ay man, get the fuck out of here and never come back. Hope to never see you here again and have a good life man... My congratulations to you.
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Feb 14 '22
wow you guys are like a bucket of crabs here I swear. Don't listen to them OP you rock!!.
Congrats on making it out.
now don't get discouraged if this doesn't last. most relationships don't.
use this time to work on how you interact with a woman romantically, and enjoy yourself.
and who knows maybe she IS the one.
just don't come back here if it doesn't work out.
You are NO LONGER FA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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u/Blue-Soda Feb 14 '22
All the best OP and thanks for posting even though lots of people here feel it's impossible to get out posts like this prove it's possible.
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u/toxic9813 Feb 14 '22
Congratulations my man. Do try to not come back. But if you do, remember. If you've done it once, you can do it again. You are able.
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Feb 14 '22
Well thank you, good luck... And of course I am feeling bitter, but whatever it's like that
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u/PsychoKinezis Feb 14 '22 edited Feb 14 '22
Congrats but fuck you t(—.—t)
Now get the fuck outta here and don’t fucking come back here and if you do, then we’ll laugh.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Fall494 Feb 14 '22
Happy valentines day. You shouldnt ever go back to FA, regardless of how your relationship plays out, you managed to find someone who liked you for you, which means it is possible. Congrats my dude.
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u/FoxCQC Feb 14 '22
I'm happy for you. I hope everything works out for you. Take care of yourselves and best of luck to you