I’m 34M, single, living in London, and I’m looking for some honest advice from people who have been in a similar position or are further along their FIRE journey.
I’m fortunate to be in a good financial position, and financial independence is genuinely my biggest long-term goal. However, I’m increasingly questioning whether my current job is worth the trade-off.
My current financial situation:
Age: 34
Salary: £140,000
Location: London
Rent: Approximately £1,100 per month, sharing with friends
Property: Own an apartment in Manchester worth approximately £250k–£260k
Outstanding mortgage: Approximately £130k
Rental income: Covers the mortgage payments, so the property is roughly cash-flow neutral before maintenance, voids and other costs.
ISA: £111k
GIA: £205k
Pension: £36k
Cash savings: £130k
Premium Bonds: £50k
I’m fortunate to have built up a reasonable amount of wealth, partly through a previous business venture. I previously built and exited a business, so I’ve experienced entrepreneurship before and know what it can look like financially.
Here’s my dilemma.
I currently earn £140k, which I appreciate is a very good salary. From a FIRE perspective, I know that continuing to earn at this level, investing aggressively and maximising my pension contributions could put me in a fantastic position to retire early.
The problem is that I’m really struggling with my current job.
I’m in the office five days a week, roughly 8:30am to 6:30pm, before accounting for commuting. My boss is regularly quite rude to me, and the job is taking a toll on my general happiness.
I’m also finding that I’m not running, playing sport or doing the things I used to enjoy as much as I would like. I feel like a lot of my life is being sacrificed for a salary.
Part of me thinks I should just suck it up for another few years, save as much as possible and get myself closer to financial independence. After all, I have a clear goal, and earning this much gives me a significant advantage.
The other part of me thinks life is too short to spend so much of it doing something that makes me unhappy, particularly when I have the financial cushion and previous experience to try something different.
I’m seriously considering leaving and starting another business.
I’ve done it before, and I know I enjoy the freedom and independence that come with running my own thing. Obviously, there’s no guarantee I’ll be successful, and I may never earn £140k again. Equally, there’s the possibility that I could build something valuable while having more control over my time.
I don’t necessarily need to match my current salary immediately, but I also don’t want to make a decision that significantly delays my FIRE plans.
I’m conscious that I’m in a privileged position to even have this dilemma, and I’m not looking for sympathy. I’m genuinely trying to work out the smartest decision for my long-term future.
I’d really appreciate some thoughts on the following:
Would you stick it out? If you were earning £140k and were unhappy at work, would you stay for another 2–3 years to accelerate your FIRE plans?
Would you take the entrepreneurial route? Given my previous experience and financial position, would you consider leaving to start another business, accepting that your income could be significantly lower or even zero for a while?
Am I thinking about FIRE too narrowly? Should I prioritise getting to financial independence as quickly as possible, or is there a point where sacrificing your health, free time and happiness to maximise savings stops making sense?
What would you do in my position? I’m particularly interested in hearing from people who have left high-paying jobs, started businesses or made a similar trade-off between earning more now and having more freedom.
Ultimately, my goal is to reach financial independence and retire as early as I reasonably can. I’m just questioning whether staying on my current trajectory is actually the best way to get there.
Would love to hear your honest thoughts, particularly if you’ve faced a similar decision.