I moved here from San Antonio for my husband's job. I love that San Antonio is a big city, but not TOO big. It has everything you could want - big city amenities, lots of fun things to do, good food, a vibrant downtown, etc, without the traffic and craziness of cities like Chicago and Atlanta. Since SA and Charlotte are similar in size and population, I assumed Charlotte would be very similar to SA.
But I've been here for 3 months now and feel so depressed. Charlotte feels like a small town to me. The downtown isn't great. There really isn't a whole lot to do. I miss feeling like I live in a CITY. I loved going downtown in San Antonio at night and just walking around, people watching, grabbing a bite to eat, feeling the festive big city vibes, etc.
Where can I go in Charlotte to feel this again? I live in Ballantyne, BTW. But am willing to drive 30-40 minutes to find places like what I described above. Or will I not find that here?
ETA: When I say I live in Ballantyne, that just means that's where my house is. When I was in San Antonio, I also lived in a very suburban part of town, about 30 mins from downtown. But when I got in my car, left my neighborhood, and drove around the city, it felt like a city. There were a lot of things to do. Downtown was very large, vibrant, and full of energy. I just haven't found that same energy anywhere here, and neither do I find much to do when I do Google searches or ask around for "things to do in the Charlotte area."
Figured I needed to clarify this, because a lot of folks are saying that I'm just bored because I live in Ballantyne, like I don't have a car or venture out into the city lol.
Anyway, many here have recommended a few small areas (noda, south end, milwood, etc), so I will check those out.