Hello! I recently got a place of my own, and I always wanted a cat, but CDS seemed to ignore me. Until I visited my parents, who live three hours away from me, and their local grocery store is surrounded by four cats with no home of their own 😔 One of the cats was very affectionate, jumped on me and didn't want to leave my side, etc etc I fell in love, tale as old as time, now I think about her everyday. I already started planning giving away my plants since they are poisonous for cats, finding everything a cat might need, but I am in doubt, since I don't really know cats' psychology.
Doubt 1: What if these guys have already bonded?
Possible rebuttal: The cat I wanted to bring home doesn't eat when the other three are around, and they all keep their distance with each other. BUT! I think it is less lonely when they are in company? It will I will take away her chances to get social with other cats. And what if what she wants is their company 😭
Doubt 2: It will be a three hour drive to my place. I can't just put her in a carrier and expect her to be okay with a person she doesn't know in a carrier she has never seen before for three hours, to get separated from the life that's familiar to her. She is an adult! Or maybe pretty young, since she appeared pretty recently, might be 1 year old (3rd pic, unfortunately didn't take any good photos, I've spent 56 minutes with her purring on my hands, I was busy)
Doubt 3: The place is pretty good. It's a village, clean air, all of them are well fed, since it is easy to buy them new food, people care about them. Plenty of healthy activities, an ability to hunt, play with other cats.
Possible rebuttal: Harsh winters, might get to -30. All cats has already started hiding in homes, and they have none ☹️ My place is always warm and comfy.
Rebuttal to my rebuttal: I work 8 hours a day 5/2 SHE WILL GET BORED HOME ALONE
Unfortunately, I can only take in one sweet creature financially and my apartment isn't that spacious for more than one cat, hence the most doubts. Oh well. Need help!
PS tags and apologies: eng-is-not-my-first-language & no ai we die like men, hopefully I've chosen the correct community tags, sorry for such a long read...