r/CamGirlProblems • • Sep 01 '25

Pro Tips TIPS FOR NEW CAMGIRLS TO SPOT SCAMMERS/TIMEWASTERS:

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I wrote this list for a friend who was going to start on CB. She decided not to, so I thought I’d post it here! This is all from my personal experience so feel free to argue any in the comments or add anything I’ve forgotten.

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People who want to buy stuff off your amazon Wishlist to pay for things. They can cancel order after payment.

a “horny lesbian” or a “couple” viewer is generally always a man pretending. Women and couples on camsites will usually always be fellow cammers, not viewers. I don’t know why they do this, maybe to appear less threatening?

Offering to pay you a stupid amount of money straight away for services, usually a “sugar daddy” is always a scam. Nobody is going to pay a random girl $4000 a week for foot pics 🤣

Guys asking about Customs can just be timewasters getting off on talking about their fetish and have no intention on ever paying, as they are getting off on the chat. Same goes with guys who ask to pm for free to chat about pvt, or asking to chat about something else. NEVER PM FOR FREE if a guy asks you. Often they just want to see if they can and get off on wasting your time. Every single time I’ve fallen for “PLEASE PM ME URGENTLY I NEED TO TELL YOU SOMETHING IMPORTANT” it is literally “you’re gorgeous!” …every single time. Ask these guys to tell you in a tip note if they need to say privately. If they can’t pay 1tkn they aren’t worth your time and energy I promise you.

Same goes for new guys who in their first interaction with you will say they want to buy your panties but want to talk endlessly about types of panties and see pictures, especially pics of them on or pics of your stained panties is a big red flag.

People commenting things like” OMG I can’t believe it’s you on here” /people threatening to dox you/blackmail without actually providing any information about you are either trying to get you to PM them or they’re those dudes who get off on upsetting you/watching you freak out. Ignore and block immediately.

Purples tipping one token and ask to PM. If a purple can’t pay your PM price they’re not going to be the whale of your dreams, again usually dudes into degradation or cheapskates and usually not worth your time.

Tip once, wants to chat forever. You’ll occasionally get guys who will give you a big tip one night then sit in your room and chat expecting attention. Today is a new day, yesterdays tips don’t count lmao 🤣

“”Blank “ has sent tokens” messages. Remember to check what sound tokens make and the colour of the chart when it happens, and that your token balance goes up. if you’re very new they will try this.

Marketing/coach guys will approach you, tell you they’re marketing gurus ands want to help you in exchange for video calls/content. Embarrassingly I’ve taken up 3 guys on this offer before. I’ve never sent content/calls but they’ve just been massive timewasters. A few days chatting and they only offer vague advice.

“I want to do a free call, I’ll tip you well after” or “I’ll pay half now half when I’ve cum” I promise you no guy is going to stick by his word. They will cum as quick as they can and not pay you.

Also the daddy dom type guys who tell you to do as they say and give you all of their attention and they’ll tip you after… they never ever do. (Often they will pay pm price and just bombard you wanting your attention without tipping further or give 1tkn tips) Their demands will just get more and more crazy. Ignore these type of dudes for your own sanity. I find that the guys who have the “daddy” in the name and a control fetish are often very cheap and unless you’ve got a really thick skin and patience it’s not pleasant to deal with them and the pay isn’t worth it, they’ll often argue about any kind of payment just to get a rise out of you. 🚩🚩🚩

Similar to the daddy dom guys, “asshole fetish” dudes are usually complete pests. Not scammers or anything but thought I’d mention they are just really pushy rude people who are hard to deal with.

Promo accounts, “pay us to promote you” (this is mainly for social media) but these are usually scams, all the followers are other cam girls usually 😅

Be very wary of guys sending you links to click on, it could be something illegal or shocking, some guys get off on watching you get upset. Also I have always done c2c but remember that anyone can be on the other side, and if you don’t want to see a man with a hitachi wand in his ass pull it out ands lock it clean, drinking a glass of his own piss or shooting up drugs you might also want to be wary of this. It’s very rare they do this without warning but it happens!

“Let’s collab” messages from a ‘fellow cammer’ are often a dude who has 30 followers and a free onlyfans with 5 of the same pics of their cock. Some guys will cam for fun and funnel all the tokens back into camgirls, so it’s best to treat them like any other customer, but you don’t want to be collaborating with any guy who doesn’t have a big following. Another note, guys who watch girls on camsites rarely want b/g content, (they get jealous, ruins the fantasy) so if you do want to cam with a guy I would suggest camming on his page or separately as a couple on a whole new account.

“You’ll get more viewers in here if you take your top off “ never ever ever ever listen to ANY advice from chat or random customers. They have their own best interests at heart. More people in your room don’t always equal more tokens. I made a new account the other day and hadn’t made a menu yet and I think guys thought I was new new and the lies they were telling me about pricing was wild 🤣

Guys asking you to peek at their pics/cam. Often the big dick dudes will do this, tell them to take a peek at your menu prices 🤣 The monster dick dudes (8inch+) are often really cheap and think the sun shines out their cock. Giving them the time of day Is usually never worth the energy.

New guys/greys coming in and starting off with excessive/gratuitous compliments can often signal a time waster/scammer. Like “OMG!!!! YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN I’VE SEEN ON THIS SITE IN TEN YEARS!!!! BEST TITS I’VE EVER SEEN IN MY WHOLE LIFE!!!!” rather than a more realistic comment of something like “hello gorgeous, great tits!!” Another common one is “You’re way too beautiful for your room to be this quiet, you should have way more viewers!” always greys. They just want your attention for free. Definitely just take these compliments with a grain of salt and a “thanks 😘” don’t get swept up in it!

If it seems too good to be true it is. If youre going to have to put work in for the same thing another guy will just pay for, it’s not going to be worth it. Remember your time is precious, the best advice is to always remember these guys have no lives or hobbies, talking to you for free is big entertainment for a lot of them. They can’t talk to a girl for free in real life and they know they can waste our time as more and more girls are indulging these men thinking they’ll get paid at the end of it. 😭


r/CamGirlProblems • • 2h ago

Help/Advice UK law update.

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Step- roleplay. Is it still legal or not? I’m reading mixed information and no clear answer from sites.

This insinuates that as long as all role playing partners are over 18 and acting as such, that it is still legal.

Is this the case?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Wins What’s happening?

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Win?
I’m not sure if y’all can see, and I don’t think I took a pic of the final number. But I was streaming on CB this morning casually in a baggy t shirts and undies hidden under it , just yapping. No makeup. Bored.
And suddenly my 300 views turned to 2K and within minutes, 49K. What’s happening????
I got a few OF subs too but what the heck is that? I’m brand new and was just yapping.

How to best ride this wave this afternoon too?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 2h ago

Help/Advice Need help with a “fake job” as someone who hates lying

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I’ve been a content creator and cam girl for 5 years now. I used to be a bartender. When people ask me what I do, I just say bartender as if I never left the job. The issue is… my one friend showed up to my old job and was confused why I wasn’t there when I said I was working. I ended up telling him what I did and he was chill with it.

My issue is making new friends… idk I don’t want to immediately tell them what I do. The issue is I don’t want this situation to happen again. I wanted to say I have an online job that corresponds with what I went to school for (business).

I made some new friends I really like and I think would be cool with my job, I just don’t feel comfortable telling them yet ig…. When they asked me what I did, I said bartending, they asked me where and I froze and forgot the name for about 10 seconds and everyone was like ???? Uhhhh. I GOT NERVOUS. I said I was tired since I drove the whole day.

Now, about 2 weeks later one of the friends said they forgot what I did for work and wants me to remind them. I really do love what I do but I get nervous telling people about it.

I also have some family I don’t want to know. They pressures me to get a better job rather than bartending, just want them off my back.

I want to tell everyone I got a new job, just nervous to construct this. Would love some support. Maybe some boring online job ideas? Thanks in advance.

\** I know people could find me online, I’m cool with the possibility of that. Please no comments in relation to that. I have family and friends who know my job and are cool with it.*


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Help/Advice Chaturbate down?

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Hey, is anyone having similar issues? Some of my regulars are saying they are unable to tip me it just gives them an error message when they try and tip, I am also unable to send messages to people plus there’s an extreme delay in tips

UPDATE: seems to be an issue with the connection to their Cloudflare service


r/CamGirlProblems • • 1h ago

Help/Advice quais plataformas pagam melhor e mais rápido?

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recomendação pra quem está querendo começar :)


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Discussions smoking fetish

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soo i’m a huge stoner and have been trying to play into the smoking fetish cus why not monetize it? lol. just curious what’s behind someone being turned on and getting off to it. if you also play into it, what’s some ways you do?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Discussions New to Streamate! 💕 Looking for Advice, Tips & Sisterhood

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Hi girls!
I’m from Brazil, and I’m about to start working on Streamate for the very first time! I’m still learning how everything works, so I’d love to hear your stories and experiences.
How did you get started on Streamate? What was your first experience like? Do you have any tips for a beginner, especially when it comes to getting started, attracting customers, and making good money?
I’d also really love to get to know you all as people, make friends, and connect beyond just work. I know how complicated it can be for camgirls to build genuine friendships, whether you’re living abroad or here in Brazil. Sometimes it feels like it’s hard to find people who truly understand this side of our lives without judging us.
I personally keep my private life and my work as a camgirl very separate. I’m quite private in my everyday life, and no one knows about this side of me except my partner and the platform itself. I also have two young children, so I value my privacy and the balance between my personal life and work.
Still, I’d love to find a little community where we can feel comfortable being ourselves, share experiences, support one another, learn from each other, and maybe even build real friendships along the way. 🥹💗
I truly believe we should inspire and support each other rather than see one another as competition. We all started somewhere, and sometimes a little kindness or advice from someone who understands can make a huge difference.
I’d love to know who you are, how you got here, and what your journey has been like! Feel free to say hi and tell me a little about yourself. 🥰

Sending love to all of you!


r/CamGirlProblems • • 17h ago

Discussions These fucking FREAKS are pointing their cameras at their sleeping partners during cam to cam

75 Upvotes

pay attention to the cams you c2c with and be careful around your mans… cuz these sick fucks are pointing the cameras at their dicks and then pointing their cameras at their sleeping gfs. Report the fuck out of them.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 5h ago

Discussions FINALLY got my payment from CB!

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Omg finally, i requested it on the 15th and it JUST now made it to my account. Waiting on one more payment. Then i'll be all clear, but just having this one in my bank account is such a relief.

If you're still waiting may this be your sign that your money WILL make it!!!


r/CamGirlProblems • • 1h ago

Help/Advice What type of lube??

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Heya! What type of lube do you recommend? Oily? Watery? Milky white ones? To not be sticky etc. U know...to be "soooo wet" 🙄😅😅😅 . Thxxx


r/CamGirlProblems • • 2h ago

Help/Advice Baby cammer here! How has Streamate been treating you? Any tips for a newbie lol

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Hey everyone! I’ve been on Streamate for about a week now, and so far, things have been going pretty well! I’ve been getting some privates and making money, which is exciting, but I haven’t been getting a ton of viewers in my room. I’m still figuring everything out, so I wanted to hear how things have been going for everyone else!

A few questions for the more experienced girls:
What times do you usually stream, and have you noticed certain days or hours are better than others?
Do any of you use a Lovense Lush or another interactive toy? If so, have you noticed it actually helps increase your tips and overall revenue?
How long have you been camming, and what are some things you wish you knew when you first started?

Do you stream exclusively on Streamate, or do you use other platforms too? I know the site takes a pretty big cut, so I’m curious if you guys think streaming elsewhere is worth it.

How has Streamate been treating you lately? Are you getting consistent traffic, or has it been slow? I’d love to hear about other girls’ experiences with the platform.

One thing I’ve noticed about myself is that I get SUPER anxious before I start streaming. Sometimes I even feel physically sick from the nerves beforehand, but once I actually log on and start getting privates and tips, I relax so much and feel way more confident. 😂 It’s almost like the anticipation is worse than actually doing it!
I’m still a baby cammer and have a lot to learn, so I’d love to hear any advice, mistakes to avoid, or things you’ve learned along the way. I know everyone’s experience is different, but it would be nice to hear from other girls who have been through the same learning curve.

Thanks in advance!!


r/CamGirlProblems • • 7m left

Help/Advice Cam schedule..

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Hey girls, does anybody have a cam schedule that they write out physically?

I’m making a new schedule but I want it to look pretty on paper so I can keep it in my diary for that week and I would love to see other models’ for inspiration 🥰


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Help/Advice How to cam/sell content while living with your parents?

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Has anyone ever had a successful cam or content selling experience while living with your parents? Like do just try to make your content when their sleeping or out of the house. Looking for all tips /tricks to do this undercover at your parents house lol. Due to dealing with a slumlord I’ve had to move back in with my parents for a short period


r/CamGirlProblems • • 11m ago

Discussions Does anyone ever take telegram stars for a payment method

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I’ve had a lot of potential clients ask me lately but I don’t understand why they’re rebuking throne as an alternative payment method. To me, the stars seem sus but maybe I’m missing something? Would love to hear from anyone that’s accepts that payment method. Do you find it to be reliable/is it scammy?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 4h ago

Help/Advice paxum pending payout?

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did you cash out in paxum after 27th? how it went?

of course there is some proplems after problems. requested paxum payout, still pending after 15 mins while usually it hits right after. do you girls have problems or delays with paxum today? I'm just interested how long I will have to wait


r/CamGirlProblems • • 50m ago

Help/Advice Are these good prices?

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Wondering if there’s anything I should add or change. I won’t be showing my face and I’m kind of new to this


r/CamGirlProblems • • 1h ago

Help/Advice Is anyone having problems with Paxum?

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I heard they were fixing some problems on the platform on the 27th but it's already 28 but neither on my PC or on my phone I can log in 🥲


r/CamGirlProblems • • 14h ago

Help/Advice Has anyone here had an ab*rti*n?

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Please be respectful…
Okay, like the title says… I just want to know if anyone went through that cause I couldn’t find anything and I’m currently in that situation. I’d like to know how long it took for you to feel normal and be able to get back to work. I figured it would take a few days and was thinking about doing some other shows that don’t include penetration but I would love to hear someone else’s experience? Thanks in advance


r/CamGirlProblems • • 2h ago

Scam Alert SC stalkers

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Anyone encountered over zealous fans creating IG usernames in my stage name and then try to chat CONSTANTLY..asking very invasive questions. Like I ignore it and reply only to say chats are paid please purchase credits but he seems to want to ‘help me’ and tonight shown me a website called camtapes which I cant find but its contains a recording of one of my shows?

Now I have a feeling he is the owner of this possibly unpublished website and sending me this in the hope that I deem him safe and as a saviour.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 6h ago

Tech Help Ethernet

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This is a dumb question probably and I should know this but how are girls streaming using ethernet cables when they aren't in the same room as their router? Mines in my living room and I do stream from there but I also stream from 2 bedrooms upstairs so use wifi. Am I missing something?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 8h ago

Discussions Is AW Getting Too Expensive?

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Hey girlies ✨

Hope everyone's well - I am just curious if any other girls have been thinking the same thing about AdultWork recently?

I've noticed a real difference in the number of paying customers recently, and it's got me wondering whether AW is simply becoming too expensive for the guys?

When you actually think about it, they're paying fees to top up their credits unless they have the plus membership thing or top up £150+ (I have a couple of screenshots that show how much they are paying extra when they top up that I'll put in the comments), then there's the additional 20% VAT on our rates etc, it all starts adding up pretty quickly. Let alone tips!

Don't get me wrong, I'm still making very decent money each week, so I'm definitely not complaining about my overall earnings. Some days I can sit online for hours and barely make a penny but obviously that's part and parcel of being in this industry, and I completely understand that no two days are going to be the same.

But I genuinely can't help feeling like there's been a massive change on the site recently. I've been doing this long enough to know that quiet periods are normal, but something just feels different lately. Even friends of mine who are on the site have been saying exactly the same thing.

Of course, the cost of living is affecting everyone, but I do wonder how many customers are being put off by the overall cost, particularly regulars who might have previously spent quite a bit on the site. One of my friends made a point of saying it's probably too expensive for the guys who only used to spend £10/£20 at a time and I think she's right.

I'm not saying this is definitely the reason, but surely all these additional charges must have some impact?

Has anyone else noticed a decline in actual paying customers rather than just general traffic? Or are you finding things are pretty much the same as they've always been?

Genuinely interested to hear what other girls think! ❤️


r/CamGirlProblems • • 15h ago

Discussions Don’t get me wrong

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I love getting money but when it slows down I start to hate freeloader mfs and ban everyone 😂 any advice on how to deal with that? Been streaming for years and I think this is toxic for me. Lmk.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 9h ago

Discussions ChatRecruit seems to be back! 🎉

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Hey girls! Just wanted to let you know that I noticed ChatRecruit seems to be back online. I was able to create a new account, although my old account no longer seems to exist.

I’m not sure if everything is fully working again, but I thought I’d share the news in case anyone else was waiting for them to come back! 😊

Has anyone else managed to log in or started working with them again?