Me and my girlfriend got a border collie mix rescue pup of about 10/11 weeks about 10 days ago. He was a bundle of joy at the shelter and so loving, he definitely won us over there. We had both read up about border collies going into this, but Iām almost wishing we got something like a lab/golden. Besides family dogs growing up, weāre first time dog/puppy owners and I just canāt shake the feeling that weāre not experienced enough for a border collie. Weāre both active and can easily meet the physical exercise needs. Iām excited to spend time with him playing different active frisbee/herding games or even getting into agility with him. Iām just worried that weāre not going to be able to handle the anxiety/neuroticness that comes with the breed.
He ate two big chunks of a lick mat, and we had to take him to the vet to induce vomiting. The vet said he showed signs of fear and tried to bite the vet team as they were giving him a shot to induce vomiting. This didnāt make me feel better. He sometimes is fearful on our adventures outside, but generally ok, I thought. I try to take him out 1-2 times a day to something like a cafe or outside bar/patio near our apt, car rides, etc to socialize him. I reinforce whenever he sits and is calm with treats, but he gets insanely excited to meet other people when they walk by so thatās been a challenge. (Our local vet recommended this, she prioritized socialization before full vaccination status, but avoid dog parks/pet stores and other very high dog traffic areas).
I work from home and I am not particularly busy at the moment, so Iām able to spend lots of time with the puppy. Weāre crate training and enforcing naps so he sleeps 16-18 hours a day, which isnt going too well because he often wonāt sleep. Sometimes he keeps barking to get out of the crate. I try not to reward this but Iām worried of bothering my apartment neighbors.
Weāve been buying tons of enrichment puzzles/feeding toys since we got him. Weāve been feeding him 3 meals a day, all with puzzles or wrapped and knotted in towel(s) so he has to sniff out all the food. The 4th meal is fed as training food through the day. We try to give him something like a frozen Kong/lick mat/pupsicle before naps/dinner. And obviously doing several short 5 min training sessions throughout the day with treats/kibble- he has sit and come learned, and showing good impulse control with wait, but weāre working on down. Heās pretty awful on the leash at the moment though.
Potty training is actually going quite well for 10 days home. Heās signaled a few times by the door to go out and poop the past 2-3 days.
Besides that, he is insane. Again, the crate training isnāt going too well. He isnāt showing any signs he can settle on his own, besides sometimes on our balcony on his bed in the sun. I try to reward that but then heās crazy again. He is insanely observant. I have never seen a dog so in tune with every movement you ever make. I breathe wrong and he is staring at me again. I have to crate him in a different room with a fan on for him to rest while I work otherwise he wonāt wind down. He pretty much whines anytime weāre not giving him attention. He is non stop biting us. He wonāt stop chewing anything he can get his mouth on despite redirection to bones/toys.
Weāre trying to do everything we can to give him a great life but I just donāt know if weāre doing anything wrong. Weāre trying our best to socialize him the next 4 weeks before that critical window ends. And weāre trying to tire his brain out by giving him lots of enrichment toys and training sessions. But he still is just a mad man. If anyone has any advice for us regarding this breed I would really appreciate it because I am worried weāre not going to be able to handle him.