r/BlueCollarWomen • • 18h ago

Workplace Conflict Anybody else struggle about accidentally becoming the tattler against a specific coworker or group?

37 Upvotes

I’d originally posted this in an ADHD sub, but apparently they felt it didn’t fit. Despite my actions being primarily due to my ADHD.

So, I work in a warehouse. We’re generally pretty lenient and chill. Show up, wear the proper clothes and equipment, work, go home.

I like rules. If they seem reasonable and I can’t get hurt by following them, I’m happy to follow them. If they seem unreasonable, I definitely struggle about following them. Small things, like we’re not supposed to have our phones with us. As long as we’re not using them while out on the work floor and they’re kept out of sight, management doesn’t really care.

My coworker, Kevin, happily breaks ALL of the rules. He’ll be sitting at the time clock 20 minutes before the end of shift, we’re allowed only the last 12 minutes. He’ll listen to his phone CONSTANTLY out on the floor, especially during sports season. I also live in a state that sent a team to the World Series, which doesn’t help. He constantly takes 20 minute breaks, we’re only allowed 10. He whips through the stop signs out on the work floor with his forklift without even slowing down and sounding his horn. He walks out on the floor with his street shoes on, instead of his steel-toes. He’s called me an ass and later claimed he did so in “an attempt to alter my behavior.” No, he doesn’t have any power over me. He’s lifted up a skid almost as high as him, with his truck, and then stood nearly directly under the forks. That’s a MAJOR no-no. I’ve reported all of these to management because we’re constantly being told “if you see something, say something.”

Tonight was another “I’m going to sit down at the clock 20 minutes early” night. So, I asked our boss since, if he was allowed to, did that mean everybody was? Now Kevin is getting himself a write-up tomorrow. I’m not purposely trying to focus on him, he’s just constantly breaking rules or being unsafe in front of me. And why should he be able to get away with stuff that would get anybody else written up or fired?


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 13h ago

Just For Fun Foreman requiring that we dress up for Halloween…any ideas?

14 Upvotes

That was our lunchtime meeting announcement. We’re on a multi building senior home site, so something warm would be ideal. I’m torn between scary and silly!!


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 7h ago

General Advice Full Body Workout Routine

1 Upvotes

1st year apprentice here and I need help finding a full body workout that I can do 3 times a week to stay in shape AND get strong. Any recommendations? Something with weights/body weight preferred. I already do pilates once a week and I bike once a week.

Thanks sisters!


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 15h ago

General Advice Trying to Enter Arboriculture as a Career

4 Upvotes

Hello,

I am trans woman (27F) looking to enter Arboriculture as a career but my therapist is concerned for my physical safety more from coworkers than the trees. Any climbers willing to share their experience on a job site/your impressions of your coworkers and how safe you are with them? I don't anticipate people being overly kind to me in the industry but all I want is to work with trees.

I really appreciate your time, thank you for any insight!


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 1d ago

General Advice How do y'all deal with the staring and catcalling?

76 Upvotes

Hey ladies! I'm an all rounder for the family business (we manufacture and supply drilling/anchoring systems). I'm not a regular on any construction site, I usually just stop by for a specific task or a quick job and leave shortly afterwards, so I don't have a regular team of coworkers there.

Most of the time the guys are chill and respectful in a traditional way. They might stare a little in that 'Ohhh a woman! Is she in the right place?' type of way, but I don't really mind that as long as I can do my job. If anything they usually lend me a hand or point me in the right direction if I'm looking for someone in particular.

But sometimes... there are those job sites that are just crawling with guys straight of the sexism-garbage. I try to not let it get to me, but there is something so very humiliating about walking across the site with the whole lot yelling and whistling at you while you're trying to look professional.

I had a job at one of those construction sites today, and one guy literally pretended to be the driller I was looking for to assist, just to lead me to his group of buddies who then all gawked at me and catcalled me. He tried to laugh it off saying it was a joke and he just wanted his crew to have the pleasure of seeing a beautiful woman on site.

I kind of blanked because I really wasn't expecting that, and told him: "Right... wel I have an actual job to do." and walked off.

The thing that bugs me endlessly is that, in my line of work, 99% of the time I don't know what my customers look like. So I always have be customer friendly and polite to some degree.

I wish I could tell them to fuck off right away, but since I can't do that, what the hell can I do?


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 1d ago

How To Get Started IBEW & Chicago Women In Trades & Construction Pre-Apprenticeship Programs

6 Upvotes

Please help me! I live in Aurora, IL, and want to be an apprentice to become an electrician.

I’m trying to find something through the Illinois Works Pre-Apprenticeship Program which launched in 2021.

I’m a 24 year old woman, no experience, almost finished with my associates in criminal justice, and just quit smoking weed. I’ve been taking a Construction Industry 101 course at my community college since I’ve been interested in working in the construction industry.

Planning to attend the information session on Oct. 28 for the chicago women in trades, but I’ve heard the process to be accepted can take months. Is this accurate? Does anyone have advice on how to stand out and/or tailor my resume to be accepted as an apprentice?

I’m concerned about testing positive for weed, as I only recently quit. I’m done for good and don’t want to let sobering up deter me from applying. Can anyone give advice?

Last concern of mine is the pay during these pre-apprenticeship programs. I recently had to quit my job, so I’m actively looking for work in the meantime. Do the apprentices earn any amount of money??

I’m also looking into the pre-apprenticeship program at the IBEW 134 NECA Technical Institute.

Any advice would help!!


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 1d ago

Just For Fun For any IBEW aptitude test preppers: 10-question Algebra Quiz!

6 Upvotes

Hello! Last week, I started an Algebra Challenge for anyone preparing for an IBEW aptitude test, or thinking about applying. I was excited to hear how useful it was, so I wanted to share it with this community as well.

We all know life can get crazy, and sometimes you get too busy to sit down and study. The point of this quiz is to be an easy way to squeeze in some algebra reps every week.

Here's how it works:

  • 10 mulitple-choice algebra questions (relevant to both NJATC/GAN)
  • No calculators allowed!
  • Untimed, takes about 10-15 minutes
  • Quiz opens on Monday at noon and closes Friday night at midnight (Eastern Time)
  • I'll send you your score and IBEW-style ranking on Saturday at noon (Eastern Time)
  • Winner gets... bragging rights and a pat on the back :)
  • Loser gets... there are no losers! More practice makes us all better. Everyone wins.

With that, find this week's quiz here: https://forms.gle/34uaFK1jDDALDYFp9

Hope this makes studying/practice a little more fun. Good luck!


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 1d ago

How To Get Started Anyone consider doing technical support?

0 Upvotes

If any of you female electricians with experience are interested in stepping off the shop floor and pursuing a career in electrical technical support? I’ve got an opportunity to refer some women to help fill some openings doing what I’m currently doing. I was an industrial electrician/maintenance mechanic for over 25 years and the body has just given out on me. I thought my career was over until I found this position. It’s a very well known company that is internationally recognized. The pay is very comparable to what I made in the field. So, I’m sure yours would be also. Don’t get me wrong it’s still hard and mentally challenging but it’s work from home with good pay. Like I said if you’re looking for a change that’s less physically demanding send me a pm with some information on what you did and what you know. I’m only referring people that have experience because it’s an intense interview process with a lot of questions. So, I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if they wouldn’t be able to handle serious electrical questions.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 1d ago

How To Get Started Starting over

2 Upvotes

Looking to start a new avenue, I am a 29 year old single mom, very hardworking and have always been involved in male dominated industries. What trade would you ladies recommend for someone trying to work there way up to making decent money that doesn’t cost an arm and a leg to get into?


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 2d ago

Union Questions Is this a normal process?

0 Upvotes

Hi guys i recently got into a union F(21), local 915 it’s been many months in the making. But I got accepted into it and was told to give my notice in my current job however I did so and let the office know my final date. And when I asked for my official start date they said that it’s unknown. I still have a week until my end date, but what makes me nervous is that everyone in my job knows and I am training my replacement. So if this isn’t a normal and typical process I would like to know, because the uncertainty of a start date is making me anxious and overthink.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 3d ago

General Advice Been offered a new job, I would be the first woman to be in this role at this company

21 Upvotes

I recently moved to Australia from the UK and have been trying to pivot from warehouse/event crew work to more construction based roles. I have a few plant tickets already but would like to get experience on the excavator and drum roller. I have been offered a job working on road repair with asphalt and concrete, but they said I’m the first woman to even apply for this particular role with their company.

Other women do work in the company, but they all either work in the office or as traffic control. While I have worked on all male teams a lot and I’m no stranger to casual sexism and the whole boys club routine, but I have never been the first woman in a particular role before. I really want to take the role but it just makes me anxious. Is this something anyone else has experienced before? Am I taking too much of a risk accepting this role?


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

Health and Safety Employers should add hairbands to the PPE list and buy it for employees. It is PPE.

233 Upvotes

I have completely rebooted my entire message

Title: OSHA standards need to evolve—mandatory hair containment items should be classified and provided as stock PPE by employers.

We all know the rule: if you have long hair on the shop floor, it has to be tied back to prevent it from getting caught in machinery. It is a safety requirement.

So why are workers expected to buy their own hairties or hairnets out of pocket?

If an employer requires safety glasses, earplugs, or cut-resistant gloves because those items are mandatory to operate safely on the floor, containment gear for long hair (worn by workers of any gender) falls under that exact same safety umbrella. It’s a required tool for hazard mitigation.

Worse yet, what happens when a hairtie snaps mid-shift and someone doesn’t have a spare? Right now, workers are often forced to choose between scrambling, getting penalized, or risking being sent home (and losing pay) over a broken piece of elastic.

Just like companies keep a box of earplugs or spare safety glasses near the entrance for when gear fails or goes missing, employers should readily stock hair containment items.

OSHA updates and adapts as industrial safety standards mature. It’s time for guidelines to recognize that safety containment tools worn to prevent catastrophic machinery accidents should be supplied and stocked by the company. Workers shouldn't have to subsidize mandatory safety compliance—or risk their jobs—out of their own pockets.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 3d ago

Discussion How Have Your Prior Experiences and Skills Helped You in the Trades?

14 Upvotes

I've seen a trend on this subreddit of people saying that their past education or careers were a waste of time before they decided to get a blue collar job. I can understand how someone who is saddled with loan debt or had an underpaying job can regret their career field or degree! (I was in the latter position myself.) But once I started my apprenticeship as an electrician, I found that my educational background, job experience, and hobbies helped me out a lot! How has your background helped you out in your career in ways you didn't anticipate?

Using myself as an example:

* I used to work as a collections manager and archivist in museums. Keeping an accurate and organized inventory of the tens of thousands of objects in the collection was essential; if I couldn't find an object that a patron needed for research, it reflected poorly on myself and my museum. I use my organizational skills to maintain my cart and the site's materials, which comes in handy when I'm trying to find something random like a KO seal. I'm also not over-ordering materials because I'm not leaving shit in random places and putting it where it belongs when I'm done with a task.

* One of my hobbies is sewing, and understanding how materials feel and move when you manipulate them was surprisingly helpful when I was learning pipe bending. Conduit is very different from fabric, but you get a feel of when you're applying the right amount of pressure or ruined a piece of it. Understanding thread tension also helped me run MC and Romex so that it wouldn't have too much or too little give.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 3d ago

General Advice About to start powerline apprenticeship

5 Upvotes

Hello :) I just got hired by CUSW (and then Hydro One shortly after) for a powerline technician apprenticeship, which I’m very excited about. I start on Nov 2nd!

I’ve been working general labour in residential construction for a year so the environment isn’t 100% new and I did an electrical pre apprenticeship before that, but I know I’ll be walking into something entirely different and I’m basically starting from scratch.

Any advice would be incredibly welcome and appreciated, both in terms of the job and also being a woman in electrical/powerline.

Thanks so much!


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

Union Questions I think about quitting the ibew

26 Upvotes

Hello, this is my first post ever here, so if the title sounds misleading, apologies. Anyway, I am (27F) just got accepted into the ibew apprenticeship local 20 program in october. I am supposed to start work in November, and I am having second thoughts. The application process took at least six months from the beginning, so I am kicking myself for even having this thought. I was really excited through the whole process from passing the exam to getting invited to interview and then to passing the interview. I am really scared because I already wasted four years getting a bachelor degree in psychology. I'm afraid that committing myself to this for four years apprenticeship will also be a waste of time and I might not end up liking it. The commute I have to drive every day, the area that I live in, and the overtime that I have to work just to get a decent pay is making me have second thoughts on this career. No I am considering a whole different career in healthcare. Possibly in radiology technology or sonography. So my point for this post is that if you were once in this position, what position did you end up making? Where are you now?


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

Rant Coworker

38 Upvotes

Hey, today we working(drywall) at a woman’s house and she fed the critters in her yard. My coworker gets there and says he hates them and I just smile and nod. As we’re packing up and leaving one of the critters walk up to me and I put my hand out (I know kind of stupid) and I walk off to put the rest of the stuff away and my coworker walks out and I tell him that the critter will come up to you if you put your hand out and he’s like idc I’ll kick it. And idk it just rubbed me the wrong way. It just seemed like an overreaction but yea that’s my rant of day


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

General Advice Older man at work is irritating me and has made rude remarks. Am I overreacting? What should I do?

14 Upvotes

So I work in a shipyard. It's very male dominated. I'm in training at location Y currently but after a few months, I'm going to be stationed at a different site within the same company, location X.

The man in question is an older man. 

My very first week in training he started talking to me completely out of the blue without even me introducing myself to him. He knew which location I was going to be moved to, knew my job title (training to be a supervisor) etc. I thought that was weird but I let it go. 

He then was giving me unsolicited advice about being a supervisor and then felt the need to tell me that I'm meek. Which caught me off guard because what the fuck?? I just met you?? You don't even know me??? I mean, I am kind of meek but isn't that rude as hell to say in your first conversation to someone???

Then he asked how old I was and I said I was 22 and he kind of scoffed and was like good luck. I brushed it off then.

We’ve had a few more interactions initiated by him solely, but just superficial chatting about the long weekend, good morning etc.

Today, its the end of my fourth week here. I'm sitting at my machine on lunch break, I'm on my phone minding my own business. He comes up out of nowhere and starts talking about something I don't even remember. 

I was tired and wanting to be left alone (hence sitting by myself duh!) and I can barely hear him on top of my earplugs and the noise of the machines but I did my best to nod and smile and gave some sort of bland answer to what he was asking. 

He says "Man, you must be fun at parties". What the fuck??? I was caught off guard again and paused for a few seconds before replying I sure am. Then I added that I was simply just tired. He wishes me a good weekend and leaves. 

He came back around 5-10 minutes later. In a jokey tone he asks me since I'm a supervisor, what should I do if there's a fire, I smiled back and said I'm not sure. He starts making weird jokes about bringing out marshmallows and making smores and running away from the fire. Again I smile along as much as possible but I really don't find him funny or entertaining or charming in the slightest plus I'm already tired and wanting to be alone on my lunch break.

Then he says "You need to develop a sense of humor to survive around here". Listen I may be a little shy but I can certainly take a joke.  I mean did it occur to this dunce that he literally doesn’t even know me and maybe he just isn’t that funny??? I already told him I was tired and he’s mad at me for not laughing at his mediocre joke like what the fuck? 

I repeated that I was tired and he said he understood but before leaving said “they are going to eat you alive at X location”.

What the hell? I didn’t think too much of it then but now I’m really angry. He doesn’t even know me. What gives him the right to talk to me like this? I understand its a shipyard and banter is bound to happen but only my friends can banter with me. He is not my friend. I don’t want to be his friend.

I’m considering bringing it up to my supervisor. I like her. But there’s this thought in the back of my mind that I’m overreacting. Am I? Am I just being too sensitive? I'm honestly really pissed, both at him and myself for not saying anything back.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

General Advice Advice from women in trades...

3 Upvotes

I am 19, and I am about to finish my associate's degree at community college. Let's just say that I f'd up by choosing a very dumb degree that will not help me whatsoever in any career, and I have just recently started thinking more deeply about it. I am worried about my future, mostly that I won't have a good job and that I won't be able to live comfortably, at the very least. I currently work at a restaurant, but I don't want that to be my career. So, I was thinking about trades. I'm not sure which one I would like to pursue, which is why I wanted advice from some of you ladies who are currently or have previously worked in them. People such as my grandmother have suggested to me that I should consider going into a trade, and now that I am paying rent and all of my own living expenses, I am getting a little worried that I will spend the rest of my life pinching pennies and living paycheck to paycheck. I want to push myself and work hard for a career that I can advance in and grow into.

Sorry for the tangent, but is there any advice you could give for someone thinking about going into the trades? Both on how to go about getting into them and how your experience has been with your particular trade? I would love to hear about any of your personal experiences with your respective fields and what you think about them.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

Clothing Recommendations for work boots with a wide toe box?

8 Upvotes

So I found out that I have a Morton's neuroma and small bunion in one of my feet, and one of the things in my treatment plan is to only wear shoes with wide toe boxes. I currently have been wearing the same basic pair of Timberland boots for the last year and a half of welding school that I just happened to already have beforehand for fashion reasons. Anyone have recommendations for good work boots (that are also fully leather so they're resistant to all the things involved with welding) that are comfortable and have wide toe boxes? Probably would be a good idea to get a steel or composite toe, too, since future job prospects will probably require it.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

How To Get Started I want to be a painter

1 Upvotes

I've (29F) worked in healthcare (caregiver) for the last three years and I'm wanting to switch to the trades. My goal is to be an interior painter, but I'm also open to trying different trades like welding. I submitted my info online to the local painters union and I applied for a women's pre apprenticeship program. It's been a few days and I haven't heard anything. Should I be more assertive or wait for someone to get back to me? I was honest on the form about having a disability (ADHD/Autism/Bipolar II) would that ruin my chances? Any helpful advice is really appreciated.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 5d ago

Health and Safety Do y'all have backpain?

20 Upvotes

A lot of my friends are starting to work in trades and complaining about back pain. I feel like it can't be normal to be getting it this bad at such a young age. Any body else experiencing this??Have you tried any lifestyle mods to fix it? Any tips?


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

General Advice General info about trades

0 Upvotes

Howdy, long time lurker, first time poster. 29F, I've been an EMT for 4 years and I'm looking to get out of healthcare. I've been combing this sub for some time now to try and info-gather, but it's a lot to digest. I have about 5 years experience doing grunt work in auto shops, 9 months of previous electrical experience as a helper (I kick the young and dumb version of me that didn't understand the value of the opportunity), and am currently in good health and unafraid of physical work (but aware of the realities of of being a woman in physical roles).

My front runners are, in no particular order:

  1. trying to return to electrical work, either through helper work or through a more formal program option in my area. Would take about 4 years if accepted.

  2. Go to the local community college for master mechanic AS, program is about 2 years long

  3. Explore HVAC opportunities, 2ish year programs available in my area. Not super familiar with the actual work.

BUT I'm open to any and all suggestions. The more I learn about the possibilities of trade works and apprenticeships, the more there IS to learn.

I want to make good money, obviously that's the goal. But I'm willing to sacrifice some earning potential for a more decent work/life balance. Most of all really want to avoid the long-term night shift situation. Occasional night work is something I can work with, but not sustained.

I'd really love to hear what you guys do, what the workload and schedule is like, and if you enjoy what you do. Thanks!


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 4d ago

Health and Safety Favorite protective gear?

2 Upvotes

Looking for recommendations for a comfortable respirator-style mask, ear and eye pro for someone with a narrow head and ponytail. I am really struggling with wearing all three at once- getting headaches from the glasses, ear pro falling off etc.

For reference- I'm a carpenter who occasionally paints/drywalls/tiles.


r/BlueCollarWomen • • 5d ago

General Advice Question for IBEW members

0 Upvotes

Hi ladies, my local will start opening application in January. Do you guys think it would be smart to get a NFPA 70E cert? I have no electrical experience and i think having that cert along side my osha 10 and some HS welding classes may help my resume to look better. What do you guys think? Appreciate the feed back :)