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[u/Impressive-You745]

After 7 weeks post blindside (4 year relationship). And after so much in those 7 weeks with cooked distance/ communication, long vulnerable emotional conversations. I finally let him come around to collect the rest of his things, as I was somewhat ready. I told him he could not bring anyone to help as it is my house - a firm boundary I made. He brought his brother, disrespecting my boundary. Then they collected every last thing and he didn't even let me know he was finished or said goodbye. He just left without me knowing.

Our last meeting a couple of weeks ago was a conversation for about 2.5 hrs which ended in us both devastatingly crying, hugging, etc etc. Which was a comforting last memory.

I have never been so destroyed and hurt by his final choices. Had he of respected the boundary and not brought his brother, then said goodbye, I would be okay. Of course he chose the most evil thing he could do. And i'll never know why. And now my final memories are ruined. I don't really don't know how someone I loved so much could do this to me.

[u/piece-of-me-727]

Looks like a childish protest behavior: ignoring what you asked and giving you the silent treatment..

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