r/AvoidantBreakUps • • 7h ago

Vent/Rant Patient Zero

I was listening to music a while ago and I accidentally heard “Patient Zero” by Taylor Swift. Now I’m not gonna go into details of what you think of her as an artist but that song is pretty much hitting me right now especially with all the other people who were involved with an avoidant.

Verse 2]
I bet he burst into your life like fireworks
I bet he even said "I love you" first
And when you saw another woman coming out of his place
I bet he kissed the rain off your face

This and this verse

[Bridge]
So let’s get into it
I know he charmed your family and friends
And you thought it’s 'cause he loves you
But it’s 'cause he loves how everybody else loves him (Uh-huh)
I know it seems like he shines so bright
But he's bathing in your reflected light
On a free solo social climb (Uh-huh)
Take it from somebody who lost his games but won the race

Coz that’s what an avoidant do to their victims.

Chills really

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u/Someday-We-Will-Know 7h ago

Yeah, thought the same first time it released

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u/candle_wax_247 7h ago

I watched the video and that car ride…. I was like damn….thats so him

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u/Someday-We-Will-Know 7h ago

I did not watch as I am navigating a fresh breakup. I dont want to get triggered. But, agree with you. Too painful

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u/candle_wax_247 7h ago

Yeah it was the song that I didn’t get at first but while just randomly listening the lines I posted here caught me and i’m like damn thats an avoidant lol

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u/Someday-We-Will-Know 7h ago

It is like, you gonna get killed emotionally eventually. It is just a matter of time