The amount of man hating women i see on my fyp or opening a sub dominated by women. Literally hate men to the guts and against gender roles but have a long checklist for the man which are the same gender roles.

But the moment it's "bro there's a function and a lot of girls are coming" oh boy the speed at which they get ready? Probably the 2nd fastest thing on this planet. It's so tiring to see when such a big chunk hates your guts, why do you want to run behind them licking there feet?

I saw an author on insta. The premise of her book is that men are born in the prison and they have to crawl out. Your standard misandrist author. Even she has a husband. What is that guy even thinking? You do one mistake and you relationship is over why are you there?

And the men who act performative to get women. Genuinely, like fully respectfully, what do women even have that is so precious that you stoop so low and just crush your dignity(nether gender has anything but you wouldn't see a women stooping so low to get a man)

You know that you have to put more effort, more loving , more everything that for what reason you are simping?

Women will simp ,definitely simp on men but it's mostly on a fictional character, any Rockstar, anyone with whom she won't ever come in a relationship. So there simping doesn't cost anything. In in men's case it costs a lot.

So why do men simp?

Even my mom didn't know about Karwa Chauth until we got a TV at home, and she never observed the vrat herself. But now, I see women in their early 20s, mid-20s, and early 30s in my own family embracing this tradition.

Isn't it simply a woman's choice whether she wants to observe a vrat or not? I don't think most men even think about forcing their wives to observe Karwa Chauth, as if they'll die otherwise.

All I see on my feed are women preparing for Karwa Chauth, buying dresses and other stuff, and celebrating their first Karwa Chauth. Then I open the comment section, and almost 9 out of 10 comments are bashing men, saying they get to enjoy their day, don't deserve it, etc.

I'm honestly fed up at this point.

I myself can't go that long without eating, and I would never force my future wife to observe this vrat. But what if she willingly wants to do it and make content about it? Would I still receive the same hate?

Women themselves bring these traditions, yet somehow, they’ve turned into another reason to hate men. All I feel pity seeing Female blame men for absolutely everything.

Just saw the above post and I have to wonder how bad the arranged marriage market has become?

A central government employee even today is a prized asset, especially in the age of AI driven layoffs. However, this employee had to marry a divorced woman who then started an affair with her trainer and tried to off him? They also had a daughter btw.

Before someone comes at me for judging divorced women, my overall point is that anyone would prefer marrying someone who is not divorced via arranged marriage and only consider divorced folks if their options are really short. Be it men or women.

If a central government employee is finding such options via arranged marriage, I can only imagine the plight of someone who is in private sector and earning less than 15 LPA.

All I can say is stay safe guys, if you aren't finding someone good or have even an iota of doubt about their character, it's better to stay safe than sorry.

What's your opinion on AM market? Do you also feel it is just as bad?

Hi, I am searching for good gifts for my husband for our first anniversary.
I would love to know what men really want.
He is pretty low maintenance.
He doesn't wear watches or any accessories.
I already got him perfumes, good belts, wallets and clothes.
I am considering getting him multiple small gifts like caps or wireless powerbanks, like stuff making his everyday life easier.
Or are there any suggestions for single bigger gifts?
I have budget of around 50k.
1 am actually planning for a trip for his birthday in next 3 months, should I get a better gift then and decrease my budget now.
Any good suggestions would be of great help! Thank youu!

Me (32M) and wife (30F) have been together for 6 years. We always had a regular sex like (3-4 times a week) but at times I've felt a bit inadequate for her. Though she has never mentioned such a thing but I ejaculate pretty quickly (1-2 mins). I have tried to make up for it by going down on her but she isn't too much into oral (giving or receiving). Partly the inadequacy feeling originates from the fact that she have had multiple partners in the past but she is my first.

Thinking that she is not able to open up with me, recently I bought a small vibrator for her. Though she was skeptical at start, she started to love using it very quickly. So much so that we rarely have sex without it. I found it hot in the start as I was able to see how pleasurable it was for her. But soon she started to ignore me while using it (like putting my hand away if I am touching her). I communicated this to her and she was understanding. But even now our sex life is basically kissing -> her fetching the toy -> me performing cunnilingus and rimming while she uses it -> waiting for her to finish -> having sex when she is done with it.

I've started to go to gym in hope that it helps but I am not sure what else to do here as I've already talked to her multiple times and dont really want to ask her to stop using the vibrator.

Hi, I am 32M want to have good sex with my wife.

I am married 1 year back, from last couple of months sex is not that great from my side due to stress.
Someone please suggest a good tab to bang my wife today.

Taken 25mg tab(viagra) but it didn't helped me.

Someone share me real experience and how are you dealing with this.

I’m 30, and my husband is 36. We got married 8 years back. Ever since then my husband isn’t interested in having intimacy. I have written such posts in this group before.
I felt like he is Asexual, he just doesn’t have those feelings. I ignored it, because he is a wonderful person and I can sacrifice that part.

I was talking to one of my bestfriends about it. She is North Indian and she was super shocked, she said she couldn’t sleep after learning about my issue.

So she told me something which is now keeping me up. I have always dressed in a certain way, ever since, I wear jeans and top, mostly oversized Tshirts. She says maybe because I am not dressed feminine and like a tomboy Hé doesn’t feel such way towards me.

Which made me realize, is that so? She says to embrace my femininity, look good in front of husband, when he wakes up in the morning he shouldn’t see a dude but a beautiful woman. Even more shocking is, I actually wear mens Tshirt..I find them great quality and cheaper, comfortable than women’s Tshirts.

My husband used to tell me to wear dresses or buy dresses but I always felt like, why is he telling me this for, I like pants n top. Now I am confused if he doesn’t feel such way towards me because I dress up like a man?
I actually make myself look good, but the outfit is always same.

She tells me to dress certain way, and Ill be able to see changes in my husband. Yesterday when he came home, I put pottu kajal n everything. I feel so cringy to do all that, but I did it. Hopefully I can do it everyday.

Lately, I have been experiencing sudden erections during normal, everyday activities, even in public places and without any external stimulation. It happens unexpectedly, and I have somehow managed to avoid embarrassment so far. Has anyone else experienced this? I would appreciate any suggestions on how to manage this situation.

Edit: Age 27 ( Forgot to add earlier).

My father once did.

In a fit of rage, I once tried to attack him, only to deeply regret it later. It happened the day before his birthday.

Please don't ask me why I did it. I'm not in a position to reveal that.

It was around 10:30 pm and we were all asleep. The incident woke everyone up and they tried to calm things down. Eventually, things settled and we all went back to sleep.

Then midnight arrived.

At 12 am, I wished him a happy birthday. The moment I did, he broke down in tears and hugged me tightly. I couldn't hold back my tears either. I apologised for what I had done and we both cried in each other's arms.

Even now, as I'm typing this, tears are running down my face.

I am literally tired of Indians portraying women as gods as though they are some divine beings. Women are as cruel, cunning, and nasty as men are. They just don't display their aggressiveness as expressively and as directly as men do. Since they know that they are physically weaker than men, they resort to other techniques such as manipulation, brainwashing, deceit, gossiping, etc to ruin another person's life.

I somehow feel that Indians are the biggest simps in the world who are trying to constantly please their woman kind. There is nothing wrong with respecting women and giving equal rights to a woman but this level of stupidity has to stop at some point.

And regarding women, don't women feel like weaklings when men hand things over to them without any effort on their own? Many women post things on social media, like fancy shit, etc. they purchased through gold digging and caption their posts as "woman power", "empowerment" etc. If women say that they are as strong and equal as men, shouldn't they be actually working hard and earning their stuff rather than men handing stuff over to them? I am not sure why women actually take pride when they get something free benefits from men because of sympathy and pity.

For example just look at the reservation in politics. Actually men are handing over their political seats to the women, despite women not actively participating in doing the hard work as men, and somehow the women of this country feel empowered because of that. Women don't do the hard protests. Women don't get beaten up the same way as men. Women don't get arrested so often as men. Women don't do all the physical work as men do. All they want is to go and sit on the most powerful seats, and somehow boss around and control every one under them. If women are so interested in equality why don't they go and join the army and die for the country as men do? Men are the main participants in the army and men are the ones who are sacrificing their lives for the welfare of the country. Women were just hiding in the caves for millions of years while men were fighting battles and dying every day, making all the scientific inventions, and building the modern world. Now once the modern world with the technology is built by men, the women want to go and sit under the technological convenience, do the easy computer jobs, and somehow want equal representation as men. How the f*ck is this even fair?

And the irony is that many dumb weak men whose only pride is having a girlfriend by their side somehow try to please the woman, go on simping for them, and support their illogical feminist causes. I'm not saying that feminism is bad but there must be a limit to the amount of demands that a woman must make in the name of feminism. All the laws in this country, from marriage to police to judicial, etc., favour women and the so-called feminists misuse these laws to make the life of many men miserable.

Hey everyone I have studied about different addictions, read various books associated with it and helped a few people over discord to break free from the slavery of pron addiction. I'm not a psychologist but I have a deep interest in this field and I love helping people to break free from their addiction. During Covid I have worked with an NGO as a peer support therapist as well. Learning about Dopamine always fascinates me and since dopamine plays a key role in addictions, that's why I like helping people undo their brainwashing caused by addiction and make them a non addict. Please feel free to DM if you need help, the only request is please be comfortable to talk about it over a voice call through discord or any other anonymous platform, over chat it's very difficult for me to help. Good day :))

And it's from the official UN Women Page 🫩

So today I turned 28, can't believe it tbh, time flies. There was a time i used to wonder when I will become an adult and life would be more colorful. But tbh it feels like childhood was more fun. Not that current situation is too bad but there's always a burden of performance to be an adult.

Career : i am doing fine earning around 18 lpa in a city like pune.

Physique : decent shape although can do much better.

Relationships: Non existent bcuz dating market is cooked for guys like me.

Friends : Non existent bcuz i pushed most of them away and preferred to stay alone. Didn't make much effort to make new ones.

Life experiences : Not many memories. Always feel like i should be preparing for future as I have no generational wealth. I should be saving more money and making most of my free time.

Tbh my life is decent but there's a void i feel. I am not sad but I am not delighted either. But I am grateful though. Better days to come. It's the calm before the storm. Shout-out to the October ones 🫡🎉🎂🤞💪

Look at what happened in the relationship of 10 people you know from school or college, the status of their relationship now. Not saying every relationship ends badly.

But the success rate is low, the chances are high that you will end up getting hurt, its like investing money and the probability of profit is low because presently the market is bad. You are putting your mental health at stake. Especially if you are a true serious lover, it will take a very long time to recover.

So the best thing to do to not get hurt is, always consider and remind yourself about the high chances of bad outcomes, so that you dont get disappointed or hurt if it happens, and also because you don’t wanna put too much effort and later have regret “I did all this for her and still she did this to me”

It could be cheating, but it also could be them losing their interest one fine day, and start saying dumb arguments which makes no sense or logic and you keep wondering is this the same person I met? I loved?

To protect yourself, your mental health, dont be too serious in a romantic relationship. So that you can come out of it without serious injuries. You might get strong urge to trust them completely, love them completely but thats like giving the custody of your mental health to them. Dont do it, just enjoy the good moments, have fun, go as long as it goes, but never catch serious feelings even if you crave for it.

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Hey guys!

Okay, so I've had a lot of questions about men, attraction, intimacy, relationships, and all those things people think about but don't always feel comfortable discussing openly. And honestly, I thought, why not ask here? 😂

I'm a woman, and I'm genuinely curious about how Indian men think about certain things, especially the stuff that usually stays behind closed doors or only comes up during conversations with close friends.

There are so many things I've wondered about but never really had the opportunity to ask men directly. Sometimes it's about attraction, sometimes it's about fantasies, sometimes it's about the little things women do that men notice but never mention. And sometimes I just want to understand the male perspective on topics that women tend to overthink.

For example, what actually goes through your mind when you're attracted to someone but can't tell them? Are there certain little things about a woman that you find unexpectedly attractive? What are some thoughts or preferences you have that you'd probably never bring up in a conversation with your friends or partner?

I'm also curious about the more mature side of things. How do men think about intimacy, chemistry, desire, and the difference between being physically attracted to someone and genuinely wanting to get closer to them? Do you find it easy to communicate what you like, or do you tend to keep those thoughts to yourself?

And let's be honest, I'm sure there are plenty of things men are curious about but rarely get the chance to discuss with women either.

I'm not here to judge anyone or make anyone feel awkward. I'm interested in honest answers, different perspectives, interesting experiences, and conversations that go beyond the usual surface-level stuff.

A few ground rules, though: please be respectful, don't make assumptions about me just because I'm asking adult questions, and remember that being curious doesn't mean someone has agreed to anything. I'm happy to discuss mature topics, but a decent conversation needs mutual respect.

I have quite a few questions in mind, but I'd rather see what kind of responses this post gets first. 😂

So, Indian men, if you're comfortable discussing grown-up topics openly, tell me: what's one thing about male attraction, intimacy, or desire that you wish women understood better?

And if you have an interesting perspective or a question of your own, feel free to share it in the comments.

Let's have an actual conversation instead of the usual awkwardness around these topics. 👀

With increasing cases of male riders touching Rapido captains inappropriately, and captains touching male riders too, what precautions do you take to avoid such situations?

Any practical tips from riders/captains on maintaining boundaries or handling it if it happens?

P.S. I did have a captain use his hands to adjust his pants from the back and repeatedly touch my crotch. He would even keep moving back so he could touch me. Once I understood what was happening, I asked him to stop, but he sped up and did not listen. I complained to Rapido afterward, and they said they would terminate his employment, but I don't know what ultimately happened.

Has anyone else experienced something similar?

if you’ve seen me around, most of my posts try to question myths around men and men’s mental health; they try to address some stereotypes we’ve built and enforced like “mard ko dard nahi hota”

i have been receiving a surge of hate comments and negative interactions on posts that are basically enabling men to open up, talk about their woes, and normalising these conversations. dismissals, sometimes abuses, misconstruing a post into a gender war when i am only trying to address a men’s issue.

in India men comprise 73.6% of suicides. that’s the reality we’re trying to talk about. that number transcends any political boundaries.

yet under every single post, i find people dismissing the cause and our vision. men, doing this. as you can understand, it’s difficult being a women in this space, trying to understand and help men help each other.

any suggestions or discussions welcome. would appreciate any support I can get x

I (20M) is struggling to have long talk with my wife(21F). I am addicted to her, I want to talk to her for long, not just 5 min. Currently I am traveling since 5 days, our calls never go beyond 5 mins.

I am not sure if anyone here has noticed it or not but the medical subreddit is having a full fledged meltdown after someone here posted why they don't want to marry a doctor cos of XYZ reasons.

Apparently men having preferences in whom they marry is shallow and all men should just go around marrying doctors and prioritize their lifestyle 🤡

I know so many women who will never marry the folks from following professions.

1. Lawyers
2. NRI men
3. Merchant Navy
4. pilots
5. actors
6. police

But women not marrying the above men is their choice but if a man doesn't want to marry a doctor, its misogyny blah blah blah.

Considering how entitled asf the women in the medical subreddit are with their comments on a guy not wanting to marry a doctor, I guess the guy who didn't want to marry a doctor dodged a bullet after all.

What's your opinion on this? Can only women have preferences in terms of not marrying a guy of particular profession? Is it a sin for men to have preferences now?

Edit - Even this post reached the medical subreddit and they're once again losing their minds over it. I don't know what the guy in the original post stated as to why he doesn't want to marry a doctor but apparently they were shallow reasons. At the end of the day preferences are preferences and whether they're morally shallow or upright is subjective. Even women have several shallow preferences but do a better job of hiding it than men. If not, I urge all the women medicos out there to marry all the bald, short, fat and broke men and show us "misogynistic incels" what it is to be a "better" person.

Most women aren't interested in talking about either their life or ours. But they expect the guy to initiate and hold the conversation smoothly and make them laugh. Otherwise they consider you as some boring guy and lose interest. So what exactly do you guys talk to women? (Not necessarily has to be with a girlfriend, but in general with any woman)

We need lessons only for boys... Girls already know everything.

Girls can rate boys, pass marks, etc etc - but we won't have any teaching for them as she is a girl.

But for boys, we will have them in published in sample papers as well -

Every other sub is praising this move.

This post is not meant to say that the entire thing is wrong...

But to say - why the hell use such catchy headlines and just write only for one gender?

Girls pass marks too and rate boys openly - have this book mentioned that? No
Girls falsely accuse guys too - have this book mentioned that? No

And tf do they mean by - "We have been teaching wrong half of the class."

Do they want guys to stay inside home after 8pm?

(I am aware women safety is important. But that does not give right to anyone to openly slander men. Moreover, things like - "Come home early", etc are told to boys as well.)