I know I’ll get hate for this, maybe I’ll even get banned, but can I just say how sick I am of all of these repetitive questions about is this better than that, does this feel different than that, women or men, etc.

Get off your f’n keyboard, get out there and meet people, put your mouth on something, stick your cock in a hole, and just find out for your own self! One thing for absolutely sure, it will be better than tapping a damn keyboard.

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.

44m, just returning to the gym after a few years hiatus. There's a few guys and gals there when I go early in the morning. Had a dream about the gym last night and it centered on a few of the guys. I woke up with a huge hard on! Anyone have any gym fantasies or had any gym encounters?

I’m looking to for a butt plug I can use all day for all different activities walking around house work motorcycle riding thanks in advanced

So maybe a weird one, I don’t know. I’m a 26 year old guy. I still consider myself straight in a way. But I’m probably closer to bi-curious. I’ve experimented in every way you can online. And I’ve found I really really like one certain thing above all. Which is when a gay or bi guy sends me sexy photos of female celebs and pornstars. I honestly really enjoy when they’re feminine and really get into it with me. It’s a bit dynamic, I send a list of women I like, they go pick out the photos, we get to know each other. And we dirty talk and I’m more than happy to return the favor - get into some mildly gay dirty talk and show off my cock. I know it’s probably weird to most, but it’s a really good blend of my sexual curiosities and I enjoy it.

My question is, what is the best way to go about asking a guy online if he’d be into this?
I’ve had a hard time explaining it properly. And have gotten some confused or rude replies when I’ve asked.
And if anyone knows any specific communities on here or elsewhere that would suit this well?

There can be so many factors in making things more challenging than it needs to be especially factoring in things like your mbti type. We all care and care less about different things, some confident in their skin others insecure abouth their skin.

The gender contruct isnt the challenge, but our dynamic of relationships we have with those people become the contruct.

Meeting the one for you will always be a blessing and always different from what any relationship can be.

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Now comes my personal input: ive been bless to have many experiences with women, and little to no experience with men, but not in the usual way i guess.

Women were much easier throughout my life because of what I got used to.

Men were very hard for me to adjust to, most i find incredibly unattractive both in personality and looks.

A few now and then would peak my interest but never really grab my full attention in all ways.

Until recently i found someone who has beamed into existance. When i mean rarity it is. His voice/look/mannerisms/superb humor/attitude/style

You can say ive gotten to fall for everything he is,

The rarity now becomes that this person also happens to be Gay.

And third that we meet in this timeline and get easy conversations going.

Idk if it can get any more brokeback mountain than this but like... he's confident and kind, im worrysum and kind.

We are the opposites that attract yet the only thing missing was to make it happen.

Sadly boys, I couldnt proceed, and with it my heart sunk and feel like it died. Seeing someone like that walk away never to be seen again. Someone i can like that dang much and be scared to even directly say i wanna be friends. Someone that fits every taste ive ever wanted in a person.

People can fall in love, build relationships, etc. But how rare is it in life to meet the love at first sight genuinely. Ive have no met these kinds of people by chance and with both a woman and a man.

The struggle in topic... when choosing to settle down. Having been experiencing a deep feeling of love and also longing. Have any of you ever felt like giving up a side of you for your comfort or would you chase that longing feeling?

Chasing has led me to great opportunities.

But sadly his train has left the station and ive reach hella depressed levels of sadness that i didnt chase after him.

How was i supposed to know someone like him wouldve existed this far into my lifetime.

So to anyone with similar experinces, what are your takeaways?

words of encouragement to sieze more moments regardless your sexuality or sacrifice?

Would she be more understanding and understanding of needs? (Bi curious male asking btw).

A while back I asked for advice on a new friend I thought might be gay and everyone told me to just ask. I decided not to be a pussy and did, he said he’s not into guys but he gets that a lot. My bad, probably just because you have a nice style. That’s the context. I was pretty straight until last year. 

This friend is always very touchy with his friends. I apparently am very touchy when I’m  drunk. 

Basically I got super drunk at a party. He usually drinks a lot but stayed sober which was odd because he didn’t have to drive, we were both staying over. I was touching him a lot. I don’t remember that much because I was plastered. he ended up kissing me, he said we kissed 3 times I only remember two. He  was holding me and stroking my hair later, again idk that much I was really drunk. Apparently I bit him a few times, had my hand up his shirt, but he didn’t seem to mind. next morning he was very touchy, touching my face, getting really close to my face etc.  but still he’s touchy with all his friends. 

That morning I also found out that in his life he’s kissed like 15 guys and only one girl. 

He also put on music and started dancing towards me, we danced together twice. 

Later that morning he texted me to come outside and was waiting for me on a high part of the wall we watched the sun fully come out together. He started sitting at my table at lunch which he didn’t do before. I’m mainly confused because we are friends and I’m not sure if he likes me or this is just how he is, I know he touches his  with friends but there was a lot of stuff that went past what I’d  normally do at least. 

We went for a car ride later and a girl had lip plumping lipstick and he let me put it on him. He was carrying a purse as well. 

We were texting a bit about past relationships and how apparently he has in fact not dated many girls and only had his first kiss over the summer. His first kiss with a straight girl at least. 

I asked him if it was better than the 15 dudes. 

He said “lowk yeah but 15 guys is not enough practice”

“That’s how I know I’m not gay cause the dudes ain’t got passion”

I just said sure. 

Then I said have you ever considered that the lack of passion might come from the fact that all the guys you kiss are straight 

He said “no on my part, also probably not true these guys are probably closeted”

I said fair enough. 

I’m confused. I don’t know what to make of this. I want to kiss him again. I like him I can’t lie to myself about that. But I’m really confused. There’s another party this weekend that he’ll be at. 

Any interpretation or advice is helpful. We’re friends, I’m glad we’re friends, I’m completely fine with letting this go in order to stay friends but I don’t want to if I don’t have to. I wish I remembered more. He was sober the whole time. -I wrote this earlier. 

This is new- We also made out at the next party. I called a friend to let him know my eta and he was in the background saying “ come get drunk and spill wine on me again.” I was sober because I had food poisoning. He kept checking on me and looking for me when I was throwing up until I felt better. We were playing spin the bottle and kissed four times because of that. Then we were on the deck sharing a cigarette and someone made a joke like hey everyone is making out and he looked at me saying do you want to make out and we did. The whole night leading up to that he kept coming up behind me and hugging me. He held my hand twice. They were playing seven minutes in heaven and he went up to me and said do you want to go in a closet but the bottle never landed on us because I was to pussy to respin it until it landed on him. We drove up to a viewpoint on the mountain after dark and hugged and I listened to his heartbeat. That night he asked where I was sleeping and asked if I wanted to join him and we cuddled to sleep all night. When a friend walked in on us still cuddled together in the morning he said to him are you sure you aren’t bi. The next day we went to a traditional Japanese tea ceremony together he’s half Japanese and it was really nice. We hung out alone for three hours but again I’m a pussy and didn’t kiss him again. It felt like a date but I know that’s just me projecting. I hang out with my friends all the time. We met back up with the group So after the tea ceremony thing and everything we met up with the group for food and the topic of exes came up because everyone was telling a friend not to text his ex back so then this guy texted someone and everyone was saying who’d you text And it was some random girl he went to school with. I know I shouldn’t be jealous because we’re just friends but he was passing the pictures around talking about how hot she is. I know we’re just friends. I was petty and brought up my very hot female ex. But then he was hugging me again at Trader Joe’s. He forgot his shirt in my car. I don’t know. I’m afraid of coming off too strong, but also I’m thinking there’s no way he doesn’t know I like him. Any advice is appreciated. 

Please feel free to answer with details if you want to... I'm just curious if it is different for you to fall in love with a guy or a girl and how did it happened, like how did you feel and how it developed.

Thank you!

Hey, genuine question for bi guys because I'm curious: From your experience, is fucking a guy's ass or a girl's ass more pleasurable? Is there a noticeable difference in how it feels?

Also, does age make any difference in how pleasurable it is?

Someone today liked a tweet of mine from 2023 where I said homosexuality wasn’t natural, and it reminded me of how ridiculous I used to be

I used to hate when people reposted gay porn on my tl, someone replied with a screenshot of a cuckold video I had liked, and I spent like 20 tweets insisting that the video and the kink were not gay AT ALL. Looking back, it makes me cringe so badly. (I just replied they were right about me all along)

I also hated when people said homophobes were secretly hiding something because that was literally me. I remember getting high one night and I could only get off to gay porn. It was the first time I watched porn without a single woman, and I was so angry about it that I was cold to everyone the next day

I’m curious about other people’s experiences with internalized homophobia and self hatred. Did you ever externalize it?

I am so lost about it

I just find yall so adorable with the way you express yourself it's like seeing an angel gain it's wings :D

I love the ways queer people express their queerness and I've noticed one of most common ways for bi dudes is face piercings and long hair it's just so cool and cute

I wonder what the internal framework for it is

Could it because being bisexual you already feel inherently alternative to the norm so you express yourself in alternative ways?

Super interested in your perspective what are all the ways you express your queerness?

I consider myself but I’m attracted to watching gay porn. Like I love seeing fit guys with huge cock and cum kiss between guys. I love to watch a nice and thick cock lol. Is it curious to enjoy watching that?

This is a throw away account cuz my family follows me on my main account.

I (22m) often fantasize about men and imagine myself romantically with a man. When I watch porn, I’m more focused on the man than the woman, and thinking about pleasing him. I’m attracted to men, all my celebrity crushes are on men, but when I imagine myself in a gay relationship, I’m disgusted by the very thought. I don’t wanna be in a gay relationship, I just wanna be in a normal relationship where we’re both men. I get grossed out whenever I see two men kissing, I can’t watch gay porn for the same reason, and when I hear a man mention his boyfriend, I feel jealous but also cringe at the same time. I get so jealous when I hear women talk about their celebrity crushes, I wanna chime in and agree with them or mention mine, but then they are gonna be perceiving me as gay and I don’t like that. I would strictly be a bottom and side cuz for some reason it feels more normal for me. If I top a man, it makes me feel really guilty and self conscious and disgusted. I like women too, but I feel more like that’s what I’m supposed to want, knowing my parents want me to have a wife and kids and do the whole American dream thing, but that feels so limiting to me. If I were a woman, I’d be the straightest woman you’ve ever met, and I wouldn’t have to feel guilty about my attractions.
Thanks if you read my rant, any advice is appreciated.

Help navigating MMF as a bi couple

Hey there, my long term partner knows I'm bi and has discussed having a mmf threesome before.

She is not interested in penetration from the third, but wants me to experience getting topped while we're having sex.

I was thinking it could be fun/easier for our first time to try going abroad and hooking up with someone in another city? We're in Ireland, so would there be any recommendations for where to go and what apps etc. to use? We're both extremely new to this as we've been in a monogamous relationship for the past 8 years and haven't been in any other relationships previously.

Anyway for any other couples that did this or similar or thirds who took part, can you give me some advice as to how to go about this? I want to explore my bisexuality and she wants it for me too. I love my girlfriend more than anything, so it would be entirely just sexual and want to make sure our relationship stays good :)

Curious about how you guys latest sex hookup was or just hookup in general.

For me, I was scrolling on Grindr not really looking, and this really cute twunk Hispanic guy hit me up. He was so good looking, I was mid stroke watching content on twitter while scrolling on Grindr) and he said that we were close.
(Forgot I had my distance still showing) I told him yeah, he said he was visiting his grandma and was about to leave.
Said he was horny for some BBC, I was conflicted to invite him over but he was way too cute and sexy to say no to.
Nice lean muscles, nice hair, pink lips and a FAT butt haha.
After we talked a bit about the usual, I gave him my address (my roommates were at work today so it's perfect). He came over in like 8 minutes and his photos didn't do him justice.
We made out for a LONG time and then did a lot of dry humping in our underwear, he pulled out my dick and saw that it had a lot of precum and I told him I was edging before he texted me. I tried washing it off before he got here but I guess the precum was still going. Anyways, he gave me some amazing fire head. Then he whipped his out and jerked off while he was still sucking me. He came on my chest and I jerked off and came after. He told me he wanted to have sex and feel me inside but he wasn't cleaned out since he wasn't expecting to do anything today.
So we talked and cleaned up and then he left since she had stuff to do. It all happened really fast for me but I enjoyed it so much, the rush was real and I hadn't had such a good experience like that in so long.
Moments like these are why I keep Grindr on my phone lol, you never know what might come your way. Anyways that made me curious as to how you guys recent hookups have been??

Slightly older guy on sniffies has in his bio that him and his girl are looking for a 3rd so I chat for a bit and he ends up sending pics of him and her so I send some back, I ask if they like to get to know the guy first or just head straight into it. Fast forward some more pic exchanges I say it’s hot and he gives me his number and says he’ll send more if I hit him up there, that just sounds sketchy asf right? I’ve only been talking to the guy less than an hour and he gives me his number on there, idk strikes me as a little weird.

Wife is out of town and generally supportive but I take it up a notch when she leaves

Anyways one of the things I love doing is dressing skimpy lounging around. Yesterday I had a black thong on with a long sleeve oversized shirt and just felt so cute, so relaxed, so damn good

It was like a release I didn't know I needed. Fell asleep on couch in my thong cheeks hanging out and damn wish id had a bro to wake me up

Just curious- I'm guessing it's higher than most people think since a lot of straight-identified men wouldn't talk about it?

When my wife and I were still dating, she expressed interest into seeing me with another guy. She didn’t know that I had a past w men. She loves watching me w another dude. Anyone else? Tell me about it.