r/90DayFiance • • 1d ago

Episode Post 90 Day: Hunt for Love - Season 2 Episode 4 - Episode Discussion

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The Girl Who Fell Off Her Stool

Emma comes on strong with Jamal, leaving him uneasy; Steven makes his move on Iris despite Razvan's efforts; Michael asks someone out for the first time in two years; sparks fly at sea, but a surprising rumor sends shockwaves through the group.

Show: 90 Day: Hunt for Love

Air date: October 26, 2025

Previous episode: The Boy Who Called His Mom

Next episode: The Boy Who Cried Love


r/90DayFiance • • 2d ago

Episode Post The Other Way - Season 8 Episode 4 - Post Episode Discussion

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For comments while you are watching, click here.


r/90DayFiance • • 12h ago

Discussion Nigel is shadier than you think he is

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So we’ve all seen him kissing Azrael. Something people forget is who made the post. I’m not sure if they have them in the US, but the person behind this post is also the owner of Doterra.
For those lucky enough not to get scammed by the hippy version of Avon, Doterra is low-key a cultish MLM that sells scent oils as a cure-all and gives a ton of disinformation regarding health.

Andi didn’t just avoid a bullet because he’s a cheating, stanky darro man. She avoided the nuclear weapon that is his friend group. The Doterra scam runs DEEP within the health community and among upper middle class aspirational Australians and it doesn’t surprise me this scamming stanky tuktuk sakur lookalike fits right in.


r/90DayFiance • • 15h ago

Look who IS still together! Nigel and camping girl!

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shown kissing in this post from hours ago! I guess since he’s Poly, it’s not a very big spoiler but DAMN this guy hides nothing.

Frankly they seem well suited and now Andy can get on with her lucrative real estate career.

Remote_ad1919 shared the insta post in another thread and I thought it deserved visibility! Good find man!


r/90DayFiance • • 12h ago

SHITPOST I saw this so now you all have to

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There’s a lot going on in this photo. Thought I’d share it with you all. It’s not in his tagged photos on IG which is kinda funny. He should’ve kept the tag hahahah not sure what Andi saw in Nigel. They’re not a good match to me. I don’t mean to be mean (lol) but he genuinely grosses me out.


r/90DayFiance • • 13h ago

Niles is COOKED

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453 Upvotes

Matilda in the interviews talking about how she’s really hoping Niles got something in order for her to go to America, her family on his ass because he lied to them, the broken promise about the 5 month wait when it’s Been TWO FUCKING YEARS, and now he has to tell matilda he’s staying at the last fucking minute. Genuinely accept your fate bro 😭


r/90DayFiance • • 8h ago

Jamal is such a lil bitch

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r/90DayFiance • • 9h ago

Asuelu had a wife when he married Kalani

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She dropped this news on Sheet Talking. Omg I cannot believe that she was the side chick, and to find out when you have kids. This makes sense about his crazy mom when she was screaming and demanding Kalina sends her money! Who would have thought Asuelu could pull off having two wives in two different countries....wow.


r/90DayFiance • • 9h ago

Discussion Sarper Standup Louisville, KY

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I went and saw Sarper do standup tonight at Louisville Comedy Club. As a huge fan of the show I wasn’t sure what to expect. I thought it could either be really bad or really good. It actually was REALLY GOOD. I laughed my ass off. Seriously. Of course he made some jokes about 90 Days but he didn’t lean into it too much. He talked about his marriage but he never said her name, and really it was very tasteful.. normal married life jokes. But his delivery was great… his enunciation was great. I’m hard to please
with comedy and literally left with a sore face from laughing so hard. About 300 to 350 in attendance and the crowd was in stitches. I cannot recommend enough. I’ll probably try to catch him at another show. Lol


r/90DayFiance • • 10h ago

Discussion Ok. So Jamal is the problem

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Boy is a drama loving machine. He LIVES for the drama. He loves it.

He’s never been a main character on the show so he always came off as the “normal one.”

But his actions with Emma. Chasing after her. Him calling his mom. The dude is an emotional wreck.

Just because you FEEL something doesn’t make it right. Like regulate your feelings Jesus Christ.


r/90DayFiance • • 10h ago

Kimbally 2.0

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Please tell me if you see it too... But she really strikes me as another (younger) "Kimbaaaallly".

Down to the dark hair, scratchy voice, getting expensive gifts for her man (a whole apartment!), and fetish for ----- --- (I'll let you fill in the blanks because she definitely has a type😅). I'm guessing production sees it too, hence why they cast her.


r/90DayFiance • • 6h ago

Discussion Hunt4L: muppet mouth and bratz

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The drama this season has to be manufactured by the producers. There's no way these grown ass people are acting like this irl. Jamal and Emma are being so immature. He's too emotional and comes across really childish. Who cares if you're confrontational if you're just gonna cry about it. And Emma is attention seeking and constantly needs to be validated. It just seemed like I was watching some teen drama and not almost 30 year olds. I can see them trying to keep a relationship just to milk the franchise and get attention.


r/90DayFiance • • 11h ago

90 day tell all, Shaun has a difficult but important conversation with Marissa about the language barrier.

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I think it really needed to be highlighted how multilingual people are viewed in the US. I’m glad Shaun said “you weren’t considered less intelligent in the Dominican for not speaking the language” and comparing it to her behaviour belittling Edward for learning.


r/90DayFiance • • 19h ago

Squishy Mommy ain't feeling it

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As someone who hates having their face touched, this would drive me insane. Squishy Mommy looks like she's had enough of being squished, but Niles doesn't seem to be picking up on it 😭 I would get annoyed so quickly if someone kept doing this to me.


r/90DayFiance • • 16h ago

Discussion Victtorio is walking red flag

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I honestly do not believe anything he says.

I don't believe that's his house, furniture or horse.

There's no way those two guys are his friends. I understand that things are edited but they barely interacted with him, but make a point to mention that he used to be playboy???

Yeah I don't trust anything related to him


r/90DayFiance • • 1d ago

Matilda

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I’ve noticed that a lot of people are being critical of Matilda and I wanted to give some cultural context that might explain things

  1. Mr. Arc’s request for gifts is perfectly normal in their culture. It’s a way of honoring your elders and your family. If Niles was from Ghana, they paid have the same expectation.

  2. In Ghana, the husband is responsible for his wife and children’s essential needs. The reason Matilda asked Niles to give her money for an apartment is because in her mind, that’s something a husband should provide. Her money is a supplemental source, not the primary source.

  3. This situation is humiliating for Matilda and her family. West Africans are very opinionated and they’re not afraid of expressing those opinions. The fact that Matilda is still in America makes it look like she and her family made the wrong choice by trusting Niles.

  4. Matilda is living in a country where you can work long hours and still not have enough money to feed your family. Of course they want Matilda to go to America so she can help provide for them. Can you blame them? They don’t want a luxurious lifestyle. They just want to stop worrying about how they’re going to survive.

Maybe Matilda isn’t handling things in the best way but calling her and her family scammers is unfair. They were very honest about what they expected and Niles said he meet their expectations. Let’s not forget that he borrowed money from Mr. Arc so he could marry Matilda. He chose this. He’s not a victim.


r/90DayFiance • • 15h ago

Meme Angela breaks TV

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Angela is watching this episode cursing Michael out.

I hear mee maw right now: God dammit Michael!

Michael shakes booty and genuinely smiling while heavily flirting. 😂

By far the only person I really care about.


r/90DayFiance • • 22h ago

Her smile 😂

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After Mr arc said if Matilda were his daughter that he’d slap Niles for not bringing her to the US after the agreed 5 months and she smiled. I loved it and thought it was pretty funny…I don’t blame her at all for smiling either


r/90DayFiance • • 1d ago

Discussion The cappuccino wasn't the issue. His behavior was.

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I just watched the way he treated her in front of his friends, and honestly, it was painful to watch. She simply asked if she could have a cappuccino in the evening, and he made a big deal out of it, talking down to her in front of everyone.

The thing is, this wasn't even about the cappuccino. It was just one thing among many. It was one more example of a pattern where he seems to enjoy belittling her and making her feel small.

Even his friends looked incredibly uncomfortable. Nobody was laughing. Everyone just seemed embarrassed for her.

I genuinely don't understand why some people think humiliating their partner in public is acceptable. The cappuccino wasn't the issue. His behavior was.


r/90DayFiance • • 1d ago

FRAUDED I’m not deeply religious…but doesn’t the bible say “thou shall not lie thou shall not cheat, thou shall not steal?” This man has the audacity to call himself a preacher💀 Also that smile shows me that he didn’t give the things back and that it wasn’t a prank😐

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r/90DayFiance • • 1d ago

RED FLAG! 🚩 The other way: It was a prank

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Red flag alert. Felix and Michelle. This was a new one for me. She lived there for 9 months already, and then her bf and his "minister" father "robbed" her apartment of everything as a "prank"...? And then the dad says she thought he was a thief...uhh sir...you are. I haven't seen enough to know if Felix cares about her and is being influenced by his dad, or if they're both scamming. I'm leaning towards the latter. My word, where do they find these folks.


r/90DayFiance • • 1d ago

Idk why but something about this guy just gives me… the man ick.

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r/90DayFiance • • 1d ago

Discussion Johnathan is AWFUL

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The way he vacillates between the tearful victim and simmering rage during this discussion was disgusting. The fact that he got so butthurt over a few remarks and considers the meeting with Megan, Ally's only supporter (this far), as the "must horrible $hit he's had to deal with" demonstrates just how selfish & immature he is. Jonathan is a MANCHILD, and it's gonna be a looooong season watching this entitled dork treat this young woman so awfully.


r/90DayFiance • • 1d ago

RED FLAG! 🚩 This guy is unbearable to listen to

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I literally have to skip the scenes when he speaks, he’s SO WHINY and annoying. YOURE ALMOST 50 and act worse than a toddler omg.
I cannot stand him. UGH SHUSH.

Man-child, undeveloped emotionally, mean, manipulative, BORING, 50yo, like girl atp just be a single mother, you’re 28yo you don’t need to be dealing with this old fart.


r/90DayFiance • • 11h ago

Thomas and the perfume

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I know I’m late to this but I just watched the first half of the reunion. In all of the discussions on this, I’ve never heard anyone bring this fact up about reactions to perfumes.

I noticed it recently with myself as I’m sensitive to fragrances. I recently put on a new hand cream that had a fragrance and noticed I was in a bad mood that day , all while still being able to smell the fragrance. Then I recalled all the other times I’ve used someone’s heavily fragranced hand wash and it puts me in the exact same mood. It’s like a combination of anxiety and anger.

I looked it up and this is a biological reaction as smells have a direct pathway to the emotional centre of our brains, and for sensitive people who don’t have a strong filter we register the smells as much more intense which creates emotional reactions.

I just thought it was worth noting the emotional element and it’s not just about a runny nose and eyes. oh and Paula should absolutely back her man instead of gaslighting him!!!