Hey guys this is my first post, I needed to ask this question because it affects me every day and makes me feel so miserable. I started working in this new job (tech sales) 2 months ago, every day feels so long, time doesnt move at all, there are not many customers too like its very dead in here (2-3 customers per day at best) because its a new shop-in-shop that not many people know. I cant sit, cant go on the phone, just run around for 8 hours doing simply nothing.I feel like my day is wasted and have no energy. I am looking for another job but till then how do I cope?

My office worked from home for a while. During this time, my main team started up a tradition of monthly meetup meals at restaurants, either lunch or dinner. It was nice to see them in person.

But now we're back in the office. I also took up a second part time evening job to pay for medical stuff and debts. This job never conflicts with my main job but my current second job gets weird about when to request time off.

So back to the meals, my one coworker who whines and does the least work is adamant about us still meeting up every month for meals. But lately he is pushing for a Friday night dinner. I'm always working Friday nights but don't want that getting out. My boss knows but that's it.

My coworker keeps going on and on about how this year has been so stressful and we need to drink. I'm just tired of rearranging my Friday nights for dinners I feel increasingly out of place at. I don't even drink anymore either. I'm much closer with other people at this main job. But I'm being treated as a stick in the mud for not joining for dinners. I don't get why they can't do some dinners without me.

I share a team with someone who regularly asks for my help with tasks that are fully his responsibility. At first I said yes a few times to be nice. But this started happening every week, and it eats into my own deadlines. I finally told him last week I can’t keep helping with his regular workload. Since then, I’ve heard he’s mentioned to other teammates that I’m uncooperative and hard to work with. I still help when there is a real emergency or our team needs to cover for someone. I just won’t take over his ongoing work for free. It feels unfair. I don’t want conflict, but I also can’t sacrifice my own work to cover him. How would you handle this if you were in my position?

We started using a shared project board a few months ago. Every task has an owner, a due date, and a little activity log showing edits.

Last Tuesday I had a report due Friday. Thursday afternoon my manager asked if I could prioritize an urgent client issue first. I said sure and specifically asked whether the report could move to Monday. He said yes.

I finished the client issue Friday and submitted the report Monday morning.

During our team meeting today, he pulled up the board and asked why my report was two days overdue. I said we had agreed on Monday. He looked at the task and said, "It clearly says Friday."

After the meeting I checked the activity history because I genuinely thought I had misunderstood something.

The due date had been changed from Monday back to Friday at 8:14 this morning.

I sent him a private message saying I noticed the date had been edited today and asked whether that was intentional. He replied that Friday was the "original expectation" and that the board should reflect original deadlines for reporting purposes.

That would be annoying but understandable if it were just historical tracking. What bothers me is using that same date in a meeting to say I delivered late after he explicitly approved Monday.

I took screenshots of the activity history because I suddenly feel like I need to.

I don't want to turn one weird incident into a war with my manager, but this feels less like a deadline problem and more like rewriting what happened.

I have a coworker who’s being sexually harassed by other coworkers(multiple men) I’ve reported this to the general manager and all I got was an apology for not “understanding how things between two adults were”. My coworker has gone to HR before for another incident regarding an old man that was stalking her putting trackers in her car and following her home and all they did was change her schedule and tell her that she’s supposed to be used to things like this because she’s beautiful. I’m unable to go to HR because they have done nothing to help her or even address any of the men that are harassing her. What can I do to make this information public? Would I be able to write a message to BBB and report the job in HR?

Has anyone heard of worked for a company named Genpact ? Ive done my research to vet and determine whether they were a legit company with real reviews but the onboarding process has me re considering ?? Please if you're in the U.S. and have worked for them, know someone who has or have general info about the company, i would appreciate a response !

Trying to understand the bigger picture. Microsoft’s offering voluntary buyouts to around 60K eligible employees (about 27% of the workforce, VP and below on participating teams), while pouring money into AI and data centers. Feels like they’d rather spend on GPUs than people.

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Is this the new template every big tech company copies next? Does MSFT doing it make it the industry standard going forward? Is tech employment structurally shrinking? What's the point of interviewing now?

For context , my job so far is like super easy and laid back, but for some reason the management is actually hell. They have barely any people for my position so i’m scheduled literally all the time even though i literally cannot my availability is slim. somehow still get scheduled. whatever, anyway my son has been sick a ton, yesterday he had an allergic reaction to amoxicillin and we needed to take him in and when i called in they acted like i bombed an orphanage.

So to the real situation, I told my manager last week i have an appointment for my spine on friday and i will not be able to work that day, this injury is known so it’s not random, and she ignored me. Long story short i still got scheduled that day, and she’s ignored my last two messages lol. So far i’ve called in twice in a week for my son’s original sickness, and then again for the allergic reaction he had yesterday. well now it feels like a humiliation ritual calling in yet again and i already know i may get fired. Should i feel bad? or like do it without shame lol. i don’t need this job, it was just nice to have some extra money although it is where we shop, but i have bad social anxiety. idk why i have the worst luck with management.

It used to be common for people to stay in the same company for a long time. I'm an older millennial and I remember early in my career when job-hopping as seen as a bad thing - it was associated with someone being unstable, unable to keep a job.

But now, 2 years in, you ask for a raise and only get 5%? Start looking for another job. New boss is a jerk? Leave. Got passed up for a promotion? The only way to get that promotion is by updating your resume and going to your employer's fiercest competitor.

Asshole bosses have always existed. Office politics have always been challenging. People pulling the rug from under your feet has always been a thing. So, what changed? Did people try harder to get along in the past? Or take more shit in order to keep a job?

A curious question in my mind for anyone in this line of work? How does a job compensate for it?

Eight months ago, my manager told me I would get a raise after I finished a big project. I worked extra hours, hit all the goals, and the project launched successfully. Now every time I bring up the raise, he says “the budget isn’t ready yet” or “wait a little longer”. No clear timeline, no written confirmation. My workload has actually increased since then, and I’m taking on extra responsibilities that were not in my original job description. I like the team, and I don’t want to quit right away. But it’s frustrating to keep waiting for something that was promised. Should I push harder for a firm date, or start quietly looking for other jobs?

Hi everyone!

I’m an intern working on a pandemic preparedness plan for a private practice with three locations, and I’d love to hear about your experiences when workplaces began returning to in-person work after restrictions were lifted.

A few questions:
Were you pressured to return before you felt safe or comfortable?
What did your employer do that made you feel supported? What could they have done better?
Were remote work, accommodations, or FMLA leave options available?
Did anyone feel forced to leave their job because they weren’t comfortable returning?
Looking back, what policies or practices would you recommend for handling a similar situation in the future?

Both positive and negative experiences are welcome!
Thanks for sharing! Your insights will help inform recommendations for supporting staff during future public health emergencies.

Quick clarification: I recognize that the pandemic is still ongoing and that COVID cases continue to flare up in different places. My questions are specifically about the period after mandates and restrictions were lifted and workplaces began returning to in-person operations.

My workplace recently posted for the same position that I am in as we are currently understaffed. When I was hired almost 3 years ago, HR absolutely refused to give me a starting point for salary. I was miserable at my previous (hostile) workplace, and was desperate to leave so I gave a low number, which is my bad but I was desperate. I’d always suspected I had lowballed myself, but could never get confirmation, until now. They are NOW posting jobs with salary ranges, and my salary is below the range. I want to bring this up to my manager but I don’t want to start waves if the results wont be what I’m hoping for. It feels crazy to me that they would put a higher value on someone brand new than an employee that has been here 3 years and proven herself.

Any insight is appreciated.

Hi all,

I’m a bit stressed out right now.

I called out of work this morning due to food poisoning and went to message my line manager. She didn’t respond to my text, so i called and didnt hear back, then i also emailed her.

We are quite a small team - my other colleague works 3 days a week (tues, weds, thurs) because she has a child and I am the only full timer at our centre, along with my line manager who also manages another site. She usually comes to our site once or twice a week.

I was going to be alone today at the centre so I was a bit panicked. I emailed HR just to make them aware that I am unwell and im concerned about coverage.

My boss phoned me and screamed at me asking why I contacted HR, said that we will talk when she’s back, and fuming that her boss called her and asked if there was anyone at our centre.

Im really shaken up right now - things have been rocky with my manager beforehand and she says that I ‘just do’ things without thinking. I only contacted HR to make sure I wouldn’t get in trouble as i hadn’t heard from my manager when i tried to contact her 3 times this morning, and I said to my manager I didn’t mean to get her in any stick for it.

Am i in the wrong for contacting HR?

I'm a part time receptionist for a large local nonprofit. The role was converted from full time to part time after their last receptionist left as a cost cutting measure. No problem for me I'm an artist and the part time work is ideal for me.

The snag hits with the departure of my "counterpart". We had been splitting work for about 9 months. I'd work 2 days, she'd work 3. Then we'd cover each other when sick or on vacation. If we can't fill in whatever, the stakes are pretty low if the desk is unattended here. She got a full time job somewhere and suddenly i am expected to be here 4-5 days a week. Okay fine, more hours for a couple months and they just hired a new person to start in january alongside me.

The issue comes up with a recent development. There a woman with a developmental disability who works in the office, short shifts four days a week doing small tasks like sending marketing mailers and donor letters out. She rocks, lovely personality and very capable.

Recently, my boss took over her direction and added two of my job duties to her list of tasks (stocking office kitchens and handling packages). Instead of organizing it herself my boss had me make these checklists and adaptive systems for this other employee and when she has questions or issues I'm the one she's contacting for help. When she fills out the checklists i am supposed to monitor her job performance.

I feel like i just became this woman's manager? And its not extra work for me, just different work. But i can't help but feel like maybe this merits asking for a raise considering that I'm now working in the capacity of manager.

I just don't know if thats something I should ask given that she's taking some tasks off my plate and I'm doing pretty easy work as it is.

Also I'm in the early twenties I've never asked for a raise at a job before.

Any advice on how i should go about this??

In August I got a job, but then I did quit just after 2 weeks because of some issues about me being autistic. The manager told me several times, or implied, that I looked slow/stupid and told me that I needed to look more engaged and proactive, or the company could have terminate my conctract. And the coworkers made jokes about me being weird and asocial. These things had already happened in previous jobs, and this really made me depressed and anxious, so I decided I would not endure that kind of stuff anymore. Then I applied for this warehouse job, but nothing changed.

After leaving I applied only to delivery driver jobs, but there aren't many in my area, and I only sent 10 resumes in over 2 months. Then I got 1 interview and was rejected. Are there other jobs with minimal engagement with management and coworkers?

• Unverified claims: a combination of layoffs and PSC cuts from Nov to Feb.
• No org-wide layoffs confirmed.
• RL will get streamlined with 10% PSC cuts and 7% layoffs. Himmel will target some teams more.
• AI TDB and MSL teams will be heavily reorged and merged. 8% PSC cuts.
• AAI will be partly absorbed and 30%+ laid off. Boz has a surprise coming for them on top of this.
• Infra will continue creating garbage as they have. Minimal change here.
• Fb4a teams will get the customary 10% PSC cuts.
• XFNs will get 10% PSC cuts and 5% layoffs.
• Sales, privacy, etc. are having 5% PSC cuts and 5% layoffs.
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• Those not mentioned are supposedly safe.

It's all the same, and it all boils down to a few things. We don't have enough financial, intellectual or social capital to advance ourselves out of the underclass compared to our more fortunate peers. We're all stuck. We don't have enough value and attention to exchange for resources we need to survive.

1. Where can we find (affordable) mentors to help guide us to where we want to be? It feels like the vast majority of us are left in the dark and left to fail because we weren't fortunate enough to come across the right people to either directly land us resources, indirectly lead us to something that lands us resources or help us develop skills to again, land us much of the same things I mentioned before - direct or indirect resources.

A lot of success goes beyond hard work. It requires luck and meeting the right people who have more access, connections, skills, etc. No one is self made.

1. How do we figure out what's actually attainable and worth pursuing, both as it relates to a fulfilling life and with respect to careers?

I feel like pessimism has become a prevailing mindset for several reasons including a worsening economy and increasingly selective job market with a higher cost of living and higher cost for university, a loneliness epidemic in part due to said worsening economy and job market and due to shifting to a more reclusive lifestyle, professional journalism in news media and amateur YouTube journalists and essayists hyperfixating the aforementioned, algorithms pushing previously mentioned content and more.

There's both objective and subjective assessments or perceptions on how things are doing for the country and for its individuals. It makes me wonder - what is objectively going on? What is actually attainable and worth pursuing? And how can we track how things progress over time objectively such as the state of the economy and cost of living and the job market? Knowing the truth can help us make better decisions and avoid making worse ones due to propaganda and doomer culture.

Objectively though, we know too many of us who have spent a fortune on college only to work a retail, customer service and/or minimum wage job anyways, which is not only horrible and unsustainable but also vastly worse than it was for generations prior.

Subjectively, apparently every field is oversaturated and isn't worth it anymore for one reason or another.

How can we accurately measure which jobs are worth the trouble of pursuing?

1. How can we position ourselves better to be seen by those with the power to grant us resources and opportunities outside of traditional employers finding employees?

One route people have taken is to try and go viral on sites like YouTube and TikTok to be seen by not just everyday people but to also eventually be seen by the elites. Once you go viral, you're suddenly charismatic and everyone wants to give you all sorts of opportunities, money and even more attention. And they eventually build a business and multiple stream of income following that. Content creation. Selling books. Mentoring others. Selling courses and online communities Maybe becoming a mainstream hollywood actor. You get the idea. Some people even go viral enough to meet the president, to be accepted into ivy league schools, etc. Set for life.

Any other strategies for being seen?

1. How do we *directly* develop skills, especially ones that involve creating one's own business? No one online gives any answers except for surface level obvious ones, more soft skills rather than technical skills, and mindset wisdom rather than actionable steps. Any *actual* practical or serviceable knowledge is either paywalled or falsely promised behind paywalls. What's the most cost effective and trusted source(s) for learning skills like investing, starting a business, etc.?

One major problem is that a lot of people doing better than us are at odds with us. The upper class want to retain as much of their wealth as possible. They have the means to create value and rely on the underclass to hopefully buy what they're offering for as much money possible in exchange for as little resources as possible (resorting to all sorts of marketing and sales tactics to mislead or outright scam). It's generally against their best interest to help elevate the underclass because without an underclass, there's no one left to rely on them (maybe). Capitalism. Profits over people. Something or other. If it wasn't obvious enough, I'm not the most educated or articulate when it comes to business, economics and politics.

Even colleges value profits more than people, have bloated administrations that pay people who do nothing all day while underpaying the actual professors.

1. Any other important things we should all consider?

As far as school is concerned, networking with peers and professors is paramount. Additionally, school is more than completing coursework and getting good grades. You need to have it all to stand out. You need work experience, life experience, communication and negotiation skills, having a compelling identity and story attached to it to make people remember you, like you and want to choose you over others. You need to develop a passion for something that can hopefully generate money from - something that makes you (maybe uniquely) valuable. You have to also choose based on what the market deems as being in demand.

This is a second hand account but years ago, I worked with an engineering firm and our office had about 50 people assigned to it. My project manager represented our team and would sit in on major meetings. He quit about a year after I started and told me as he was leaving to “keep your options open.”

I was also let go about two years after that but always kept in contact with my old project manager. He later told me about a meeting he sat in that really made him want to quit. In the meeting, they were discussing who they may lay off to save some money. Some decisions made sense.

“We should let Ben go since his only job is a drafter and everyone else above him knows how to draft.”

“I think we should let Michael go because his projects are all over budget.”

These were just some of the discussions being held. But some were more brutal.

“We should let Alissa go. She’s missed a lot of work this year because her kid was dealing with an injury.” A manager said.

“But she’s also using her PTO. She’s a single mom and life’s tough for her.” My project manager said in her defense.

“Well it’s about to get more tougher. She’s out.” The manager responded.

I know business can be brutal but just hearing how heartless some of these decisions can be made is honestly eye opening. Now I see why he told me to keep my options open.

I later also found out that yearly bonuses were not going to be issued but that this was a cover story as everyone in the executive level would still collect a bonus but was told to tell everyone else that no one would get one.

Anyone else have experiences where they were let go suddenly or found out that it was “cold and brutal.”

Im considering applying for a job but the main issue is the shift pattern rotates weekly between 7am-3pm and 3pm-11pm. Has anybody here experienced working this type of shift pattern? How difficult is it to manage?

I got a bachelors of forensic psychology and have landed a desk job doing admin but make very little and really am struggling with the job and the repetitive nature and I barely interact with other people. I am worried about my long term salary I doubt it will increase that much at least at my company (48k). I look at people who went to dental hygienist school, radiology tech, and I’m like damn they are making like 80k post grad. What is a different program or route I can go back into if need be or post grad certifications I can get to get into a much higher pay range? I didn’t think I would do so badly in my undergrad but graduated with a 2.6 and will not get into a msw or counseling master which makes me cry at night. I really need help I feel so lost and sad about my career prospects. Any advice would be amazing! I like working with people, I do like some computer work but all on a screen is very draining for me, I miss people interaction or atleast feeling like I was making a difference or using my brain and communication skills. I’m so scared about my long term and I feel trapped. I do think marketing would be super fun but it seems really hard to get into. Any advice would be great. Thanks so much

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My workload is high and I work about 8 hours through every day but there are some things which drag on. Work is constantly coming in and it's variable so I've just stopped giving estimates. I would think something should take a week, so I'd say 2 weeks, then I'll get an email about some urgent project that winds up eating 1.5 of those weeks.

How can I push back or explain it while maintaining professionalism? I've had projects where I've pushed the deadline back 2-3 times because other immediate things have come up.

We're a 4 person IT team, I'm the sole "developer" here, and maintain lots of legacy code and apps for the business. Many of these are critical to the business, so if 10 people can't work because they can't use the system they need, it's not something I can ignore.

Advice? I don't mind the pressure but I'm mostly concerned about gaining a reputation of being unreliable.

I have been working at this company for seven years now. Almost 2 years ago, all my work duties were taken away from me by my supervisor, while the director of the institution refuses to do anything about it. Otherwise, it's a very toxic environment; ever since I arrived, I have been the target of gossip by many people, making up rumors, and the rest. I don't know why that is, since I haven't given anyone a reason for it.

I read somewhere that stripping away work tasks with the goal of inducing passivity, a feeling of worthlessness, and other negative effects in an employee is called "empty-desk mobbing". To make matters worse, I enrolled in PhD studies and am doing my experiments here. For 2 years I haven't done anything, absolutely nothing, I simply can't. Something inside me doesn't allow me to. I feel extremely unproductive, very worthless and useless, and I don't have anyone who could help me.

I really don't know what to do.