Hi. I am 17M from South Africa. It has been nearly 6 months since I became vegetarian in May. It has been a simultaneously fun and tumultuous journey 🤣 I have been wanting to write about this in the hopes of inspiring others, also to keep it for posterity so my descendants can know what I went through.
It all started when I did an intensive 2-3 day digital detox combined with fasting. My vibration increased significantly as my body-mind had a rejuvenating break from digestion and stimulation respectively. I felt very compassionate and thinking about Khandro Tseringma Rinpoche, a Tibetan Buddhist figure who I strongly admire… I decided I didn't want to eat animals anymore.
So on 20 May 2026, instead of eating the burger my mom made for our lunches, I bought a packet of nuts at the school tuckshop to get healthy fats. I didn't actually bring money that day, but when I asked my Bio teacher for a R20 loan, she didn't have cash on her and just wrote a note to the tuckshop lady to give me the said item. That was the first day of my journey. Truly a blessing of the Universe.
For context, if anyone here knows about South Africa, you’ll know we have a big meat culture. Biltong, fried chicken, bunny chow, meat curries, wors rolls, the hallowed braai tradition… so yeah this was going to be an uphill battle for me.
My dad previously looked into plant-based lifestyle years prior seeing those Netflix documentaries on it. However, meat is not unhealthy from a nutritional standpoint. The concern in the yogic tradition is energetic contamination as the trauma, anguish, suffering of the animal at the time of death releases all those lower vibrations into the flesh, which you take on if you eat it. And also just the obvious fact that murdering and eating animals when meat is no longer a biological necessity to survive is completely unethical; not a compassionate thing to do.
It is actually illogical to have a vegetarian diet for health reasons while still eating junk food, seed oils, sugar, etc (which my dad did 🙈) because these things have a far more negative impact on the human body than meat.
As Osho says:
"I do not believe in vegetarianism, because I do not believe in anything. My disciples are vegetarian not as a cult, not as a creed. They are vegetarians because their meditations make them more human, more of the heart, and they can see the whole stupidity of people killing living beings for their food. It is their sensitivity, their aesthetic awareness that makes them vegetarians. I don’t teach vegetarianism; it is a by-product of meditation. Wherever meditation has happened, people have become vegetarian, always, for thousands of years."
My health and wellness journey began when I was 15 when I started following Satvic Movement on YouTube. Having totally jettisoned junk food from my diet, I felt so much better and I am still very thankful to the people at the helm for their help in my spiritual journey.
A funny story. My mom made vegetarian curry when my dad was going plant-based, and my maternal uncle humorously quipped “I chowed the roti, and I realized I’m not chowing chicken. So I look and I see… vegetable fucking curry! Jesus, what a waste!” Still being under the misconception (because of my dad) that veg is healthier, I told him he should eat it to help with his asthma, to which he responded “We’re all gonna die anyway, so you might as well go down with proper, meat curry.”
My uncle’s friend couldn’t believe how my mom committed “sacrilege”, as “roti is sacred, don’t do that to roti”. 🙈💀 They went on a tangent about how the Khoisan people ate meat for centuries “trekking for hundreds of kilometres to hunt, and now you wanna come with a Netflix documentary” yet this is another misconception. The bulk of our ancestors’ calories came from collecting berries, roots, and fruits. They did not eat copious amounts of meat like the stereotypical caveman image.
Additionally, this fallacious argument conveniently ignores the ancient history of vegetarianism in the yogic and Daoist traditions of India and China respectively, whose practitioners have UNPARALLELED vitality and longevity; the kind South African uncles can only dream of.
Anyways, back to my story. On that very first day, I contacted a friend of mine who is a monk at the Hare Krishna ashram in my city, and he gave me tips on becoming vegetarian, saying that he has been so for years without any health issues. I updated him after a week, saying how my body did take some time to adjust, how my energies felt more balanced and how I’ll never go back to eating meat again.
Rejoicing in my progress, he sent me this verse from the Mahabharata Anu:
"That man, who having eaten meat, gives it up afterwards wins merit by such a deed that is so great that a study of all the Vedas or a performance, O Bharata, of all the sacrifices [Vedic rituals], cannot give its like." (115.16)
An Indian aunty from our Osho South Africa group -- who happens to also be part of a health club -- told me about a month or two prior to taking my commitment it isn't actually difficult to transition to a plant-based diet, it's just that in westernized societies we aren't used to proper, hearty vegetarian meals. She is actually originally from Gujarat, which is *very* vegetarian, before moving to South Africa.
A Punjabi friend of mine from Pakistan who had been vegetarian for over a year at the time, mentioned how their cuisine is already mostly vegetarian, and that a "hard mindset to overcome" for "westoids" is thinking a meal is somehow incomplete without meat. The underlying misconception is that a vegetarian diet only comprises fruits and cruciferous vegetables i.e. a salad. Incorporating wholewheat products, legumes, and dairy gives one all the possible dietary requirements.
A friend from Puerto Rico who is a follower of Master Ching Hai, a strong proponent of plant-based living, gave me heartfelt encouragement and sent me a short practice on purifying the bad karma created by previously eating meat.. Master Ching Hai has a whole ebook freely available for vegan cooking.
Because I was sincere about this endeavour and literally the last thing I wanted was my family being on my case, who would psychologically start seeing every reason to diagnose me as anaemic, who could even potentially derail my efforts, I decided to keep it under the wraps, in sworn secrecy. It truly was a mentally exhausting time -- having to make excuses for not eating the meat options, removing the chicken and beef pieces from the curry / chow mein / soup my mom made, them not knowing what's going on, etc. However, I successfully managed to keep it up, deceiving them without detection.
After a while of continuing in this way, I celebrated by making a healthy, no-flour, no-sugar fruit cake to mark 1 month of undercover vegetarianism. My online friends celebrated with me.
In July, I went to the Hare Krishna ashram to talk about spiritual topics with my monk friend and luckily I came on a day when they were bulk cooking foodstuffs for their food program where they provide for impoverished communities. So they helped me out that day (as the meals are all vegetarian of course and I was still undercover). He lamented how when attending a function somewhere, someone asked him “Why are you taking so long to choose?” to which he explained he’s vegetarian. Dude was dumbfounded, “Then, what do you eat??”
“You see, it’s like we’re brainwashed to believe we have to eat meat.”
Departing from the ashram after the 2 hours I spent conversing, I went to stay over by my granny’s house for a few days. My uncle lives with my granny, so I was a little concerned as to how I would pull this off. When he made a dish with onion, tomato and vienna, I just said I can’t eat the vienna because it’s processed meat 🤣 (Context, I am very health conscious, so he thought it was just me being me, a vegetarian right under his nose!)
My sweet grandmother was the first person I let in on this secret. When my uncle brought home chicken briyani, she secretly took out the chicken pieces for my plate.
While I was staying on that side of town, I visited my Cape Malay cousins who stay nearby and I was speaking to my cousin…
"Can I tell you something? But just don't tell my family.”
"Oh what’s going on what happened?"
“No it’s nothing bad…”
“Oh okay…”
"I'm vegetarian!"
The ensuing conversation felt like a weight lifted off my shoulder. I finally told someone, and she was supportive. She had full confidence in my knowledge of holistic health, “You wouldn’t do something without knowing what the body needs,” and suggested, "You should secretly record, telling your family "I want to be vegetarian", then they voice all their concerns, then you say "Well, I've already been vegetarian for x amount of time!"" 🤣
The following Saturday, she bought pizzas for everyone (as we have family gatherings on that occasion every week) with a small vegetarian pizza for me. My other cousin and I had a whole 2-hour discussion on religion and spirituality, and upon her asking I told her about the yogic perspective on vegetarianism. I really love them. Yusra and Zainab, your support in the early days of my underground operations shall be remembered 😂
After 2 months, my mom eventually caught on, seeing how I had been avoiding meat. She was somewhat supportive and told me I could have let her know earlier on, but it was the wisest decision not to. Because for a while she still said how I should leave “this vegetarian crap” to gain weight, and all of a sudden after I told her, I somehow looked thinner and oh my god! That’s EXACTLY WHY I just thought bugger it I’m not telling a soul.
In ayurvedic medicine, there are 3 doshas or body types. I am vata or ectomorph so my stature is naturally skinny. Strength training is the only way a vata can build muscle, which I did previously see great results from but just wasn’t consistent in. I have been doing more strength training though and I look forward to gaining healthy weight.
After my mom found out, I decided to swiftly announce it on our family WhatsApp group, alongside a list of common misconceptions DEBUNKED about plant-based dieting that I prepared beforehand as back-up. It was quiet in the chat; the satisfying sound of victory; they could not lecture me or raise illogical concerns as I was still full of vitality after 2 months and had done thorough research.
Since then, my mom and I have been making more delicious, animal-free dishes. We’ve mainly been making vegetarian curries. I have recently learned that the Tewahedo Church of Ethiopia has a strong tradition of veganism where for over half the year, devotees abstain from meat and dairy. Because about 40% of the country’s population are members of the church, vegetarian dishes are interwoven with Ethiopian culture and according to some people “No one does vegetarian food like Ethiopians!”.
Since becoming vegetarian, I just can’t understand how for so many years of my life I had been eating animal flesh unnecessarily. I am grateful that – after a while of considering it – I finally put my foot down taking the first steps of this journey those months ago. By abstaining from consuming meat, we withdraw support for the animal killing industry, preventing a lot of negative karma from being created.
Love is what made me vegetarian. I think it's impossible to convince people to swap to this lifestyle intellectually, love has to be ignited in them. As Garchen Rinpoche says:
“Love is the only cause of happiness. Its nature is all-pervasive like space. Love is the sunlight of the mind. It does not matter whether one calls oneself a Buddhist or not a Buddhist. The Dharma is love.”
Hope you enjoyed this little account 😎🤣