I’ve been thinking a lot about modern dating and how everything feels so instant now.

We swipe, match, talk for a lil bit and sometimes decide within minutes if someone is worth our time.
But here’s the thing… love takes time.

Sometimes you don’t feel that instant spark. Sometimes attraction grows from friendship, shared experiences, late night conversations, or just slowly getting to know another human.

And I think that’s so beautiful.

I wonder how many wonderful connections we’ve missed because we were so quick to move on to the next person?

Don’t get me wrong, you should never force a connection or stay somewhere you don’t feel valued.

But I do think we’ve become so obsessed with finding the perfect person that we sometimes forget people are complicated, imperfect, beautiful little humans.
Love isn’t always fireworks and butterflies.

Sometimes it’s a slow burn. Sometimes it’s finding comfort in someone you never expected.

And maybe instead of constantly asking “is there someone better out there?” we should sometimes ask “have I actually given this person a chance to show me who they are?”

Idk, I just think human connection is one of the most beautiful parts of being alive and I wish we gave it a lil more patience.

Anyway, thanks for attending my lil TED Talk. 💚

Not necessarily romantically. Maybe a friend remembered something tiny about you, or a stranger showed you unexpected kindness.

I feel like we don’t talk enough about all the little ways humans make each other feel special.

I wanna hear your stories!

Not looks. Not money. Just some silly little thing that made your brain go, “Oh no, I like this person.”

I wanna hear your stories.

I’ve been having so much fun sharing my TopCrush link on my other social media accounts and seeing what comes back!

Sometimes it’s a sweet message from a friend, sometimes it’s someone being a little flirty, and sometimes it’s a completely anonymous crush.

This one genuinely made my day!

Hey guys!

Welcome to the official TopCrush community!

So, what is TopCrush?
TopCrush is an independent connections app built around something we all crave: genuine human connection.
Whether you’re looking for romance, friendship, or just a little fun, TopCrush is about connecting in a new way.

✨ Share your personal TopCrush link and receive anonymous crushes.

💕 Connect with potential friends and romantic interests.

🔮 Explore astrological compatibility using your Big Three.

💌 Celebrate all kinds of human connections, whether you’re single, taken, or married!

What’s this subreddit for?
-We want this to be a fun, welcoming space to:
-Talk about crushes, friendships, dating, and relationships.
-Share your experiences and ask for advice.
-Meet new people and build connections.
-Share your TopCrush links in designated threads.
-Give feedback and help shape the future of TopCrush!
-We’re a small, independent project with big dreams of bringing people closer together.

Let’s start with a question:
What’s one thing that makes you instantly develop a crush on someone? 👀💕

Welcome to the community. We’re happy you’re here!
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