r/PhR4Friends • • Sep 28 '26

This subreddit is for FRIENDSHIP ONLY.

1.1k Upvotes

Honestly, the posts we see these days are getting so ridiculous. Why do you need someone to be taller than you when you're only looking to chat, call, study, or watch a movie? Why do you need your friends to be of a certain body type? Exchange pics to know if "we vibe". Wow?? Is that how you look for friends? Dapat attracted kayo sa isa't-isa?

Tapos pag na-remove at na-ban kayo, sasabihin na platonic lang naman talaga yung hanap niyo. Magtatago kayo sa reasoning na preference lang. Yeah, sure.

It's been 2 years since we transitioned this subreddit to a strictly platonic one. Why are we still facing the same issues as if the shift just happened yesterday?

As a reminder: Your post should be clear about your intention of finding friends. Any ambiguity may cause your post to get removed. Repeated offense will get you a temporary ban, then a permanent ban once you break the rules again after your ban gets lifted.

Examples of ambiguity include, but are not limited to:

  • has height and weight requirements
  • "should be easy on the eyes/attractive/cute/pretty/pogi"
  • "open to a relationship if it happens naturally, but would want to be friends first"
  • "exchange pics to see if we vibe"
  • "vibe and see where this goes"
  • "gusto ko ng lambing, cuddle"
  • fake BF/GF posts
  • has the same post in dating subreddits, other R4R subreddits with a dating flair

Each subreddit has a purpose. If what you're looking for doesn't align with the sub, then DON'T POST THERE. Hindi yung pag na-call out, idadahilan pa na "para lang mas malawak yung reach". Kung jowa hanap niyo, kung gusto niyong lumandi, sa DATING SUBREDDIT kayo magpost, hindi dito. It's that simple.

Please read the rules. Thank you.


r/PhR4Friends • • Dec 13 '25

IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT Scammer is still scamming! READ THIS POST.

45 Upvotes

Don't fall for this scam!

Context: https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1nsk254/be_aware_of_this_scammer/

https://www.reddit.com/r/PhR4Friends/comments/1o7zfe6/scammer_beacatto_now_goes_by_jus/

Apparently, this scammer is still active. Your girl (girl nga ba??) is working hard! Currently using the account Alternative_Week_940 (https://www.reddit.com/user/Alternative_Week_940/)

TG: puffypufzz

Discord: noturlegaleagle

Still playing on people's emotions and making them feel bad enough to send them money.

"Allyson Lopez" is the name they're going by. Hindi ko na icecensor kasi fake din naman. (Previous names: Justine Manalo, Beatrice Lopez) Still using the same UNO Account number.

DOST scholar pa rin daw siya, pre-med student kuno.

They tried posting here but their account was flagged for ban evasion. But that won't stop them from messaging you–men in particular. Kasi they will offer to be a virtual gf, might send you thirst traps na stolen lang din. Anything to fool you out of your money.

TIGILAN NIYO NA KASI ANG PAG-BIGAY NG PERA JUSKO

THEY WON'T STOP HANGGA'T MAY NALOLOKO PA RIN SILA

EDIT: Adding more photos

Aww, nagpalit na siya ng name kasi na-feature na naman.


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Discord Server 28 [F4A] - 🍫 Looking for new friends and Discord tambay buddies!

11 Upvotes

Adulting is hard enough. Minsan gusto mo lang naman ng bagong circle of friends na puwedeng kausapin about anything, makipagbardagulan sa GC, mag-share ng memes, or yayain sa biglaang coffee and food trips.

So, unti-unting nabubuhay ulit ang The Chocolate Factory! 🍫

We’re a Discord community for adults around 25–36 who want to meet new people and find their kind of crowd.

May mga tao na rin sa loob, pero since relatively new pa yung revived server, medyo kapaan pa and we’re still getting to know each other. BUT lately, halos gabi-gabi na kaming nag-e-enjoy watching someone stream their horror gameplay. HAHAHAHA. Takutan muna bago friendship💀

We’re looking for people who are:

🍫 Open to making new friends and joining random conversations
🍫 Down for gaming, music, memes, food trips, coffee runs, and possible IRL ganaps
🍫 Willing to interact kahit papaano—not necessarily active 24/7, because duh, adulting, but sana hindi puro pasilip lang. HAHAHAHA
🍫 Respectful of boundaries and know how to have fun without unnecessary drama
🍫 Genuine, accountable, and willing to help the community grow

We’re here for genuine connections, not popularity contests, pick-me antics, backstabbing, or balimbing behavior. The Chocolate Factory is a community, not a hunting ground or anyone’s personal harem. We’re here to make friends, not collect admirers. Respect, boundaries, and accountability are non-negotiable 🤎

If you’re after genuine friendships, good company, and fun without unnecessary politics, comment or DM me for an invite! We’re still finding our rhythm, so come grow with us. No résumé, no interviews, and definitely no audition for the main character role.


r/PhR4Friends • • 3h ago

Friends 21 [F4A] Talk to meeee

11 Upvotes

im js bored and looking for ppl na pwedeng random kong kulitin, sendan ng kung ano-ano, or kausap abt literally anything 😭 di naman need mag-usap 24/7, basta we can randomly yap whenever we’re both free!!

ab me:
• cat person
• into arts n crafts, drawing, decorating, and anik-anik collecting
• pink n white girly
• mahilig mag-foodtrip
• gamer minsan (mostly minecraft n random multiplayer games)
• listens to pop n whatever sounds good
• trying to get back into reading
• not much of a yapper at first pero mahilig magtanong HAHAHAHA

ab u:
• 20-23
• hindi dry kausap pls 😭
• has hobbies n interests of their own
• may sariling buhay outside talking to me
• can yap abt random things or share whatever’s on their mind
• marunong makipagbiruan at mangulit din

sfw only!! pls be normal 😭

bonus if we can yap abt random stuff, exchange brainrot, or play games together sometimes. no pressure to reply agad, basta sana hindi yung mawawala after 2 business days


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Friends 28 [F4A] Just looking for a good conversation

7 Upvotes

I think everything good starts with an insane conversation. (Yes, I'm posting again because I haven't found the conversation i'm looking for.) I'm looking for someone I can call with absolutely no agenda, start with "may ik-kwento ako," and somehow end up talking for 3 hours.

A little about me: I’m 28, and very capable of turning a “quick call” into a 3-hour conversation. I’m into books, movies, food, cooking, random internet rabbit holes, and hearing unnecessarily detailed stories about people I’ve never met.

Who I’m looking for: Someone who’s a yapper and a listener. You speak well, have a nice voice and decent audio, and actually enjoy having conversations, not just exchanging “wyd”s. Someone who can jump from everyday life to random thoughts, stupid stories, or completely unnecessary tea without forcing it. Also around my age!

Please give me an intro if you're interested!


r/PhR4Friends • • 4h ago

Study Buddy 26 [F4A] Lf Tagalog conversation partner

7 Upvotes

Hello! Currently struggling with my Tagalog conversation skills. Tbh, na point out nung ka work ko that she sees me struggling when I accommodate clients who prefer to speak in Tagalog or Filipino. Grabe yung mental block kasi 💔💔

I'm from the province and did not grow up speaking Tagalog. I only learned the language at school and I feel more comfortable speaking in Taglish. But in some instances kasi, preferable yung pure Tagalog na convo.

Help a girlie out 🥹😭

DM me a short intro if yall are down.


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Friends 21 [F4A] wanna play and hang?

5 Upvotes

hello! the sem js ended and im back on binge watching series and animes for a month. i also js recently got into roblox, and i had fun playing with my friends in it. tho, most of the time i play stimulating games lang such as karenderia, padeliber, and obbys.

soooo if u wanna play and hang, hmu!


r/PhR4Friends • • 8m ago

Friends 26 [F4M] lookin' for new constants hehe

• Upvotes

you know the kind of friend you can update everyday about anything everything? that's the kind of friendship im lookin for!!! hello all, i'm a 26F wfh girlie looking for online constants to talk to bc wfh is getting pretty lonely :"( looking for SFW + PLATONIC CHATS ONLI!!

ABOUT U
- preferably works graveyard shift a too lso so we can yapmaxx during work 🗣️
- cool person, mature conversationalist and funny!
- 33 yrs old max
- filipino onlyyy (you can be based anywhere tho)
- likes to yap via discord or telegram chat (no calls sorriiii)

ABOUT ME
- ENFJ
- loves scary books, rock climbing, and watching movies
- i love making new friends!

dm me your age + a fun fact ab u and let's chat hehe (no long bullet point intros plss)


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 31 [M4A] Midweek!

4 Upvotes

Hello! Kumusta ang final week ng October niyo so far? Long weekend pala this weekend. Anong plans niyo? May gusto kayong i-kwento/i-rant ng mabilisan? You can chat me. Or call (kung saang app niyo prefer). Makikinig lang ako. May energy pa naman ako and social batt para dito. If interested kayo, DM niyo ako. Para maiba naman, chat niyo sakin kung anong dinner niyo kanina.


r/PhR4Friends • • 3h ago

Friends 27 [M4F] Di ka magsisisi

6 Upvotes

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Hiiii :)). I'm just bored looking for kausap or friends na rin haha. Habang nagpapahinga at sinusulit ang bawat sandali. Nakaka bonak na talaga pag dodoomscrolling HAHAHAH. Open for any topics kahit sa pinaka madilim na bahagi ng talambuhay mo. Kahit ngayon lang or malay mo maging constant. edi masaya! dm me.

about me:

-Kumakain ng gulay at prutas, favorite ko kangkong chips saka banana chips

-Cute naman at mabait pero palagi akong pinapalabaa na mali.

-Sometimes may nagtanong sakin kung may lahi ba kaming aswang, Sabi ko naman wala kase noon naguulam kami ng asin

-payat pero lam mo na.

-Singkit na malabo mata minsan sa gabi nahihirapan ako makakita akala ko tuloy hindi nako makakahanap ng iba

-Mahilig ako sa pusa. I'm a Catholic

-Mahilig ako tumakbo pero siguro sa mga times na hindi ko na kayang tiisin pa.

-Extrovert na naging introvert. Ganon talaga siguro kapag wala kang pera.

-Marami nang minus points sa langit kaya heto papakabait nako para hindi itakwil ni san pedro.

-I'm afraid of pretty girls.

-Mabilis magreply

about you:

-Ahm parang mas trip ko yung baliw,masama ugali saka yung walanghiya. Para di na tayo magexpect diba HAHAHAH. minsan boring din tlaga masyadong mabait eh. diba.


r/PhR4Friends • • 35m ago

Friends 27 [F4M] Here again because they caught feelings :(

• Upvotes

Looking for a friend once again after my previous post po. Had to end that friendship before someone gets hurt further :( I'll be adjusting the requirements this time around, if that's okay.

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So, yeah. Looking for a friend. Na naman. Preferrably male to simulate companionship. Preferrably very, very low-maintenance because of my abysmal social energy. Once again, I am not emotionally available, and I am not looking for an NSFW setup. Literal na friendship lang po talaga kaya ko i-offer for now. Sasuke sa aking Naruto. Ganoon lang po huhu

About me:

- Basics: 150cm, 45kg, chinita, health professional. Kapampangan. Rotates through different work places, but basically works a 9-5. Depending on the day, I could be in Makati, Mandaluyong, or Pasay/Manila. You can ask for my picture if you want, pero I guess hihingin ko rin sa'yo 'nun.

- Hobbies: Doing my best to battle anhedonia, so I mainly hop among these, depending on the mood: gaming (Jedi: Fallen Order, E33, MH Wilds), watching (Loki, since I'm trying to catch up to Doomsday), reading (mostly fiction), writing (mostly journaling for now). I'm pretty deep into anime and manga din before, pero stagnant 'yung interest ko currently.

- Personality: INFP. Introverted, but chatty once comfy. Occasional dark, awkward, or weird humor. Mas comfy ako magsalita sa Tagalog/Kapampangan, sadyang mas madali lang para sa'kin 'yung written English.

- Others: Left-leaning, politically. Agnostic. Gotten compliments over my EQ, so you can share deep stuff with me, no judgment. Nasabihan na ring may substance, yiiee. I came from a breakup kaya emotionally unavailable ako, but I'm not too interested in talking about it in depth. Medyo nakakapagod na rin kasi after months of processing it, pero ikukwento ko pa rin naman kung curious ka talaga.

About you:

- 26-30 years old for better relatability. Employed with a 9-5 schedule or similar (so I can be sure na hindi ka clingy and may sarili kang buhay, kasi po gusto ko talaga as much as possibe low maintenance lang).

- Has similar hobbies or interests, so we have lots to talk about. If not, then at least makwento.

- Down to hang out a few times. Near Makati/Manila, or the places I previously mentioned.

- Preferrably single, since ayaw po natin ng conflict, syempre. Kung may gelpren, ipaalam po kay madam ang papeles to officially adopt me as your daughter and third wheel. Tanggap ko na na hanggang ganito na lang role ko sa buhay.

About the setup:

- I prefer chats and personal hang-outs. I don't like calls and video calls.

- For chats: I'm usually available during the evenings, but I warn you that I sleep relatively early (10-11-ish pm). I'm okay with you sending messages throughout the day, but please expect that I may reply hours later. Since I mentioned low maintenance, I'm okay with not chatting for a day or two if either of us is too busy, provided we let the other know of the hibernation beforehand, lol.

- For hangouts: I can accompany you for errands. Maybe grab a coffee after work and talk about life. Maybe meet up to watch something in the cinema and talk about the movie after. Gusto ko lang talaga malabas minsan to take my mind off things, kahit maglakad lang tayo sa Glorietta hanggang maligaw at mapagod.

- Conversations: Shared hobbies, interests. You can talk about your day, share about your life. If you have a problem, I will listen. If there's a girl you're crushing on, I'll be your hype woman — you can still talk about your own romances with me kahit hindi ako emotionally available.

- How the setup ends: If you finally find someone, you are free to end the setup for your partner's sake. You and I can end it as well if either of us aren't feeling the vibe or whatever. Basta nagsasabi, ah! And if, unfortunately, our feelings start to misalign, then we'll have to end the setup before anybody gets hurt. Whatever the reason, I will thank you for the friendship you have given me. Genuinely.

Ayun lang naman 👉🏻👈🏻 If you reached this part, thank you so much for reading all that hahaha if you're interested, please send, at the very least, your age, basic info, and interests. You can follow my About Me format if you want po. If you have clarifications, expectations, or anything else you wish to discuss before agreeing to the setup, just let me know so we can adjust accordingly! I think that's all for now.

Thank you so much!! Sasukeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee


r/PhR4Friends • • 44m ago

Gaming 26[F4A] ML TAYO PLEASE

• Upvotes

Hellooo! Looking for friends to play ML with! I just started playing again last week after almost 2 years of not playing, and wala na akong friends na kalaro. 😭 Also may promo dias pa pala ngayon, so I need friends to grind with HAHAHAHA.

I main mage/support, currently Epic rank, but I used to be Mythical Glory before I quit.
I’m down for chill Classic or Brawl games, but I’m also G for rank if you want to play competitively! Just looking for people to have fun and play with regularly after work which is 4pm onwards hehehe.

Feel free to message me if you’re interested! Parang awa niyo na, nahihirapan na akong maghanap ng constant na kalaro sa world chat HAHAHAHA


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 31[M4F] late night call

• Upvotes

Bored lang and need someone na pde ka chika for tonight

About me:
- can carry convos
- maganda voice sa call
- working prof
- 5’7, gym goer, 61kg (if these matter to you lol)

About you:
- madaldal
- please be chill
- may sense kausap

Dm your tg handle


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Gaming 26 [F4A] WILDRIFTTT!!

3 Upvotes

LF kasama mag laro ng wildrift, kasi lagi ako solo 😭 baka meron sainyo halimaw mag laro neto. HAHAHAHAHSA para naman di ako naiiyak pag natatalo o nakakainis mga kakampi (kahit minsan bonak ako)

Rank: Emerald IV

Role: Dragon lane, Mid lane, or Support.

Time mag laro: usually gabi or madaling araw. Yan kasi yung time na gising ako, and free time. 😆


r/PhR4Friends • • 14m ago

Co-working 29 [F4A] Anyone up for online coworking tonight? (discord)

• Upvotes

Hello! anyone down for an online coworking session tonight via discord call? :)

I’m planning to get some stuff done and it just helps me focus when I have some company while working on my tasks. We can work on our own tasks, stay on call, and take breaks whenever needed. I can only chat though, can't speak as I don't feel comfy not having my own room here, but I can just open cam for presence.

No pressure to talk the whole time, just a chill, productive session with some virtual company.

Let me know if you're interested! :))


r/PhR4Friends • • 4h ago

Friends 30[M4F] The Apartment We Won't Share

5 Upvotes

Looking for someone to talk to after a day's work. Maybe we can meet this weekend if things go well.

Single. Scorpio. From Mandaluyong.


r/PhR4Friends • • 24m ago

Friends 22 [F4M] what's up?

• Upvotes

hello! just wanted to come on here and look for someone to talk to :)

here's some things abt me:

- normal BMI

- graduated from a health allied program

- licensed professional

- im kind of talkative when im with the right people

- i might be boring to some but i try to keep conversations going

- i think im funny

preferences:

- same age or 1-2 years older

- respectful and not weird

- can also carry a conversation and has substance

- also in a health allied field so we have a common background

ps. pls send me a short intro not just a hi/hello


r/PhR4Friends • • 6h ago

Friends 26 [F4A] distract meeeeeeee

5 Upvotes

hi!

sooo emotionally unstable rn that whenever i'm not doing anything, i either cry nonstop or just stare into space and suddenly realize hours have passed.

just looking for someone to talk to. i won't burden you with what i'm going through naman hehe

i just want to talk about something like your hobbies, interests, random stuff, or literally anything under the sun. just need something to keep my mind occupied for a bit.

tyia <3


r/PhR4Friends • • 44m ago

Friends 30 [F4M] Call? Can’t sleep na naman

• Upvotes

We can talk about anything, SFW. Calls only please and just have a good audio.

Tell me about your pinduoduo order/sss. Saan na sya dinala? hahahaha

Message me your tg and age


r/PhR4Friends • • 3h ago

Co-working 24 [F4A] Coworking + crashout at Discord?

3 Upvotes

Hi! LF coworker sa Discord tonight or you can chill or stream your gamessss. Sometimes I’ll check in with you or sometimes I’ll crash out 😭 This can be a constant thing + lowkey need ko rin ng constant na makakausap sigurooo?

For tonight eh magttrabaho ako baka until 3 am LOL

About me
- Freelancer in marketing, working remote
- Makati girl
- Yapper pero need ko mag-lock in ngayon huhu
- Madali madistract HAHAHAHA
- Cute na kikay eme HAHAHAHA
- Baliw pero let’s save that for later
- Masaya kausap and di ka mabbore

Sana ikaw ay
- Hindi creep at hindi sinungaling. Strictly SFW po please
- Hindi rude
- Single (kapag M ka) kasi ayoko magkaissue pls lang
- Consistent kausap if magiging constant tayo mag uusap
- Masipag din para sipagin ako HAHAHA
- Near my age sana? (ideally para relate)
- Magaling din magshare, yung kaya ako sabayan

Thank you! Please hit me up with an intro please, hindi yung hi hello lang hihi


r/PhR4Friends • • 1h ago

Friends 21 [F4A] Looking for friends who do tarot, divination, or the likes!

• Upvotes

Anyone here who does tarot or divination or astrology but for future events?

There's this topic I want to dive into and nasa news sya about preparation for a worldwide emergency that's being broadcast around the world and I want to confirm if my readings are correct and help me din clarify yung details.

About you:

\- Any age

\- Practicing and/or experienced tarot, divination, or anything similar

About me:

\- Student

\- Novice tarot reader

\- medyo praning lol

Please please hit me up and let's do some info sharing and be friends din!


r/PhR4Friends • • 4h ago

Friends 26 [M4F] Genuine Constant

4 Upvotes

Trying this out one more time hahahaha! Been looking to connect with someone properly, that appreciates raw and genuine conversations - while still knowing each other in the process. Ma-iba naman from the usual daily routine and same network of peepz that we interact with on a daily.

Who knows? Baka eventually those conversations can be over coffee or over a good meal na hahaha!

Lez connect if this resonates with you even in the slightest.

Few deets about me:

- Not that picky with age (basta hindi ka minor at wala ka ding pamilya, di ako pang himas rehas boi)
- M26
- From Metro Manila
- Working Pro
- Jogs/Walks almost everyday
- Can do both calls and chats
- Foodie
- Kape! Hahaha


r/PhR4Friends • • 3h ago

Friends 25 [F4M] yap me to sleep? 🌙🧸

3 Upvotes

Hiii! Looking for someone who loves to yap and tell stories about anything and everything.

Tell me about your day, your random thoughts, your little obsessions, anything! I'd love to listen to your kwentos until i get all sleepy.

Just some cozy late-night company. so, any certified yapper awake tonight?


r/PhR4Friends • • 5h ago

Friends 24 [m4f] Dinner at Lima Outlet

4 Upvotes

Anyone down to have a dinner tonight at the outlet at lima estate, batangas? My treat ofc :)

About me:
24
5 11
Working as professional
In batangas for just this week
Nerdy vibes

About you:
20 above
Can yap
Preferably at lima outlet now


r/PhR4Friends • • 2h ago

Friends 25[F4A] LF kalaro sa CODM

2 Upvotes

Looking for new friends na pwedeng makalaro ng CODM and hopefully makasama rin tumakbo! HAHAHAHA.

Sa CODM, yung G sana kahit lose streak na kasi laro lang naman 'yon 😭 Hindi kailangan laging panalo, basta enjoy lang at hindi toxic.

Sa running naman, beginner-friendly sana kasi nagsisimula pa lang din ako. Around Pasig or nearby areas lang sana para madaling makapag-set ng run.

Looking to meet new people and hopefully make genuine friends along the way.

If ikaw na to? Message me langs!