Happy Wednesday! May purple skies remind you that wonder still is near. May tiny sparks of happiness outshine every little fear.

TRIGGER WARNING: mentions of r-pe, misogyny and bigotry.

I haven't spoken to my Dad since we had a brief text message exchange in January of this year, when I laid out my boundaries for having a relationship with me. Use my new name, Valerie, and pronouns she/her and treat me respectfully and a relationship is possible.

There was silence for 9 months, and then I got this email from him yesterday. There is no hate like Christian love.

Hope everyone is doing spoopily swell this spooktober :3

and especially after President's Lula victory 🎃❤️

I'm pretty sure it's just some mild dysphoria regarding my (slowly increasing) desire for FFS, though I'm always interested in advice!

Less than 2 years on hrt, 33 years old. Did a bit of laser on my face.

3rd attempt at doing my makeup completely solo/unsupervised. Struggle mostly with contouring & eye stuff but loving it! (32 NB/TF)

My wife (47)and I (46) have been married for 25 years. We are both scared of the changes ahead. She’s supportive of me, and I’m so appreciative of that. One of the things we’re struggling to find are resources for her as the cis spouse. Any recommendations for her or both of us to check out?

This is with 2 layers of orange color corrector, a layer of foundation, and concealer. Yet you can still clearly see the blue tint of the beard shadow. What can I do to fix this? Get red color corrector?

I'm in my mid 40s. I grew up in a small, conservative town. Trans wasn't recognized. Heck, I didn't even know anyone who was openly bi/gay, etc.

Since I was young, I felt like a girl. I acted masculine, and did all the "right things". Now, I am an an adult an "old one" and I'm sad.

If I was 20+ years younger, I'd explore transitioning and living full time as a woman. I maybe wouldn't "pass" but I'd be me.

Anyway, I'm just sad sometimes and wanted to tell someone. Thanks for listening.

I am the light.

I am the healer.

I will rise.

No more hiding.

No more shame.

No more fear living under my skin.

This is me choosing myself,

Doing more to boost my confidence in my body has been doing wonders for me.

I can't wait to swap out all my boy mode clothes amc only have a fem-presenting wardrobe!

Still healing from my BA last week, but feeling b amazing!

Hey y’all!

So, last time I posted a question on here I got a great response and you were really kind and friendly. Thank you for that <3

I have another question this time around; what’s the consensus on posting pre everything masc face and asking for advice and/or support? I’ve seen other posts from the past by scrolling the sub. Some got answers, others were downvoted and/or not replied to.

Thanks in advance.

Sorry for the previous post, mods 😂

I was feeling my makeup tonight. Being silly rocking my rainbow thighs and arm warmers 😋 also here’s a picture of my void kitty being cute 😻

Sadly my hair is still short 😩

Hi everyone I’m 45 been crossdressing since i was im my teens now im feeling like i want to take it the hole way and transition in to Rachel full time
I am married she knew i was a cross dresser since before we got together
But I’m still scared of that conversation has anyone here gone through anything similar?

I'm 35 (MtF)Feeling dysphoric today. I don't see an endo until December. But even then idk if it's worth it. I don't feel like I'll ever pass. I know passing isn't the goal, but it doesn't make me want it less.

Anyone have any tips on modify my mannerism? Hand gesture, sitting style, walking gate, etc..

Left: 6 months on HRT, freshly out and finding my feet.

Right: 12 months on HRT, 6 months living openly as myself, and apparently incapable of getting into the lift at work without taking a selfie. 🤣💅

It's been a year of enormous changes, plenty of tears, some really difficult moments, and more happiness than I ever thought possible.

For the first time in my life, I actually love what I see in the mirror. That's something I never thought I'd be able to say.

I'm 37, I started transitioning at 36, and I'm only just getting started.

To anyone wondering if it's too late to become yourself: it really, really isn't. ❤️

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I came out to my therapist today as a trans woman. About 2 months ago my egg cracked hard—I was crying, I felt it completely, I *knew* I was her.

Now after finally saying it out loud to someone in my life, I can't feel any of it. I'm numb. I know it logically but I can't access what I felt back then.

Did this happen to anyone else after coming out? How did you get back to knowing what you knew?

I'm also working towards telling my wife (together 18 years) and I need to understand this better before that conversation.

💕Mia