I flew from Los Angeles to Berlin for 3 shows and I managed backstage on night 3. I’ll repost what I had before on my Facebook but thought I would share here too.
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The Cure
Parkbühne Wuhlheide Berlin night 3
The interaction with Robert was only a few minutes. I had backstage passes after the show but was instructed not to talk to anyone. I thought they meant the Cure but after talking to James from Twilight Sad we got a very stern talking to that we would get kicked out if we kept the behavior up.
The guy said you’re a guest of the band but don’t disturb anyone. Have a drink and shut up and sit down basically.
I think this troubled James too because about an hour later he approaches us and apologizes on that guy’s behalf saying it doesn’t represent him or anything
As we sat having a few beers, we saw Roger come out and talk to some people and have drinks. Then Jason came out and was eating some food and having drinks and chatting it up with others. I even noticed he gave his drumsticks to some younger kid (14 possibly).
Eden came out and was chatting it up in another group.
It was great to see but we were just sitting there as if we were on time out or in trouble.
My dad hated it and wanted to talk so much shit but we told him to bite his tongue for now and we wait. He wanted to leave as he didn’t think it was worth waiting it out to be treated in such a way but we asked him to stick it out
Robert came out and was chatting with a different group and at one time had about 3 beers with him 😂. The crowd started to die down and people were leaving and I noticed a group of two women approach him and get a photo. At this point I thought I’d go and try to approach respectfully.
He was very pleasant and I was able to gesture my dad and girlfriend to join me. My dad got to share his feelings about Pictures of You and Inbetween Days and how they have a different meaning now from hearing them as a kid to his age of 56 now. Robert goes “how do think it makes me feel? 😂 “
He also said his wife Mary encourages him to continue playing those old songs with the feeling he had when he wrote them.
I spoke to him about how we made the journey from Los Angeles. Talked to him about how my favorite was The Big Hand and he goes “we don’t play that one too often” to which I think I said Radio City Music Hall 2008. I asked for a photo and I thought it would be a selfie but he asked his assistant/bodyguard to take it for us. And I was going to walk away after and thanked him but he goes “we should check it to make sure it’s good”. Which is why I have two photos. Super polite and amazing man and very humble. I’m grateful for the opportunity and even more to share it with my family.
Going back to James apologizing for that man’s behavior. I was talking to him about their last album and he says it’s his best work. I teased him that “doesn’t every artist say that” but he said no he means it. That the album is about losing his mom to dementia/alzheimer’s. He says that’s why it’s called the Long Goodbye because it’s like he was losing her for a long while.
My dad really respected James and I think became a Twilight Sad fan as a result of these shows. James wore a Scotland football ⚽️ jersey and my dad was wearing a Mexico one. My dad gifted James his jersey. My dad’s the type of person like the phrase “to give the shirt off his back” for someone. Which is why he’s in a white undershirt in the photo with Robert.
So I guess we need to see if James wears a Mexico jersey at an upcoming show.
TLDR;
It was everything and better.”