I mean I know that it isn't really possible to be biologically nothing but I can't help but feel like that's how I'm supposed to be. Does that make sense?

Hey, I (18NB) recently discovered that I’m nonbinary and have came out as such. But I’ve come to realize that I only seem to feel gender envy towards women and other fem-presenting people. Their hair, their faces, their bodies, their clothes, how they’re treated, femininity etc. But I also feel that being brought up as a boy and being in male spaces for so long that I feel all my femininity and potential womanhood have been corrupted and too perverted for me to consider myself a woman. Also, the dysphoria I feel isn’t crippling. I can look at my body and code switch to act more masc and, although I don’t like it, I can tolerate it and it doesn’t cause me too much distress. I know that gender dysphoria can present itself in different ways but I would’ve thought it would be a bit more intense for me if I was a trans girl.

Every time I’ve tried to be more fem (hair, mascara, clothing choice, mannerisms etc), it always falls flat and feels awkward, leading me to not try very hard and give up a lot of the time. Whether I can’t get my hair right, shaving my body hair being a large task only for it not to last very long leading me to just give up and other stuff like that. And no matter whether I try to be masc, fem or androgynous, I always seem to get perceived and treated as a man/boy no matter what. So what’s the point?

I ain’t sure if I’m actually nonbinary or if that’s just an easier pill to swallow but idk anymore.

I’m just writing this here because I’m completely alone with all this. I’ve been struggling with my gender for months or years now. I never liked that whole ‘you’re a girl and you’re a boy’ thing. I never looked at myself and thought “I’m a girl, a woman.”
I was just indifferent to it. Now a few weeks ago I kinda realized that I’m trans (ftm) but only my body, like I want a ‘male’ body but I don’t want to be a man. So like i am non binary and I’m comfortable with it but I just hate having a female body. Well now the problem is, my friends and family are not supportive. My friends are transphobic and weird about it all and my family is okay with trans people but not with anything else than girl and boy. So they only support being trans. Now I do have a binder, I secretly bought it off of SHEIN a year ago (I didn’t know it was bad to buy from there) and it’s like really cheap. It’s ripped a little at the sides and just it’s not comfortable. What the hell should I do? Can I even do something? Am I even non binary if I want to change my body? I’m so lost. Please help me or give me advice or something. Thanks.

Anyone here like nu metal? It's one of my favourite genres of music.

I'm a trans guy now but this sub is so cool I hope everyone (yes EVERYONE) who has participated in it has a wonderful amazing day

So I tried changing my mii's gender in Tomodachi Life to Male and Female and I feel like I'm gonna throw up now like it just felt so wrong. I ran to change it back to non-binary so quickly. Ugh I never wanna do that again.

Hey so I (18M?) think my egg might have cracked. I put on some random outfit that was super andro coded (very baggy black sweatpants and a cute sweater) and I was like "holy shit I look andro this outfit is so cute" and it immeditaly became my favorite outfit and I want more. Now I'm really confused, I talked to my bf about it and he said I might be a demiboy because I like to present andro but also see myself as a boy and also I would like for people to call me they them but not personal friends or family. For them I want to still go by he and I think I might kinda feel uncomfortable if they started referring to me using they. I don't really feel dysphoria but I only feel euphoria when I pass. Also, it just comes and goes, like one day I would just show up in shorts and a t-shirt and not feel anything but other days I really want to wear an andro outfit (flux or fluid? idk lol). Then there is the weird part where I see myself as a women when I am comforting people and giving them love. Like one time when I was trying to comfort my bf when he was having a bad day I accidentally said come to mommy and it made me really confused. Looking for help because this is all really confusing.

i really struggle to find a name, but i want it to start with tam. i keep hearing the same names (tamlin, tain, tammy) but none of them click for me. i don't wanna be called just tam, i want something more. something longer maybe. does any1 have any ideas?

idk if this is exactly transphobic but thought I’d still add the flair in case!!

It just feels so fun not being in any gendered box it's like I see the world differently like everyone is their own person. I've only really identified as enby for a few months but I was already gender non-conforming for a few years before that and it's bot exactly that I hated being my AGAB it's just that it didn't feel like I was getting the full experience of being a person like I wanna do boy things and girl things while not identifying as either. It just feels so good. It's so fun. I don't wanna stop being enby. This is who I am now. I don't know why but the thought of not being a boy or a girl and just being me makes me happy like everything I choose for myself is chosen by me not by society.

The title basically asks it all but, can I call myself non binary even if what I know about my about my gender identity is it feeling cis??? I’m not 100% sure I’m cis but from what I do know I feel cis… but can I call myself non binary???

I live with conservative relatives in the south soooo I can't do anything too crazy quite yet... Kinda was wondering if this looks vaguely enby at all or not :p

If I were to get into a polycule with a man and a woman at the same time so f x nb x m would that be more lesbian, gay or straight since nobody there is the same gender.

I believe I am non-binary since I just don't understand the gender of things my usual reaction to someone telling me something is for boys or for girls is usually "what do I care if it's for boys or for girls I just care if I like it or not" like it doesn't make sense whu I should limit myself to things of a certain gender only. Like it is genuinely infuriating sometimes how much people apply gender to things. I feel like we'd be better off as a society if gender wasn't a thing and everyone just did what they wanted. Like why the hell should I care if it's a boy's hairbrush or a girl's hairbrush it does the exact same thing except one is pink and the other is blue. Which doesn't make sense either since they are literally just colours. I would be so much happier if people didn't try to assign a gender to me and just let me be myself. Like yes maybe I wanna wear a denim maxi skirt with a cool punk shirt.

Like I remember in middle school I became a rocker so I didn't have to conform to gender roles since I did feel like they were limiting. That did get me by for a while but then I started to feel like simply breaking the rules wasn't enough and that I had to get rid of them all together. Does this make sense.