r/homeschool • • Aug 20 '25

Curriculum The Problem With Oversimplified Phonics

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(I noticed the same topics keep coming up and thought it might warrant a PSA.)

In teaching my children I discovered that English spelling is based on about 74 basic units (which can be called graphemes or phonograms): the 26 letters of the alphabet plus about 48 multi-letter combinations (ay, ai, au, aw, ck, ch, ci, ce, cy, dge, ea, ee, ei, eigh, er, ew, ey, gh, gn, ie, igh, ir, kn, ng, oa, oe, oi, oy, oo, ou, ow, ph, qu, sh, si, ss, tch, th, ti, ui, ur, wor, wh, wr, ed, ar, gu, zh). These 74 map, in an overlapping way, to about 44 pronounced sounds (phonems). At first glance this looks overwhelming, but it's completely learnable. And once your child learns it, she'll be able to read unfamiliar words and usually pronounce them correctly. There are still exceptions to the rules, but way fewer than I was taught in school.

I believe there are multiple systems that teach something like this. The one we stumbled upon is based on Denise Eide's book Understanding the Logic of English. I recommend all parents read this even if you're not going to shell out for her company's curriculum. It's a lot less frustrating than just learning the alphabet and wondering why nothing makes sense when it comes to real words beyond Bob Books.


r/homeschool • • 15h ago

Discussion How to talk to strangers about homeschooling

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We had just locked up my 4 year old’s bike at the grocery store when an older woman approached us to chat with my two boys. She was very friendly and my boys love to talk to everyone, so we were engaging in conversation. The woman asked my son how old he was and when he replied that he was four and a quarter, she said that if he knew about quarter years, he must know when his birthday is too. He told her when it is and she was impressed, saying that most of the four year olds she knows don’t know when their birthday is. She is a bus attendant on a special needs bus in our county, so I don’t have any idea how many four year olds she knows. She asked if he was in school, and I said no, we’re planning to homeschool but because he’s not five yet, we’re not in a hurry to start. She told me that many four year olds are in school and gave me “the look.” She proceeded to ask him a few more questions and he answered with full sentences and thoughtful responses. She gave me another look when she again suggested that he should be in school. I wanted to say, “ma’am, he’s this way because he spends his day in the real world talking to adults and playing outside and experiencing life rather than being stuck inside at school all day.” But I didn’t. I bit my tongue. What do you all say when you don’t want to get into it with a complete stranger?


r/homeschool • • 7m left

Any suggestions of reading apps for 6yr old.

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My kid started his first grade and struggles a lot in reading. I’m seeing he feels very had to read any word beyond 3 letter long. I need help can anyone suggest me a good app for reading daily practice please.


r/homeschool • • 15m ago

Discussion School, War, AI

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I’m an education methodologist living in Ukraine, and lately I’ve been watching AI transform the world while schools increasingly try to keep it out of the classroom.

Some schools block internet access to prevent students from using AI. Others make children complete homework at school, under supervision, using nothing but pen and paper.

To me, this looks like trying to slow down a moving train with your bare hands.

AI offers an opportunity we’ve never had before: to fundamentally transform the teacher’s role. Instead of being the source of information or spending endless hours preparing lessons, teachers could help children discover knowledge, make sense of it, connect ideas, and use what they learn creatively.

But that requires a completely different approach to learning.

Before Russia’s full-scale invasion in 2022, I was a school principal. For almost five years now, I’ve been rethinking the foundations of education. When simply being at school becomes dangerous, and institutions begin to falter, you start questioning things you once took for granted.

When you’ve spent the night sheltering from Shahed drone attacks, studying textbooks the next morning may not be realistic. Individual learning arrangements, flexible schedules, and uneven workloads stop looking like exceptions.

Why shouldn’t they become normal practice after the war, too?

I work with neurodivergent children, including autistic children and children with ADHD. One thing I experiment with is building learning around a child’s deep interests.

The principle is simple: use what naturally captures a child’s attention as the engine of learning, then build outward.

My own child, for example, learns English not through conventional school methods, but through Roblox chats, conversations with AI, and songs by his favourite rock bands. He explores the history of the 1950s–1990s through the evolution of rock culture.

Music becomes a gateway to physics, mathematics, literature, history, and languages.

Of course, following an interest alone isn’t enough. Without structure and guidance, learning can remain a collection of disconnected explorations.

That’s why I’m developing an algorithm for an AI learning guide: a system that helps children move from curiosity to research, critical thinking, interdisciplinary understanding, and eventually creating something of their own.

For the past year, my life has felt like an alchemist’s experiments in a solitary laboratory.

While explosions sound outside, I see the old world falling apart — a world in which people were trained from childhood to follow instructions. And I imagine an education system where freedom of choice and learning that follows a child’s natural inclinations are fundamental principles.

Every now and then, I emerge from my shelter and encounter the conservatism of parents and educators. I’ve been immersed in these experiments for so long that I find it difficult to judge how ready society actually is for such a shift.

So I’d genuinely like to hear your thoughts.

Could you imagine your child being taught primarily by an AI learning guide? Not as a supplementary tool, but as the main companion in their leI’m an education methodologist living in Ukraine, and lately I’ve been watching AI transform the world while schools increasingly try to keep it out of the classroom.

Some schools block internet access to prevent students from using AI. Others make children complete homework at school, under supervision, using nothing but pen and paper.

To me, this looks like trying to slow down a moving train with your bare hands.

AI offers an opportunity we’ve never had before: to fundamentally transform the teacher’s role. Instead of being the source of information or spending endless hours preparing lessons, teachers could help children discover knowledge, make sense of it, connect ideas, and use what they learn creatively.

But that requires a completely different approach to learning.

Before Russia’s full-scale invasion in 2022, I was a school principal. For almost five years now, I’ve been rethinking the foundations of education. When simply being at school becomes dangerous, and institutions begin to falter, you start questioning things you once took for granted.

When you’ve spent the night sheltering from Shahed drone attacks, studying textbooks the next morning may not be realistic. Individual learning arrangements, flexible schedules, and uneven workloads stop looking like exceptions.

Why shouldn’t they become normal practice after the war, too?

I work with neurodivergent children, including autistic children and children with ADHD. One thing I experiment with is building learning around a child’s deep interests.

The principle is simple: use what naturally captures a child’s attention as the engine of learning, then build outward.

My own child, for example, learns English not through conventional school methods, but through Roblox chats, conversations with AI, and songs by his favourite rock bands. He explores the history of the 1950s–1990s through the evolution of rock culture.

Music becomes a gateway to physics, mathematics, literature, history, and languages.

Of course, following an interest alone isn’t enough. Without structure and guidance, learning can remain a collection of disconnected explorations.

That’s why I’m developing an algorithm for an AI learning guide: a system that helps children move from curiosity to research, critical thinking, interdisciplinary understanding, and eventually creating something of their own.

For the past year, my life has felt like an alchemist’s experiments in a solitary laboratory.

While explosions sound outside, I see the old world falling apart — a world in which people were trained from childhood to follow instructions. And I imagine an education system where freedom of choice and learning that follows a child’s natural inclinations are fundamental principles.

Every now and then, I emerge from my shelter and encounter the conservatism of parents and educators. I’ve been immersed in these experiments for so long that I find it difficult to judge how ready society actually is for such a shift.

So I’d genuinely like to hear your thoughts.

Could you imagine your child being taught primarily by an AI learning guide? Not as a supplementary tool, but as the main companion in their learning journey.

A human teacher would take on a different role: helping the child build a learning path, set goals, understand themselves, and navigate the difficult parts of the journey. Someone the child finds engaging, supportive, and safe — rather than simply an enforcer of the curriculum.

What would make you trust such a model — or reject it outright?


r/homeschool • • 13h ago

Discussion What programs or help do you wish your library offered?/ what does it offer that your appreciate (other than the books obviously)

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Trying to find ways to help the large homeschool community in my area! Please lmk!

Our library already has home school hangout, Lego club, stem Saturday, crafter noon and story time.


r/homeschool • • 8h ago

Help! Experience with Meadow Oak Kindergarten curriculum?

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I really resonate with the Charlotte Mason Classical Approach. I was not planning on having any sort of curriculum this year as my daughter is only 4.

But we got accepted into a homeschool charter which is great because we can receive funds for school and craft supplies, books, piano lessons, language classes, dance, etc… However, we must choose a curriculum off a list of approved sources- though we do not have to follow it strictly. After interviewing me, the head teacher recommended “Meadow Oak”

Any experience with Kinder Meadow Oak? Good or bad?


r/homeschool • • 16h ago

Help! At-home resources for a 3rd grader who struggles with writing

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I hope this question is allowed here! We don’t homeschool our kids; they attend a traditional private school, but we do some supplemental learning at home on weekends to reinforce or extend what they’re learning in class—we use some homeschooling resources for that.

My oldest is in 3rd grade and is a very strong reader, but writing is a real struggle. It doesn’t seem to be a reading comprehension issue. If I ask him questions about a text or have him explain what he’s read, he can do it beautifully. He can verbally articulate his thoughts and explain things, but when it’s time to put those thoughts down on paper, everything seems to fall apart.

We just received a mini progress report from his teachers. His main area for support was, unsurprisingly, writing—specifically organizing his thoughts, adding supporting details, and using transitional phrases to connect ideas and engage the reader. He's not behind, its just an area of growth.

A little more context: He’s very fact-oriented—if you asked him who won the Stanley Cup in 1972, he can tell you the team AND the score 😂. He’s never been particularly imaginative—I distinctly remember playing pretend with him and being very literal. He's always been a rule follower—even born at exactly noon on his due date! He's a bit of a perfectionist so if something doesn't come easily or is "right" to him, he wants to give up.

We’ve of course reached out to his teacher for additional resources, but I wanted to tap into other communities for help! Are there any at-home resources, workbooks, courses, or strategies that have worked well for kids with similar challenges? Hopefully we can avoid making writing a chore, ideally 10-ish mins on the weekend, something I can guide him on while he's doing homework, and concepts that will grow with him as writing demands increase as he gets older. Thanks in advance!


r/homeschool • • 22h ago

My 5 years old's attention span is just 1 hour, so we rarely finish our work.

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How much work do you manage to get done with your kindergartener?

Each day, we start with calendar work, then handwriting, math, and ELA (All About Reading.) This takes us an hour, but we do two 5 minute breaks within this hour. After these two core subjects, I try to take a 30 minute break, and then come back and do about 20 minutes of science or nature studies. However, after the first hour, no matter what, I cannot get my daughter to engage or pay attention to school work. She is doing well with her math and reading curriculums. In my state school is not mandatory until 7, but I'd still like to cover non-core subjects. How is it working out for you?


r/homeschool • • 14h ago

Help! CTC math for neurodivergent kids?

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We have been doing math mammoth this year for my 2nd and 5th grader. The curriculum has been a bit of a challenge for them. I was thinking of switching to CTC math for my kids instead, because it gives instant feedback and the coursework seems to break things down into clear steps for each problem.

My kids have been struggling to understand the teacher in the MM videos because of the her accent, and the whiteboard she uses in the vids are visually overwhelming for them. They have pretty severe adhd and it makes any amount of clutter on pages and whiteboards difficult for them to navigate. They also very quickly get lost in the steps and numbers.

So with all of this in mind... What is everyones experience using CTC math? Im most interested in hearing from people who have nuerodivergent kids that used CTC math.

Alternatively, if you have kids with similar issue and found a good math curriculum that isnt MM or CTC, Id love to hear about it.

Thanks everyone!


r/homeschool • • 20h ago

Help! Reading Curriculum suggestions

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I'd love some reading curriculum suggestions for my 7-year-old 2nd grader!

She knows her letter sounds and recognizes some words automatically, but still has to sound out most words. She can sound out CVC words, digraphs, and some blends, but sometimes has trouble putting the sounds together correctly. For example, she might sound out f-r-o-g correctly but then say "flog." She's still reading very slowly and word by word.

She's also in speech therapy, particularly working on L- and R-blends, so I'm sure there's some overlap there.

We've been using Treasure Hunt Reading and Reading.com, and while she generally enjoys them, I can tell she's starting to get discouraged because reading is still so much work for her.

I'd love to hear what's worked for other families with kids at a similar stage! I'm definitely open to trying something different, but we're working with a fairly limited budget. Any suggestions?


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Discussion My thoughts on home schooling

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Im 14 and Ive been doing home school since 5th grade Im in 8th and Im gonna be going to public high school, in short all Im gonna be saying is this: if you live somewhere where theres people around then home school is probably great, if you live in the middle of nowhere then its kinda just terrible, this aint gonna be objective its just my subjective thoughts. I live out in the ass crack of nowhere Im talking 70 year olds and corn fields and cows for miles, and something that Ive found in home schooling is that the lack of seeing and meeting people REALLY wares you down after a while. I have tried Co-Ops where home schoolers meet up at a place but what Ive found is the people that actually are my age have like 60 cousins and because they've known them for so long they couldn't give 2 shits for trying to meet people, so most of the time and even my mom noticed it i was chatting more with the adults. Not to sound like i think Im better than anyone but i have some pretty strange interests so Im by no means expecting or desiring a big a friend group. This is just off speculation but Im sure this isn't a problem for people that live in a suburban area where theirs people your age and you can just walk down the street to your buddy's house, Im gonna be open and not to sound really soft or anything but i really have kinda lost my mind a few times just from just the loneliness. But yeah thats my thoughts, i know its reddit and theres gonna people with varying options


r/homeschool • • 14h ago

Homeschool curriculum

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Does anyone have a homeschool curriculum they recommend that is accredited? I have been looking into Mia academy and It looks really great but I am also seeing that it’s only supplemental. Any advice?


r/homeschool • • 23h ago

Discussion Unofficial Daily Discussion - Tuesday, October 27, 2026 - QOTD: What are your kids dressing up for Halloween?

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This daily discussion is to chat about anything that doesn't warrant its own post. I am not a mod and make these posts for building the homeschool community.

If you are new, please introduce yourself.

If you've been around here before or have been homeschooling for awhile, please share about your day.

Some ideas of what to share are: your homeschool plans for the day, lesson plans, words of encouragement, methods you are implementing to solve a problem, methods of organization, resource/curriculum you recently came across, curriculum sales, field trip planning, etc.

Although, I usually start with a question of the day to get the discussion going, feel free to ask your own questions. If your question does not get answered because it was posted late in the day, you can post the same question tomorrow to make sure it gets visibility.

Be mindful of the subreddit's rules and follow reddiquette. No ads, market/ thesis research, or self promotion. Thank you!


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Wanting to home school but struggling with the social aspect of it

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I have 2 neurodivergent children. High masking. I feel like that detail is important because my children are very do what they want and don’t like to listen to rules. They are however, motivated by social interaction. So I guess that’s why it’s pretty important. Its pretty much the only way I get the educational components done is by motivating them to go x,y,x with other children.

While it seems like where we live homeschooling is massive, we are finding the groups not really the best experience. Not much kids my son’s ages (4 and 5) and mostly girls. There was only one boy child today and he told my son “I don’t want to be your friend and play with you”. My son does feel left out a lot. I don’t mind my sons playing with girls but the girls don’t really want to play with my son either. Other meet ups we attend not many kids go, maybe 2 families. And again it’s not really people my son can play with.

He is in sport and extracurricular. While kids will talk to him, it doesn’t really go much further as the kids usually have their own friends at school they care about seeing more the next day. Shpuld I just keep looking and hope my sons’ tribe is out there?


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Help! Why doesn’t my kid like read-aloud?

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My 5 year old daughter hates when we do chapter book read alouds. How do I help make it more fun for her? It feels self-indulgent to force it while I’m just listening to the sound of my own voice and she’s acting disinterested or talking over me. Do I just try different books until she’s more into it? Do I stop for now and just do picture books for a while longer? Any advice appreciated!


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Discussion Unsettling post this morning?

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Did anyone see the post in this sub this morning about possibly Ukraine? I read it before I’d had coffee and now I’m trying to find it again because I’m worried about the person who posted. Mods did you delete it? The post mentioned teaching amidst bombs and samsara.


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Online Ca online public school

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California online public school:

[https://californiaops.org/\](https://californiaops.org/)

Is anyone familiar with this? How flexible and stressful are the classes for middle school? My understanding is they have a teacher check up on you twice a week but u didn't need to attend the live classes


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Resource Voting/Elections Resources

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Hi, I’m looking for resources for a 4th grader to learn about voting and elections in the US. Ideally something free online- videos and websites and worksheets welcome. Anything you’ve been using? Thanks!


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Discussion kindergarten plus other kids at home and finding tutors

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I have a kindergartener, a preschooler and a baby/toddler. I work 12 hour shifts and husband works 24 hours in a demanding field. The weeks feel insane and I feel like I can’t even get my days into a routine. We have icon charts to help with our schedule but maybe I need to make them more detailed. I have a neurodivergent daughter we are homeschooling more so by necessity of her not being able to get the support she needs in my local school system. Overall it puts a lot on me but I’m happy to do it this year if it’s going to aid in her regulation and behaviors. Over the past 4 years she would have episodes of dysregulation lasting hours every single day.

We do attend play therapy twice a week. She also attends a nature based homeschool co op outdoors twice a week. The days we do lessons varies weekly by my schedule or my husbands. The days we do school if we are both home we try to get uninterrupted time without the baby trying to climb up onto the table and makes it hard to focus and learn. We have that down pat now but I’m wondering if anyone has any ideas for our days? For example some weeks she goes to nature school Tuesday and Wednesday and then she’s home Thursday through Monday. She has anxiety attachment, ADHD, and she’s overall very very busy. But sometimes it’s like it’s too much “down time” for too many days. She went from preschool/daycare full time to this change which I believe is healing for her. What could I do to make our days feel more smooth? I’m looking for ideas or insight for this type of schedule. Does anyone work shift work and homeschool and rotate with their partner? If I work a Thursday and husband works a Friday. We might do school Saturday morning. I try to keep those days consistent but it’s only consistent for about an 1.5-2 hours. Should I map out her day more? How do people find smaller micro schools? I’m learning of local co ops and none will take her until next school year.


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Help! Public school mid-year

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This is our second attempt at homeschooling. We homeschooled our ADHD daughter for 1st grade and it was so hard and I thought maybe it was just because I had a toddler and I was pregnant. We put her in public for 2nd. Now it's 3rd grade and I have a 3 year old and 1 year old but I'm not pregnant so I thought it would be okay. But I am struggling with anxiety and depression and finding the right treatment and I am finding it SO hard to manage my family, let alone homeschool. We are getting it done but it is HARD. Also my 8 year old is horrible with my 3 and 1 year old. I don't know if this is normal behavior between siblings and these ages or if this is extreme but she is constantly yelling at them, instigating them, picking fights with them, getting into their space. One of the 3 children is crying every 10 minutes. With my mental health struggles I'm considering putting her into public school mid-year but at the same time it just makes me feel like a failure. I also just have this belief that public school is going to ruin her innocence and spirit and that we will never get time together because I know when she was in public school she would come home,have a snack, and go play with friends for hours. And I guess Im just wondering how much we are supposed to sacrifice for our kids and when to draw the line... I don't know what I'm looking for here 🫤


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Help! Is homeschool right for us?

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We are a neurodivergent household. My 8yo daughter, audhd, twice exceptional, is currently in public school, and she was loving it up until this year.

We've always had in the back of our minds that we would pull her out from public middle school to homeschool, let her pursue her interests, and if she's looking at the academic route, let her get ahead with community college and online classes as she went through high school. We wanted her to go through elementary school mostly for the social benefits and to get strong routines. It's been very helpful for all of us. My partner and I have adhd as well, and we struggle to maintain strong routines without that external support.

She is a kid with a ton of social energy, and having so much time around kids her age has been a huge help as well. She has grown so much in that regard! She's an only child, and managing her social life before school took a lot of time and energy.

But this year has been bumpy. She started 2nd grade, and she's been in tears going to school almost every day. It's always something different, but usually a teacher being strict, or drama with friends (Jodi won't play with me at recess kind of stuff). It's been exhausting for me to have to spend ten minutes pushing my kid through the door every day, usually in tears. Not what I want for her, doesn't feel good for me, either.

That said, school is doing some important things. I work part time, my partner has two jobs, and homeschooling in such a way to provide social outlets for her each day sounds like adding another job to the mix.

We're in central MA, and there are homeschool opportunities, but not really much consistent. For example, there are some once-in-a-while classes at museums or parks, but no co-ops or regular, weekly things that are within a manageable distance from us. I also worry about depending on myself to get us there. What happens if she brings the same resistance to homeschool that she is bring to public school?

I know this subreddit will skew pro-homeschool, but I would love to hear from families with similar experiences, and those with an understanding of neurodivergent parenting. It isn't so easy as "try hard and it will happen" for us. We've found so many helpful tools for managing time and work, but I worry if we cast off from school entirely, we will do her a disservice by losing the structure that has helped her grow in so many ways.


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Discussion Unofficial Daily Discussion - Monday, October 26, 2026 - QOTD: What science or nature study will you be doing this week in homeschool?

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This daily discussion is to chat about anything that doesn't warrant its own post. I am not a mod and make these posts for building the homeschool community.

If you are new, please introduce yourself.

If you've been around here before or have been homeschooling for awhile, please share about your day.

Some ideas of what to share are: your homeschool plans for the day, lesson plans, words of encouragement, methods you are implementing to solve a problem, methods of organization, resource/curriculum you recently came across, curriculum sales, field trip planning, etc.

Although, I usually start with a question of the day to get the discussion going, feel free to ask your own questions. If your question does not get answered because it was posted late in the day, you can post the same question tomorrow to make sure it gets visibility.

Be mindful of the subreddit's rules and follow reddiquette. No ads, market/ thesis research, or self promotion. Thank you!


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Resources for kids with dyscalculia

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Does anyone know of any homeschooling programs in Marh that are geared towards kids with dyscalculia? My daughter is in 4th grade but Im struggling to find a program that helps with her learning style. She needs lots of visuals.


r/homeschool • • 1d ago

Resources, Texas history

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Looking for good resources that talk about the Freethinkers massacre that happened in Texas, not just the basic facts, but something that goes into details about what the town was like. I heard it was a German socialist community in which both girls and boys were pushed to go to school and further their education - which is pretty big for that time period. I also heard that they sucked at homesteading but managed to get by with the help of the indiginous people of that region, in which the settlers built their community in their land. I can't seem to find any information on if there was conflict but the lack of information I have may suggest that there wasn't any major conflict with the native community in that area- which I'm really interested in learning more about. I would like to learn more about the community not just for me but to teach my kids along with the massacre that happened and why it happened.


r/homeschool • • 2d ago

Help phonics reader to reader faster

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I taught my child (6yo) to read English using phonics. He reads very well, but slowly. Very few words are "sight words" meaning that he can just skip sounding them out and knows the word.

I've started teaching spelling with Evan Moore workbooks.

Part of what keeps reading from being fun is that it's slow and hard work for him. I'm wondering how to get him faster at reading.

Any suggestions?