r/SubredditDrama • u/[deleted] • Oct 02 '16
Gender Wars IF YOU ARE HAVING PROBLEMS GETTING A GF ON OKCUPID, DO LESS "SOUL SEARCHING" AND MORE DEGREE EARNING BECAUSE IT IS NATURAL FOR WOMEN TO OPERATE THROUGH A SURVIVALIST INSTINCT AND MINDSET
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u/buartha Oct 02 '16
DO LESS "SOUL SEARCHING" AND MORE DEGREE EARNING BECAUSE IT IS NATURAL FOR WOMEN TO OPERATE THROUGH A SURVIVALIST INSTINCT AND MINDSET!!
If women operate on 'survivalist instinct' maybe men should post pictures of themselves wrestling with and killing wild animals instead of talking about how much they earn.
After all, you can't eat a degree certificate when the going gets tough.
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u/Loimographia Oct 02 '16
Seriously in midwest Tinder outside the big cities, half the pics are of dudes standing next to dead animals (hunting). Some of the least sexy pics ever. Now I'm in Italy and half the pics are of dudes in speedos at the beach. I'm honestly not sure which is less sexy.
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u/Existential_Owl Oct 03 '16
I'm honestly not sure which is less sexy.
Guys in speedos standing next to dead animals?
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u/Manception Oct 02 '16
these aren't insecure guys, these are realistic guys that understand that if they marry, her working part-time or being a schoolteacher or being able to take a hiatus from her career is a huge benefit when it comes to raising the kids.
How surprising, it's the woman's job to raise the kids.
I can understand wanting someone who shares your basic idea of life, and fine, I would never live like that myself but obviously some people do. So why not simply find one of those women who are happy to be your housewife?
I don't understand why it's such a threat that a lot of people don't choose their partners like this. It's like straight people being threatened by the mere existence of lbgt people, or the monogamous by the non-monogamous.
Sure, everyone is no longer forced to conform to their one traditional and not very woman-friendly world view, but noone is making it impossible to choose. But we can't have that choice, we must cling to this bygone era by claiming women are biologically programmed to be hypergamous and make everyone unhappy in the process.
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u/lavenderlemonloser Oct 02 '16
On that note--I had no idea that men can't be school teachers! My boyfriend must be imaginary, wooo~
I'm sure their heads would explode if they found out I'm happily working in a STEM field making twice what my responsible, charming, lovely partner does rather than trolling for wealthy dick.
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u/Persony_McPersonface Oct 02 '16 edited Oct 02 '16
Random vent.
I had a hard time even getting through that thread. I'm from an upper middle class family and am college educated. Was engaged to a wealthy dude. He didn't want to work, his parents supported him. I was miserable. We broke up.
Years later met a low-income guy whose ex took all his money. He was couch surfing and had kids and barely made it through high school.
Long story short- we bought a cheap crappy house and got married and spent a few years being poor as shit.
We are ridiculously happy.
We set goals. He got a better job and we worked our asses off. Sacrificed together. Built a life together.
If you can love each other when you're flat broke, you're probably good to go.
So I know my situation is purely antecdotal, but I get super pissy when men accuse all women of being gold diggers. Sure. Some are. So are some men. But if you can't get a date, you might want to dig deeper. It might be you.
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u/PhysicsIsMyMistress Oct 02 '16
(((([UPDATE))))
Must be a very Jewish update
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u/WatchEachOtherSleep Oct 02 '16
"The professor updated quite Jewishly..."
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u/Lord_of_the_Box_Fort Oct 02 '16
"To Jew or not to Jew, that is the alt-right question." ---Shilliam Wakespeare, 2016
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u/freet0 Oct 03 '16
4 layers of parenthesis? We're hitting levels of Judaism that shouldn't even be possible!
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u/lveg Oct 02 '16 edited Oct 02 '16
I realize this guy is a troll (I hope), but why is it that Redpillers treat women like a dog they are trying to train? I know they don't think of women as actual human beings, but must they get so literal with this evolutionary bullshit? Talk to a woman!
EDIT: actually, maybe don't bother a perfectly nice woman who doesn't need redpill bullshit in her life. Bother like, Ann Coulter, or something.
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Oct 02 '16
Their scientific observations would be invalid if they interacted with the subjects.
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u/Vivaldist Oct 02 '16
I'm male. When okcupid use to ask for income, I experimented and said I made $100k per year. got nearly 100% replies. Not shitting you. Before I was getting around 10% replies, if that.
Well thats all the evidence I needed, case closed.
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u/Mikeavelli Oct 02 '16
Dating subs are all filled with frustrated people who can't get a date.
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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '16
Oh yeah bb, stick your thick wallet up my hoohaa