r/SubredditDrama • u/[deleted] • May 09 '13

Feminist posts selfies on /r/rateme. Gets defensive and is called a hypocrite.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '13

I fail to see how a man can pay for sex other than to degrade a woman and the enjoyment of her exploitation. Sex isn't difficult to come by any means for both men and women. I get propositioned for sex now and then (I don't like this one bit) and so do men. It boggles my mind there are even prostitutes around in this day and age. It's a stone age conventionalism. Also women have physical needs as well but we don't resort to desperate and illegal measures to obtain it nor should men under any circumstances.

I looked at her posting history and just saw this

Looks like someone needs to check their "attractive person" privilege. I'm serious, this is not a joke. Stephen Hawking hires girls for sexual use, I don't find that desperate. People have needs and not everyone looks like her. Just because you can get sex easily doesn't mean every single person in the world can. Who are you to judge them?

Also women have physical needs as well but we don't resort to desperate and illegal measures

Thank you for speaking for all women, maybe more would if other women would stop shaming them for what they want to do with their bodies. An older woman wants to sleep with a young guy with six pack abs and a giant dick and you are going to call her desperate for paying for it?

Also not every prostitute is exploited, one of my best friends is an escort and loves it, making like 100k a year

This person needs to keep her nose out of other people's bedrooms.

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u/Aezzle May 09 '13

I tell them the truth on a need-to-know basis. They don't need a handbook on my life, they don't need to hear about every one night stand I've had; it doesn't concern them.

and right after

I want to know EVERYTHING about my serious partners, it's one of my rules.

wow, just wow.

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u/[deleted] May 09 '13

So her implication that men are regularly turning down free sex that woman offer them in favor of paying money for prostitutes?

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u/yeliwofthecorn May 09 '13

Yeah... it gets worse.

do big men find it empowering small girls might be afraid of them? I always wondered this. Do they feel good about themselves they could hurt me with little effort? Or at least scare me?

I think this is what you get when you combine a sheltered life with a seriously fucked up perception of the world around you.

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u/Malakie00 May 09 '13

I was about to post that same quote about how men who get prostitutes OBVIOUSLY do it because they enjoy exploiting women. She seems to think she has a damn good grasp on what 100% of men think.

These 2 lines, in the same sub-thread no less, made me do a double take.

Yes I'm saying that. I want to know EVERYTHING about my serious partners, it's one of my rules. If you withhold this information from her, it's your burden to carry alone and you will be living a lie.

Followed almost immediately by:

I tell them the truth on a need-to-know basis. They don't need a handbook on my life, they don't need to hear about every one night stand I've had; it doesn't concern them.

W....what?

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u/lurker093287h May 09 '13 edited May 09 '13

Not sure if troll but.. Not troll :(

Also women have physical needs as well but we don't resort to desperate and illegal measures to obtain it nor should men under any circumstances

Women never pay for sex ok...

From this article

According to an article in Reuters, Kenyan locals estimate one in five single women visiting from rich countries are in search of sex. When British sociologists Jacqueline Sanchez Taylor and Julia O’Connell questioned women tourists in Negril, they found a third of them had sexual contact with local young men during vacation. Sixty percent agreed the men probably did it for money. In Jamaica, the men-for-hire are commonly known as “rent-a-dreads;” they comb nightclubs for women, which help them keep up with the latest sneakers or sunglasses. “Going rates for sex with men have been reported as high as $30 an hour in Jamaica. Men can earn as much as ten times the typical income,” says Belliveau. )

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u/zahlman May 09 '13

Sex isn't difficult to come by any means for both men and women.

I wonder what it's like honestly believing this.

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u/rampantdissonance May 09 '13

Hey guys, check her comment history for a good laugh.

I checked it, and it's not really funny as much as it honestly quite sad. She's terrified of guys who are just bigger. Her father died when she was young and

I have never really felt safe with any man I've been attached to.

A lot of times when people say daddy issues, they usually are being chauvinistic and dismissive. But these are real, like, I hope she gets appropriate treatment for mental health, because that has to be an unpleasant way to live.

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